Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education

Get ready to bust some myths as we pull back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood topics in human sexuality—masturbation. Joined by Dr. Eric Sprankle, acclaimed author and professor of clinical psychology, we're stripping away the stigma, debunking falsehoods and exploring the evolution of sexual psychology. We don't hold back as we take you on a journey from the origin's of the vibrator t...

Ever wondered how to have orgasms that leave you breathless? Are you curious about how to turn up the volume of your pleasure? DB is here to help! This episode will guide you on how to strengthen your orgasms, stimulate your body with sex toys, and increase pleasure with lube. If you've ever felt like something is a little off with your sexual experiences, this episode is for you. We will also dis...

Welcome to Season 9! In this special episode, DB sits down with the delightful duo April and Amy from the Shameless Sex podcast. As certified sex educators and founders of the sex toy company Hot Octopus, these two have a wealth of knowledge to share, and their dynamic friendship adds an extra layer of charm to this discussion! This episode takes you behind the scenes of their robust business part...

In our last re-release between seasons, DB discusses sex and porn addiction with Erica Garza, author of the memoir "Getting Off: One Woman's Journey Through Sex and Porn Addiction." Her writing has appeared in Time, Health, Glamour, Women's Health, and VICE. Born in Los Angeles, she currently lives in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. Check her out at  www.ericagarza.com . FIND ERICA'S BOOK HERE Getting Off: ...

Enjoy this re-release of a Season 5 favorite! DB dissects the intersections of sexuality, spirituality, and religion with Reverend Pleasure. Rev. Pleasure is a Movement Chaplain working to create a culture of sanctity, pleasure and wholeness for Black femmes, girls, and womxn. She works with individuals and communities to heal trauma as a result of patriarchal and religious violence. Follow her on...

Please enjoy one of DB's favorite episodes from the archives as we gear up for Season 9! In this episode, DB speaks with Sabia Wade, the founder of Birthing Advocacy Doula Trainings, For the Village, Inc, Loads of Pride, Logistics, as well as a soon-to-be-published author of their book, Birthing Liberation: How Reproductive Justice Will Set Us Free. They discuss birthing liberation, the future of...

In the Season 8 Finale, DB chats with the brilliant Sean Saifa Wall, an intersex activist, scholar, and star of the new documentary "Every Body." They explore identity, breaking free from binary, and the importance of broadening our understanding of gender and sex. They also touch on intersex joy as a way to counterbalance trauma. Join for this insightful wrap-up to Season 8!  (0:16:20) - Intersex...

DB sits down with Winnie, Community Outreach and Training Chair for Stand With Abortion Now ( SWAN) , to talk revolutionary optimism, punk rock-style activism, TikTok fundraising, and unorthodox strategies to outwit anti-abortion protestors in Orlando, Florida. They dive into SWAN's extremely successful Tiktok presence, why it's resonating, and how to use social media as an effective tool in activ...

DB sits down with Dr. Lexx Brown-James, therapist and sexologist, to shed light on maintaining healthy conflict resolution, intimacy, and communication in a long-term relationship. They also dive into Dr. Lexx's work in the world of sex-positive parenting, unraveling what it means and how to address personal trauma and therapy's role in the journey towards becoming a sex-positive parent. In a worl...

We're thrilled to welcome back Pidgeon Pagonis, a powerhouse in intersex education and advocacy! From their #EndIntersexSurgeries campaign to their continual focus on prioritizing intersex joy, their recent endeavors are nothing short of inspiring. Pidgeon shares more about their activist journey, highlighting the need for self-care to avoid burnout in this work. DB and Pidgeon also discuss the he...

Calling all bi babes! Join us for an amazing conversation with Zachary Zane, author of "Boy Slut." DB and Zach discuss her bisexual awakening, the challenges and privileges that come with being bisexual, and the power of vulnerability in sharing personal stories. Zachary generously shares his journey of understanding his sexuality and the impact of his public persona on his decision to be open abo...

Join us we welcome our favorite guest back to the pod, DB's mom Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt, to talk about all things vaginal health. This episode takes a close look at the prevalence and importance of diagnosing vaginal infections and conditions, which Dr. Levy-Gantt has experienced firsthand through her patients' stories. She emphasizes the importance of in-person diagnosis and enlightens us about th...

On this episode we welcome the delightful Alayna Joy, lesbian and LGBTQ+ YouTuber and content creator who speaks candidly about her "late bloomer" queer experience. Alayna opens up about the evolution of her queer identity, pandemic-induced gay awakenings, and the importance of centering mental health while embracing your queerness for the first time. It's a conversation that will enlighten, inspi...

Enjoy a BONUS episode of Curious Sex Ed! In this episode, DB and Mariah tackle the age-old question... how do I reach orgasm? They cover the many factors that can impact one's ability to reach climax, sharing personal anecdotes and discussing various factors that contribute to pleasure. Gain valuable insights and practical advice to help you attain the elusive "big O." For more Curious Sex Ed, che...

Listen in as we welcome the award-winning psychologist, sexologist, and professor, Dr. Candice Nicole, for a riveting discussion on her groundbreaking sex research. DB and Dr. Candice explore the fascinating world of sex and pleasure, examining the impact of different partnerships on sexual function. Dr. Candice shares intriguing insights from her research, emphasizing the importance of centering...

You don't wanna miss this bonus episode! Listen in as DB reads aloud her personal journey of self-discovery and self-pleasure through her Magic Wand masturbation experiment. Listen in to hear about the profound impact that daily Magic Wand use had on her health, wellness, and sexual experience. Prepare to challenge societal norms and embrace the transformative power of pleasure. Don't miss out on...

Join DB for an enlightening exploration into the wonderful world of kink and fetishes with the brilliant Arielle Greenberg, a seasoned kinkster and author of the upcoming book Super Freaks. They cover a range of topics from positive representations of kink in media, to the intersection of queerness and kink. Arielle even gives DB a kink quiz! Arielle also shares her insights on the most common and...

What happens when Roe v. Wade is overturned, and how does it impact the abortion landscape in the US? Join us for a riveting discussion with Garnet Henderson, senior multi-platform reporter for Rewire News Group and host of ACCESS: A Podcast about Abortion. DB and Garnet delve into the history of the medical system's relationship with abortion, and the rise of anti-abortion violence, and how folks...

Join us for a fantastic conversation with the incredible couple, Elle and Ezra! They discuss their journey from friends to lovers and how that impacted their friend group and their own lives. They also discuss trans joy, using comedy to combat haters, and the importance of advocating for trans rights in today's political and media landscape. Elle and Ezra share their unique perspective on the powe...

In this episode, DB interviews the brilliant Dr. Jennifer Mullan, founder of Decolonizing Therapy. Dr. Mullan shares her professional journey and how her experiences in therapy have shaped her current work. She explains the concept of Decolonizing Therapy and discusses the impacts of historical and intergenerational trauma on our lives. Dr. Mullan also explores the importance of centering rage and...

In this episode, DB interviews Ambreen Molitor, the National Director of Innovation at Planned Parenthood Federation of America. They discuss the role of AI in sex education, cutting-edge tech initiatives by Planned Parenthood, and the growing importance of data privacy in sex tech. Tune in for a captivating conversation on the future of sex education and the innovative strides being made in the f...

DB dives headfirst into a hilarious and informative conversation with sexologist Goody Howard, MSW, MPH about oral sex, confidence inside and outside of the bedroom, and the 18 different types of orgasms! Plus, they discuss how to build a small business as a sexual health educator and how science can help us understand pleasure. She'll have you laughing, blushing, and taking notes.  —— How Goody u...

In this episode, DB interviews Alex Hall from The Bottom's Digest to discuss all things bottoming! Alex shares insights from his personal experiences with bottoming and debunks some of the common misconceptions associated with it. The two dive into the topic of food and its impact on sexual play, revealing some surprising connections between diet and sexual performance. Who knew that what you eat...

Listen in as DB interviews Dr. Cassandre Dunbar, host of the podcast Be Well, Sis, about the realities of motherhood and wellness. They dive deep into what it means to truly be well as a mother and the importance of prioritizing true self-care. Dr. Dunbar shares her expertise on recovering from childbirth, the benefits of taking time for oneself, and the impact that self-care can have on a mother'...

In this bonus episode of Curious Sex Ed, DB and Mariah tackle a topic that many people struggle with: the intersection of sex and religion. A listener writes in to ask about their experience growing up super religious and feeling guilty about masturbation and sex. DB and Mariah share their own backgrounds and religious upbringings, and offer insight and advice on how to combat shame and guilt when...