Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education

What can 1998's How Stella Got Her Groove Back teach us about love, age gaps, and black romance? DB and beloved return guest Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons dive into the film's portrayal of intimacy, sisterhood, and the complexities of age-gap relationships. Plus: cringy accents, objectifying Taye Diggs, and the long-term cultural impact of this iconic rom-com. GUEST DETAILS Dr. Candice Nicole is an a...

Ever wondered what "sex work is work" really means? Or why criminalization makes life more dangerous for sex workers? Inspired by this week's episode about Pretty Woman , DB breaks down the most common misconceptions about sex work, why advocacating for sex workers is crucial for bodily autonomy, and how recent policy implementations are impacting the safety and rights of sex workers today. Plus,...

There's plenty to love about the 1990s classic Pretty Woman … but just as much to cringe at. Savannah Hankinson, former assistant to rom-com royalty like Nancy Meyers and Rob Marshall, joins DB to unpack the good, the bad, and the downright creepy. From a disturbingly predatory George Costanza to the strange class politics bubbling under the surface, we break down whether this beloved rom-com clas...

Inspired by this week's Rom-Com Vom episode about  Notting Hill , DB tackles a listener's question: Is it even possible to take nudes safely? We're digging into how to protect your privacy online while still keeping it sexy. Don't miss it! CONNECT WITH US Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb Twitter: @sexedwithdb Threads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB ROM-COM VOM SEASO...

Join us as we kick off Season 11 with the first of a whole new series of Rom-Com Vom! DB and her mom and iconic return guest, Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt, dive into 1999's "Notting Hill." From awkward dinner parties to the problematic "I'm just a girl" speech, we unpack how this classic holds up in 2025. How much did this 90s gem make us vom? Listen to the end to find out! 07:52 The Taming of Successfu...

DB dives headfirst into a hilarious and informative conversation with sexologist Goody Howard, MSW, MPH about oral sex, confidence inside and outside of the bedroom, and the 18 different types of orgasms! Plus, they discuss how to build a small business as a sexual health educator and how science can help us understand pleasure. —— How Goody uses her academic background to build sexual confidence...

New year, new you, new pleasure goals! Start 2025 by busting myths about one of the most misunderstood topics in human sexuality—masturbation. DB is joined by Dr. Eric Sprankle, acclaimed psychologist, to strip away stigma, crush falsehoods, and explore the evolution of sexual psychology. (0:17:42) - Masturbation Education (0:21:28) - Masturbation Myths and Motivations Explained (0:35:49) - Religi...

Our holiday gift to the lovely listeners of Sex Ed with DB? The keys to closing the orgasm gap! DB sits down with Dr. Laurie Mintz, psychologist and professor of human sexuality, to explore the pleasure-packed insights from her books and research. Unwrap the secrets to better relationships and more fulfilling intimacy this season! DR. LAURIE MINTZ'S BOOKS: The following links are affiliate links t...

Ever wondered how to have orgasms that leave you breathless? Are you curious about how to turn up the volume of your pleasure? DB is here to help! This episode will guide you on how to strengthen your orgasms, stimulate your body with sex toys, and increase pleasure with lube. If you've ever felt like something is a little off with your sexual experiences, this episode is for you.  —— Masturbate f...

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In the season finale of Rom-Com Vom, DB teams up with Justine Kay and Natasha Scott-Reichel from  2 Black Girls, 1 Rose to break down How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days —the movie where Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey fake it all the way to happily-ever-after. Tune in for commentary on hard nips, love ferns, and a certain iconic yellow dress we're still salivating over in 2024... —— SEXUAL HEALTH PR...

This week on Rom Com Vom , DB unpacks one of her all-time favorites with Dirty Lola : Never Been Kissed ! We dig into Drew Barrymore's questionable return to high school, the ethics that didn't make the cut, and the red flags hiding in plain sight. Join us as we dissect the weird age gaps, misguided romance, and all the moments that make this '90s classic a little harder to watch now… even though...

DB and Mariah from Sex Ed Files take on Love and Basketball , the romance that made "play me for your heart" a defining relationship move. They dive into Monica and Quincy's chemistry, debate if love should ever be this competitive, and wonder… could Love and Basketball actually be one of the healthiest rom-coms out there? Thanks to our sponsor for this episode, carafem! Learn more about carafem h...

DB teams up with Jill Lissner , go-to sex ed princess, to break down the veritable, undeniable fat-shaming mess that is Shallow Hal . It's the vommiest of rom-coms, and we're not holding back, folks! Join us as we dig into the dated humor, glaring double standards, and take a hard look at why fatness is treated like the ultimate punchline onscreen. It's a rough watch, and we're here to roast it al...

In today's bonus podcast episode, DB shares her reflections on the election and what it means for our reproductive rights, contraception access, and bodily autonomy. She also guides us on how we can fight back against Trump's administration to get the reproductive care we deserve. When you're ready, listen in.

DB and Bre dive into 50 First Dates , where Adam Sandler's Henry courts Drew Barrymore's Lucy… every single day. They break down the film's take on love, consent, and the tricky territory of dating someone who can't remember you. Is it sweet, or just deeply unsettling?  —— SEXUAL HEALTH PROS! Check out DB's workshop:  Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand  ( https://www.sexedwithdb.com/...

DB and the delightful Florence Bark and Reed Amber from Come Curious dissect Twilight , the film that made eternal love seem… exhausting! They question the appeal of a 100-year-old high schooler, debate whether they're Team Edward, Team Jacob, or just Team Therapy, and wonder if this series might be to blame for all our worst relationship choices. And despite all the cringe, our brave hosts ask......

In this episode of Rom Com Vom, DB and the hilarious Melissa Strype , comedian and director, tackle 10 Things I Hate About You, the 90s rom-com that gave us table dancing, horny principals, and a fine AF young Heath Ledger. Is Patrick Verona charming or just manipulative? What moments made DB and Melissa cringe the hardest? And seriously... what do all these boys see in Bianca? —— Melissa Strype i...

In this episode of Rom Com Vom , DB and the incredible Logan Ury , dating coach and author, break down You've Got Mail , the 1998 rom-com that taught us all to fall in love through email (or did it?). They dive into the film's exploration of online romance, corporate takeovers, and questionable meet-cute ethics, discussing what still warms our hearts and what belongs in the trash folder.  —— Logan...

Calling all sexual health professionals! You won't want to miss this minisode. DB shares all the deets on building a thriving sexual health brand—from being authentic and creating buzz-worthy content to networking like a pro. She breaks down exactly what it takes to grow your audience and turn your passion into profit. Plus, get the inside scoop on her workshop for aspiring sexual health pros . Do...

In the premiere of Sex Ed With DB's new miniseries Rom Com Vom, DB and the amazing Francesca Ramsey , comedian and writer, break down Hitch , the 2005 rom-com that tried (and maybe failed??) to make Will Smith the ultimate dating guru. They dig into the film's take on love, charm, and some seriously questionable dating tactics, exploring what still works about  Hitch , and what's aged like milk. T...

Love them or hate them, rom-coms are here to stay—and we're digging into the good, the bad...and the painfully outdated. Rom Com Vom is a Sex Ed with DB mini-series where we break down the classics, cringe at the tropes, and call out the toxic messages about love and sex along the way. Sharp takes, real laughs, and a lot of eye-rolling ahead. Stay tuned! —— Want to Win a $100 Lion's Den Gift Card?...

In this minisode, DB answers a listener's question about porn categories, exploring the most popular genres in recent years, the rise of hentai, and why ethical porn consumption matters. Stay tuned until the end for an exciting announcement! ——   Do you have a silly sex story to share, need some advice, or have thoughts on the episode you just heard?  Send us a voicemail  for a chance to be featur...

In this episode, DB addresses one of the most common listener questions in Sex Ed with DB history: how often should one be having sex? DB dives into the societal expectations surrounding sexual frequency, the impact of the media on these perceptions, and the importance of emphasizing quality over quantity with it comes to sex. ——   Do you have a silly sex story to share, need some advice, or have...

DB responds to a listener concerned about oral herpes and dives deep into destigmatizing this commonly-misunderstood STI! DB breaks down the prevalence of oral herpes, its symptoms, and how it spreads, plus offers tips for managing outbreaks and knowing when to seek medical care.  ——   Do you have a silly sex story to share, need some advice, or have thoughts on the episode you just heard?  Send u...