Secluded Thoughts

Do you act with integrity when no one is around or do you just do the bare minimum and only put your best foot forward when you have an audience? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: 130. Who are you when no one is looking? Get the FREE 30 DAY Self Improvement Challenge: https://secludedthoughts.com/challenge LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@se...

When you have a decision to make or you're presented with an opportunity do you look within before you decide or do you consult other people? Are you looking within or looking to everyone and everything else outside of you? FREE GUIDE - 3 STEPS TO OVERCOME PROCRASTINATION:  https://secludedthoughts.com/procrastination RELATED EPISODES 152. Your need for approval is holding you back 144. Have t...

Life is gonna come around and hit you upside the head every now and then but there's a purpose in this attack lol. Let's discuss how to make the best of your wilderness season and what it means. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #73 - How to navigate the ups & downs of life Get the Self Reflection Journal for FREE! Just sign up for my email list: https...

I know you don't want to hear this but we all have the same 24 hours in a day. Stop mismanaging and wasting yours and then complaining that you have none or thinking other people have an advantage over you. You need to manage your time better sis. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #82 - You DO have enough time, you just don't use it wisely Get the Self Ref...

Do you recognize the person staring back at you in the mirror everyday? Or are you living a life that forces you to fade away to accept it because you’re afraid to to start living for you? FREE GUIDE - 3 STEPS TO OVERCOME PROCRASTINATION:  https://secludedthoughts.com/procrastination RELATED EPISODES 157. "I wish I knew this sooner" 156. Your destiny requires more from you 38. Who were you...

When you're working on something tirelessly and you're not seeing results it can be very tempting to quit. But that will guarantee that you NEVER see those results than you're working for. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #66. For when you feel like giving up JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection...

Stop keeping people on your roster just to say you have a roster when they don't align with the kind of life you see for yourself. It's time to start taking yourself and your values seriously. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #96. Do your relationships align with your core values? JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinven...

Stop letting your life pass you by by being a bystander in your own life. It’s time to start living boldly and authentically. FREE GUIDE - 3 STEPS TO OVERCOME PROCRASTINATION:  https://secludedthoughts.com/procrastination RELATED EPISODES 153. Get out of your comfort zone; It’s making you miserable 152. Your need for approval is holding you back 146. 2024 will NOT be your year if you fear success...

You're constantly disappointed because you lack boundaries and think that everyone is going to disappoint you. You don't have to accept that sis. It's time to get your boundaries in order. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #89. Stop "hoping for the best but expecting the worst" JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com...

Contradicting yourself isn't always a bad thing. As we grow we come into new information and wisdom and some of our beliefs change. Give yourself grace in the process and don't be afraid of change. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #101. Girl give yourself some GRACE while you grow JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinven...

I took a 2 week sabbatical to go within and spend time with myself and God + took my first solo trip at the end of it. Here's what I've learned about myself and life. TOPICS DISCUSSED: Things that HUMBLED me Your delivery matters Discerning when I’m wrong Boundary problems “Don’t be afraid to dance” Spend more time with me outside of errands I’m too judgmental  Looking within FREE GUIDE -...

Aspire to always give your BEST in everything that you do, even if it will look different sometimes. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #126. Hold yourself to a high standard JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/rel...

We're human. Stop beating yourself up because you don't get it right every time. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #150. Your old desires won't go away just because you decide to be better JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https...

How many times have you learned something and procrastinated on doing it and then you finally do it and think "I wish I did this sooner!" Or have you ever heard something a million times but then it FINALLY clicks all of a sudden and then you decide to take action and it works out but you regret waiting so long? This episode is for you. FREE GUIDE - 3 STEPS TO OVERCOME PROCRASTINATION:  ht...

Be the type of person that people celebrate your goals when you announce them because you always do what you say you're going to do. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #126. Hold yourself to a high standard JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journa...

When you get clear on the life you want to live you will start outgrowing people who resonated with the older version of you.. but then your people pleasing tendencies get in the way... let's talk about it. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #128. It's time to put an end to your people pleasing sis JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthou...

If you know you've been chosen to do more and be more you need to start acting in alignment with that. You need to hold yourself to a higher standard and operate with integrity for the best version of yourself. FREE GUIDE - 3 STEPS TO OVERCOME PROCRASTINATION:  https://secludedthoughts.com/procrastination Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/QCgP8jYk4pI RELATED EPISODES 130. Who are yo...

You need your mental capacity to focus on what's important. It's time you get some of these nagging things on your to do lists out of the way. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #127. Don't bring the same ideas, goals, and fears into 2024 JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://seclu...

Instead of constantly complaining about the life you live and allowing yourself to settle and be complacent in certain areas because it's not where you want to be - create a plan to start living the life you want.  If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #126. Hold yourself to a high standard JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinv...

In honor of my birthday being this week here's 27 things I've learned by 27. RELATED EPISODES 124. How to build a relationship with God 53. From self proclaimed Atheist to Christian and how it saved my life 110. You need to start moving in silence 40. STOP ignoring your intuition 109. How accountability will change your life 135. How to build your confidence and self worth 129. Delulu is t...

Being the best version of yourself sounds great in theory but it's hard work because your old desires never go away. You have to fight to kill your flesh - so to speak - everyday and give yourself grace in the process. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #150. Your old desires won't go away just because you decide to be better JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Plan...

He is not a man so he can't lie (Numbers 23:19) so if he says you are made in his image and that you are loved who are you or anyone else to question that? It's time to build our confidence in what GOD says about us not other people. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #124 - How to build a relationship with God JOURNALS: https://secludedthoughts.com/journal...

You've wasted enough time doom scrolling on social media, sis. It's time to reclaim your attention and focus on things that will build you up vs waste your time. RELATED EPISODES 110. You need to start moving in silence 101. Girl give yourself some GRACE while you grow JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedtho...

This one is for the people pleasers. It's time to stop saying yes to people and dreading the day because you really didn't want to do it. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #128. It's time to put an end to your people pleasing sis JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoug...

How long will you put off the nagging feeling you have to do that thing? How long will you let it torture you? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #127. Don't bring the same ideas, goals, and fears into 2024 JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journa...