School Of Attraction Podcast

Which is better?  Tinder and all it's online dating cousins? Or putting in the time to learn to cold approach women?  Well as it turns out, learning to cold approach women during the day or night is about so much more than just having a life full of beautiful women.  It's about embarking on a journey of self-improvement.  So much of what you discover when you're learning to cold app...

Did you know that woman have a completely different way of rating a guy's attractiveness to the way men rate women?  This difference is cause for a lot of confusion for guys wanting to learn how to attract women, and make a really good first impression. Once you understand how women go about assessing a man's attractiveness, then you can learn to make changes to the way women first perce...

Trying to go out regularly picking up women in bars and clubs can be mentally draining - While you try to learn all these social skills, you are constantly facing a barrage of rejection, and you can quickly find yourself worn out and The truth is that what many men forget while trying to learn to attract women, the most important thing they should be doing is having fun. If you're not having...

Did you know that more than having money, and more than being attractive, there's one trait that you absolutely MUST have to attract women?  Did you know that even if you're a good looking guy with a decent job, that without this trait then women aren't going to want to date you?  What is this trait? And how does it help men attract women?  The trait is empowerment, and after giving...

What do women want?  What kind of men do women date?  What kind of men do women sleep with?  Are women supposed to be monogamous?  Are women genetically meant to seek out men for safety?  Many questions like this about female sexual selection are based on stories that we hear growing up, and then stories we hear online and from our friends.  Very often, these stories are completely wrong - and lea...

When Tinder launched in 2012, it was super-easy to get matches and dates. You simply got a small batch of decent photos, threw them into your Tinder profile, and started matching with women in your area.  But in 2019, that has all changed - The sheer volume of Tinder users has created an arms-race of competition among men who have to find better and better profile shots for their online dating pro...

Today I'm going to share with you 10 scientifically proven ways to get a girl to like you using the power of human psychology.  Be careful with this advice because they are subconsciously and subliminally powerful and need to be used responsibly.  1. Smell amazing 2. Use Smiling As A Reward 3. Tell Her A Secret About Yourself 4. Make Strong Eye Contact 5. Make Your Shoulder : Waist Ratio As D...

Have you ever had a woman do something that just leaves you exasperated thinking Why the heck to women do this?? Whether it's pretending to have a boyfriend rather than saying they aren't interested, taking forever to reply to text messages, cancelling dates at the last minute, Stealing your food instead of ordering their own, or pulling away from sex at the last minute.  In this video I...

Today I'm going to share with you some of the biggest mistakes guys regularly make on Tinder.  Because trying to get matches, and text women, and get them out on dates can be difficult or downright impossible if you're doing these few things wrongly.  In this podcast I'm going to look at the 3 topmost frustrating reasons guys don't get results on tinder.  1) Women don't re...

Women feel sexually attracted to men who behave in very specific ways.  When you're learning to pick up women because you want to get laid or because you're looking for a relationship, you're going to discover very quickly that if you have the wrong approach and the wrong dating mindset that women will easily friend-zone you.  So today I'm going to discuss 5 strategies to make...

When I was in my early 20s and late teens, I suffered with debilitating anxiety and was trapped in my parents house for months.  Today I want share with you the strategies I used to overcome my anxiety.  What worked? What didn't? I'm going to share my 3 top strategies for dealing with anxiety once and for all, whether it's social anxiety, or health anxiety, or any other kind you can...

Are you getting increasingly frustrated with learning pickup? Are you starting to feel your self-esteem going downward rather than upwards because you're feeling like nothing you can do can get you any success with women?  Are you feeling like maybe every dating coach and pick up artist out there is just feeding you lies?  Perhaps right now is the wrong time to be thinking about girls complet...

One of the most important things every man needs in his life is a passion for the things that he does week to week.  These passions lead a man to discover his purpose, the thing in life that makes him want to get out of bed in the morning and gives him resilience against life's ups and downs.  When you're trying to learn how to attract women, it's usually more important to first spe...

What are the key skills that CEOs, top sales executives, and entrepreneurs have in common that men who want to learn to become more successful with women need to know?  As it turns out, there's a lot we can learn from the corporate world about consistently improving our results in a highly competitive market. 

I first got involved in the Pick Up Artist community 15 years ago just after I read the book 'the game'.  After a lot of initial excitement and some initial success, I realized that while I was talking ]to women, and I was getting some dates, and I was getting laid, I still wasn't feeling completely confident or happy.  In this Podcast, I'm going to talk you through my pua jour...

When a girl doesn't text you back, it can be extremely frustrating. Especially when she seemed happy to give you her number in the first place.  There are a number of reasons why girls give out their numbers but then never end up going on dates with guys, and in this video, we're going to explore those reasons.  We're also going to look at what you can do to ensure you don't ge...

5 Lessons about Sex that every man needs to know to be better in bed.  Most men waste energy trying to learn a whole range of sex techniques so that women will be more satisfied.  But the key to being amazing in bed and giving a woman mind-blowing sex is to understand that her most erogenous zone is her brain.  If a man can tap into a woman's mind to make her feel extremely aroused during sex...

Did you know that witty banter with women is rated as one of the sexiest traits a man can have?  But how do you go about improving your ability to tease women, and keep interactions playful?  More importantly, how do you go about doing that without accidentally insulting women, or come across as a dancing monkey or an outright tryhard?

I interview one of our ex-students Royce who talks about his experience learning pickup as an Asian student - some of the most important lessons he learned on his journey as well as some of his personal favorite experiences. 

The fear of failure is one of the biggest impediments to truly becoming successful at anything.  We all know that in order to succeed, then you need to repeatedly fail at things over and over again until you get really good at them. But knowing this fact, and actually LIVING this fact are very different.  I want to talk about why the fear of failure and the belief that we are smart are intimately...

Did you know that there's a right way and a wrong way to compliment girls?  The wrong way to compliment women will lose respect and cause her to want to get away from you.  The right way will flatter her, and make her like you more (because of course, you have good judgment) A lot of guys think that complimenting women is wrong and that you should instead adopt a 'Keep her mean, keep her...

What at the 12 surprising ways any man can radically begin to improve his success with women?  In today's podcast I'll be sharing the 12 resources I used to massively up my game which most dating coaches never tell you about

10 years ago, I was the most successful guy I knew when it came to attracting women - What did that journey look like? How has my life changed over the last 10 years as a result? I'm going to share with you some of the insights I gained about my life as a man, about attraction, about what I think many men are doing wrong on this journey.  I'm also going to share some of the surprising be...

In this interview with Steve Mayeda, we're cover a ton of bases. Feminism, Male Empowerment and Liberation. The Myth of Male Power, and let me tell you, if you want a Men's Movement ... here it is!

Listen to this hour-long seminar on the nature of masculinity in the 21st century.  I'm going to be talking about what masculinity really is, and cover a whole range of ways that you can develop your own sense of masculinity and 'manliness' so that you become much more attractive for women.