School Of Attraction Podcast

I'm going to give you four strategies you should be using every time you attend a speed dating event to start filling up your match cards with women's numbers.  Speed dating has been around for decades, and I've had a lot of viewers message me asking if I could make a video about speed dating.  The great news is that it's actually not that hard to get really incredible results...

The secret success formula that allows anyone to become successful at anything in a surprisingly short amount of time.  Learning how to become successful with women, or in business can often prove very hard work, and leave many people feeling like they're in a rut that they don't know how to get out of.  For many of us, success can feel completely unobtainable, and we don't know how...

Did you know that going NoFap can have potentially dangerous side-effects?  It's really important to understand the underlying reasons why you masturbate frequently so that you can learn to best manage your symptoms when you go NoFap.  Going NoFap can actually cause men to take on other forms of addictions as a way of compensating for struggling to manage one's own stresses and frustrati...

Is playing hard to get really the best dating strategy for men? Should we pretend to be less available, take longer to reply to texts, act mildly disinterested to make women like us?  I believe this is a terrible dating strategy that will ruin many more chances of success than it will help you to be more successful with women.  In fact, if you want to get more women to chase you and be attracted t...

Is online dating rigged? Are apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge, purposely screwing with you to make you pay for matches?  Today I'm going to explore what's happening below the hood for online dating apps and websites, so you can better understand why things are so frustrating.  But don't be too alarmed, there is a silver lining. As it turns out, just because it's hard to get...

Toxic femininity is the evil twin sister of toxic masculinity that many women pretend doesn't really exist.  In this video, I take the time to explore the world of toxic femininity, first outlining some of the more dangerous lessons our society teaches to young women, then to look at how we should handle cultural baggage that men and women bring to their dating lives.  It can be hard to know...

Did you know that your Tinder profile could be right on the verge of getting a tonne of matches?  Tinder and other online dating apps can be very frustrating, but when you realise that they are actually really similar to other kinds of online advertising, and you start treating your Tinder profile like an online ad, all of a sudden you can use the same principals to radically change your profile. ...

What are the worst flirting habits that cause men to get rejected? How many are you guilty of?  In this video, I'm going to look at 5 bad dating habits that I consistently see are causing men to get rejected by women. Whether it's because they're boring the women to death, or because they're making them feel nervous or uncomfortable.  If you want better results in your dating l...

Imagine if you could get women to start chasing you on Tinder rather than you having to put in all the work? Most men don't realise how differently women use tinder compared to how we use it - Once you understand the completely different mindest women have when swiping on guys, then you can better understand the frustrating things that women sometimes do.  But More importantly, you can start...

Find out how to avoid falling into the friend zone ever again.  Getting into the friend zone sucks,  there's a girl you like, and you've been hanging out with her for months now, and you finally find the courage to tell her how you feel, and she says, I really like you "LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS".  But when you have a crush on a girl, it's really important not to wait too...

Where can introverts easily meet women? So you're an introverted or shy guy - and you want to meet women, but you're really not feeling like going to bars and clubs to approach random girls, or approaching random girls on the street? Fortunately, there are lots of alternatives for men to meet women that won't require any cold-approach at all.  Introverted dating can best be enjoyed...

Why did your ex leave you? How can you be more attractive to a woman? What do women want in a man? Are women just hypergamous? Why do relationships end?  Today I'm going to explore the Value Exchange Theory of Mate Selection, which goes a long way to explaining why some couples thrive while others fall apart.  It will also help men to better understand not just their past failed relationships...

Today I want to tell you how to successfully approach girls - but most importantly I want to tell you how to do it without being creepy, scary, or intimidating.  Unfortunately, the internet is full of guys approaching women in ways that are hyper-aggressive, sleazy, or just plain creepy, and man men are left feeling like this is the only way to approach a cute girl and have any kind of success. So...

Did you know that Introverts can flirt with and attract women just as effectively as extroverts can?   Unfortunately, most dating advice out there is designed for extroverted guys, so sometimes it never feels like it's going to work for you.  Today I'm going to show you how some of the introvert's superpowers, these are the strengths inherent to introverts that allow them to attract...

Did you know that trying to sexually escalate early with a woman in a bid to get a one night stand or casual sex relationship is probably the wrong strategy for you right now?  Most guys get focused on their sexual escalation skills rather than the rest of their attraction skills, and as a result, they miss out on a lot of interactions that may have led to sex eventually because they pushed too ha...

Attraction is not a choice! This is a phrase you've probably heard around the place -  Frequently on my Youtube comments, I'll have men decrying dating coaching as a scam activity because you can't negotiate with attraction.  So is this dating mindset patently wrong? Is that what I believe? Is that what I tell myself to sleep well at night as a dating coach for over a decade?  Oddly...

Why do women always seem to go for bad boys?  Is this actually true? or is it just something people say without much proof?  Well it's certainly true for many women - but like many things related to the psychology of sexual attraction, the truth is more complex and varied than the stereotypes imply In this video, I'm going to compare the stereotype of men liking trashy dumb women to the...

Trying to get matches on Tinder can sure be frustrating, but rarely is it more frustrating when your matches suddenly drop to almost 0, and you have no idea why it happened.  As it turns out, there is a very real tinder saturation problem - this is an issue that will affect all online dating apps, and could well be happening to you. So what can you do to fix the problem? If you've suddenly no...

Trying to go out regularly picking up women in bars and clubs can be mentally draining - While you try to learn all these social skills, you are constantly facing a barrage of rejection, and you can quickly find yourself worn out and The truth is that what many men forget while trying to learn to attract women, the most important thing they should be doing is having fun. If you're not having...

How can a man become more empowered?  Many people confuse having power with being an empowered human being, and yet the two often don't occur at the same time.  Women are turned on by empowered men, it's one of the top 5 traits women want to find in a man, but so often we walk around feeling dis-empowered because we focus so strongly on the things we don't have any control over. 

ith so many supposed studies out there about the science of attraction, many of which contradict each other, how do we find out which scientific dating research we can trust, and which we should ignore?  Human sexuality is incredibly complex and diverse, and as it turns out humans are very prone to misinterpreting all kinds of data, but most significantly we misinterpret statistical data.  Unfortu...

Are you getting frustrated with going on dates with women and they never seem to want to catch up a second time, and you're going crazy trying to work out why?  Well thanks to some fantastic research from the only Psychologist to win a Nobel Prize - Daniel Kahneman, I'm going to show you a simple trick you need to be using to dramatically change how she feels about you after a first date...

What's the secret to getting a perfect girlfriend? Are you struggling to find girls that you think are worth dating? Does it seem like the world is full of bad eggs? Have your past relationships taught you that women aren't all that they seem when the relationship starts?   Perhaps you are just on the hunt for a great partner and came across this video.  Today I want to talk to you about...

How can you STOP being a nice guy?  Have you ever got the impression that women walk all over you because you're too nice? Do you constantly get thrown into the friend zone? Do you feel like even your mates are taking advantage of you? Does your long term partner lose sexual interest in you really quickly?  Odds are, you could be suffering from nice guy syndrome, and Today I'm going to s...

In this video, I'm going to share with you 7 dating psychology books that weren't written by pick up artists that every man needs to read if he wants to become more successful with women.  This list of books will help you develop a keen understanding of human psychology which you can learn to apply to attract more attractive women - The best part is that these books are written by real e...