Secluded Thoughts

Everything you want is on the other side of your comfort zone… and fear. RELATED EPISODES 60. You've been too comfortable 101. Girl give yourself some GRACE while you grow 35. This is why you think you're behind in life Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/9jAXfJ6d-tM JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secl...

Don't think you can slack off in one area of your life and then be the best in another area. It will apply to everything you do. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #126 - Hold yourself to a high standard JOURNALS:  https://secludedthoughts.com/journals  Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://seclud...

So you decided to build a relationship with God but you're dealing with all the pastor politics of people wanting to give opinions on certain pastors and condemn you for it.. here's what I've learned in my early days of trying to build a relationship with God. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #124 - How to build a relationship with God  JOURNALS: htt...

It's time you stop letting your need for other people to approve of you and support you hold you back. You can't be in a place where you never take action on what you want to do just because you don't have the support of family and friends.. or even let that hold you back along the way. JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal...

You've outgrown this version of yourself. It has taken you as far as it can take you. It's time to shift into new habits and patterns to get the things you're working toward. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #121 - Stop running from the call. You've outgrown this version of yourself JOURNALS: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CO...

A lot of what you do before you elevate will be unseen. Only you will know how bad you're struggling right now. But eventually, when you're propelled into what you're praying for, people will think you're an overnight success. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #76 - You're planted, not buried JOURNALS: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET&...

Have you ever felt like you were working on yourself or working toward a goal and you've been waiting to see the fruits of your labor for so long but nothing seems to be changing?... and you're just.... waiting...? It can make you feel hopeless but you can't give up. Here's how to deal with your waiting season. RELATED EPISODES: 86. Don't settle for "what if.." 124. How...

Choose your words carefully and stick to your commitments. It reflects poorly on your integrity and confidence when you don't. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #120 - Honor your commitments JOURNALS: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedTho...

Don't revisit any closed doors just because you're single on Valentine's day miss girl. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #71 - Listen before you give them a second chance JOURNALS: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcas...

Just because you decide to be the best version of yourself and walk in alignment with God's plan for your life doesn't mean that your fleshly desires go away. But how many of us beat ourselves up for it? Let's talk about it. Suggestions: https://secludedthoughts.com/suggestions LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com...

I used to be afraid of contradicting myself on my platform. I was afraid of saying the wrong thing and being wrong or crucified if I changed my mind later. But I learned something very important and I'm going to share it with you today. This perspective literally freed me from that fear. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: 101. Girl give yourself some GRACE while y...

It's time to start putting yourself first and being selfish (in a good way). You gain nothing from putting yourself last. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #114. Give yourself as many chances as you gave that man LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram:  h...

This is the only way to fully love yourself and feel confident in who you are. Once you do this people won't have any ammunition on you and you'll feel absolutely invincible. Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/4evXeJynu74 RELATED EPISODES 145. The 4 Most Important Things to Prioritize in 2024 130. Who are you when no one is looking? 125. Are you hiding behind titles? 140. Navigat...

Be mindful of what you give your time to because you might find yourself drifting and feeling lost in life. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #117 - Are you too busy/distracted for God now that he has blessed you? LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram:  http...

We weren't meant to be alone forever.. but have you been alone for so long that you're coming across as desperate? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #116 - You date at the level of your self esteem... so make sure it's HIGH LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPo...

Do you realize hopping on every trend is making you blend in with everyone else? Let's start thinking for ourselves in 2024. Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/1uWpDBD8nBI RELATED EPISODES: 97. What are you doing with your pain? 130. Who are you when no one is looking? 128. It's time to put an end to your people pleasing sis 140. Navigating people's expectations + being accep...

Change what you consume to align with what you desire. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #118 - Stop getting caught up in the destination and enjoy the journey JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Vision Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/vision Healing Journal: ...

Childd the devil is always working hard so make sure you're working harder! If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #117 - Are you too busy/distracted for God now that he has blessed you? JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Vision Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com...

Don't overlook the season you're in right now because it's not aligned with where you'd "rather" be. BOOK: The Courage to Be Disliked - https://amzn.to/48TvrmI RELATED EPISODES: 138. 3 Mindsets to adopt in the new year 128. It's time to put an end to your people pleasing sis 124. How to build a relationship with God 119. Change what you consume to align with what you de...

You can have fun and get some entertainment but be mindful of the type of "entertainment" you consume and what it does to your mindset or how it distracts you. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #118 - Stop getting caught up in the destination and enjoy the journey JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  h...

Your tough times were for YOU. They were to mold you. And even if you made it out the suburbs vs the hood your experience is still VALID. Stop making people feel invalidated your work ethic because you weren't traumatized OR make you feel like you have to prove that you were traumatized to deserve success. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #113. Girl stop tryi...

We all want success but I'll bet the closer you get to it the more you'll start to fear it. PEOPLE PLEASING 128. It's time to put an end to your people pleasing sis RELATED EPISODES 145. The 4 Most Important Things to Prioritize in 2024 144. The SECRET to TRUE FREEDOM 134. How to handle conflict as the best version of yourself JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthou...

You might think putting yourself last is noble but sis.. what has this done for you so far? How can you continue to justify this when it leaves you so depleted?  If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP 114. Give yourself as many chances as you gave that man JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secl...

But... what about the things you're supposed to be doing for yourself? If you committed your time to do something for you why do you easily change your plans when other people need things from you? What about your personal commitments? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #115. Stop overextending yourself, miss sacrificial lamb JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:...

Everything you want to achieve and become stems from these 4 things so if you prioritize them you will not only become a better person but you will achieve your other goals as well. RELATED EPISODES: 144 - The Secret to True Freedom 126 - Hold yourself to a high standard 100 - It's time to UPGRADE your Standard 135 - How to build your confidence and self worth JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planne...