Sex 101

Sex 101 Podcast Final episode!! It is so bittersweet for us to close this chapter of our podcast. We have been SO deeply appreciative of all our listeners and viewers and your vulnerability and courage and your support in making this podcast such a success for the last 2 years.   In this final episode, Toby and Stormy each share 3 things they have learned from the podcast.   And per usual, Toby an...

Interested in kink but don’t know where to start? Unclear on how to best bring up your kinky desires to your partner?   In this episode Toby and Stormy dive into 5 ways to start having kinky fun today! Start adding the spice you desire with these actionable steps.   Each week Toby & Stormy answer anonymous listener questions and we LOVE your questions so much! This week Toby and Stormy answer...

Do you know your love language? Do you know your partner’s?   Confused how to show love in your partners language?   Ready to learn what each of the 5 languages are and how to better “speak” them?   In this episode Toby and Stormy explore the 5 love languages and how they can help you in your relationship.   Each week Toby & Stormy answer anonymous listener questions and we LOVE your questions...

Feeling frisky but not sure how to let your partner know?   Worried about rejection but want to let them know you’re in the mood?   Get ready to learn 3 ways to let you your partner know you are turned on.   In this episode Toby and Stormy dive into ways to let your partner know you are in the mood and invite them in!     Each week Toby & Stormy answer anonymous listener questions and we LOVE...

Think you know what men want in the bedroom? Well think again!   There’s no need to be confused by what your guy really wants to make things hot.   Get ready to learn what the male brain and body desires?   In this episode Toby and Stormy dive into what men want in the bedroom.   Each week Toby & Stormy answer anonymous listener questions and we LOVE your questions so much! This week Toby and...

Ever wondered what women really want in bed? Feel like you want to be a better lover but have no idea what she wants? Female desire have you perplexed? In this episode Toby and Stormy share based on research and personal anecdotes, what are the 5 things women really want in bed. We also answer your listener questions on sexting and can we blinded by great sex? Send your listener questions to be an...

Mismatched libido causing angst in your relationship?   Wanting to reconnect to your sex drive but don’t know how?   How long has it been since you felt turned on?   In this episode Toby and Stormy explore libido, and sex drive mismatch, and 5 holistic ways to support your sex drive.     Each week Toby & Stormy answer anonymous listener questions and we LOVE your questions so much! This week T...

There are times when you just aren’t in the mood. Life, responsibilities and physical health can often lead us to needing a break from sex. But how do you tell to your honey? What’s the best way to say no so your partner doesn’t feel rejected?   We have some great ideas for you, so you don’t need to say “I have a headache”…unless you do!   In this episode Toby and Stormy dive into YOUR NO. Why it...

Ever made a resolution and not kept it? Well these are much more fun than a gym resolution 😊   Want to have better sex and intimacy but don’t know where to start?   Desiring some pointers for improving your sex life this year?   In this episode, Toby and Stormy explore making Better Sex New Year intentions and 5 tips for having better sex and intimacy this year.   Each week Toby & Stormy answ...

Been a long time since you felt that spark with your partner?   Want more passion and playfulness this year?   No idea how to seduce your lover?   In this episode Toby and Stormy explore the art of seduction, why it is important in long term relationships, and 9 tangible strategies to start seducing your lover today.   Each week Toby & Stormy answer anonymous listener questions and we LOVE you...

What is it like to go to a sex party? How do you find one? What will happen after you walk through the door? Want to set yourself up for success at your first sex party?   Well! You have come to the right podcast and the right episode!   In this first episode of the new year and the 3rd season, Toby and Stormy dive into sex parties and what couples need to know BEFORE they go. We provide you quest...

Our listeners asked:   What do we need to know before becoming a throuple?   Newly single and wants tips to mingle?   A virgin and wants first time sex to be amazing?   Want to know the best sex move? It’s surprising 😊   Curious about the most pleasure prone position for women?   Want to know the ideal lingerie men desire?   In this episode Toby and Stormy do an ALL listener question episode to c...

One orgasm is great! Multiple orgasms might be even better!   On this episode we  explore all the wonderful ways that you can learn and grow to become multi-orgasmic. Also, we discuss how you can practice it yourself and with your lover.     Each week Toby & Stormy answer anonymous listener questions and we LOVE your questions so much! This week Toby and Stormy answer your questions on birth c...

Feel like you have no idea how to use your fingers on a woman’s body?   Wanting to spice up your foreplay but not sure how?   Want a great way to bridge that pleasure gap with your woman?   Well! You have come to the right place and the right episode!   In this episode Toby and Stormy explore why and how to use your fingers to bring more pleasure to your woman. Including 7 tips to pleasure vulva o...

Want to be a sexy elf and give a sexy gift to your lover?   Feeling like you want to spice up the gift giving this holiday season?   But are you overwhelmed by the choices for giving a sexy gift?   Well! You have come to the right place and the right episode! We got you and will set you up to rock the sexy gift giving this season.   In this episode Toby and Stormy jam on why giving a sexy gift can...

Want to talk about your sex life with your partner but don’t know how?   Feeling like your sex life is a little blah but not sure how to spice it up?   Have needs, wants and desires and no idea how to communicate them with your lover?   In this episode Toby and Stormy explore how to talk about sex with your partner and give your 5 thoughts and questions to get the conversation started. Couples tha...

In the midst of a divorce people can feel lost and lonely   What will life look like now and a year after a divorce? Dating and sex,  post-divorce, can be daunting.   In this episode Toby and Stormy dive into divorce and what the single life might look like. We give you five tips to help you heal! From break up sex, rebound sex, grief, healing, and filling the space, we talk about it all.   Each w...

Feel like you think about sex all the time?   And at the same time feel like it is a taboo subject?   Want more sex AND feel badly about it?   Well! You have come to the right place and the right podcast, Sex 101.    In this episode Toby and Stormy dive into the mixed and confusing messages we get about sex. From the media, to religion, to society/culture… we get inundated with messages and images...

Have a sex question but don’t know who to ask?   Something you want to know but feel silly asking it?   Wanting to up your game and be a better lover?   Well! You have come to the right place and the right podcast, Sex 101.    Toby and Stormy answer your questions on cold sores and herpes, squirting and female ejaculation, post-baby vaginas, shaving your genitals, period sex, and lasting longer in...

Mutual masturbation is the hands on sex that you’ve been missing out on.   Ever wanted to try it but not sure how to bring it up?   Ready to try it but don’t know if your partner is ready?   In this weeks episode we dive into the art of mutual masturbation.   Toby and Stormy share on the benefits and 6 steps to start incorporating this fun into your sex.   They also answer listener questions on as...

Want to talk to your honey about sex but don’t know how to start?   Feeling anxious about bringing up sex?   Wanting to share your needs and desires but no idea how to start that conversation?   In this weeks episode we dive into the why and the how to talk about sex with your partner.   Stormy and Toby have 8 extremely helpful ways to have a healthy conversation about your needs and wants sexuall...

Want to drive your woman wild with pleasure?   Love giving oral sex but don’t know if what you are doing is rocking her world?   Wanting to up your game oral game?   In this weeks episode we dive into oral sex tips for men, through the female lens.     Toby and Stormy share on the how to with 9 different tips to help you give her more pleasure “down south”.   They also answer listener questions on...

What the heck is sensual massage?   How do I give one to my partner?   Why offering one to my partner is an amazing gift of intimacy?   In this weeks episode we dive into the art of sensual massage and give you the step by step how to.    Toby and Stormy offer a ten step process that will have you feeling ready to offer your honey a sensual massage tonight.   They also answer listener questions on...

Do aphrodisiacs really work?   How can you start using them?   Do they improve our lovemaking?   In this weeks episode we dive into APHRODISIACS.   Toby and Stormy give you the 411 on what these concoctions do, tell you if they work, are they safe and how to use them safely.   Don’t forget listener questions! This weeks listeners ask about porn addiction and if there is such a thing as too much lu...

Wondering what in the heck is eroticism?   No idea why you would want to cultivate it?   Curious how to play with your erotic energy solo and in your partnership?   Well then this episode is for YOU!   In this episode Toby and Stormy share 4 ways to cultivate eroticism in your life and why that matters so much!!     Toby and Stormy also answer listener questions on bad sex and porn for sex ed!   S...