School Of Attraction Podcast

My complete guide to going out and getting fantastic Tinder profile photos that guarantee you'll get matches and dates.  The most difficult part of any Tinder profile is getting the right photos is having access to good quality shots - but most men aren't lucky enough to have any lying around.  This guide will help you get out there right now and get some great shots you can use to give...

Learn how to get a friend with benefits relationship EASILY.  How can you know if a woman is open to casual sex? How can you create a friends with benefits relationship with her? How can you maintain a casual sex relationship? I'm going to show you how to find, attract, and establish friends with benefits relationships without making the kinds of mistakes most men regularly make with women. 

How do you know if a woman you've just started dating is actually a good catch?  Is there a way to tell if she's about to make your life a living hell once you get into a long term relationship?  Today I want to share the 3 relationship flags that every man should think about prior to getting serious about a new woman in his life.  This is the dating advice that I wish someone had given...

I joined a Sugar Daddy online dating website (seeking arrangement) to see what it was all about. As it turned out, I had a really fascinating experience that taught me quite a bit about the current state of women's online dating as well as the true nature of human relationships.  I've definitely learned things that can be directly applied to other online dating apps like Tinder, Bumble,...

How has online dating changed during the coronavirus outbreak? Do women use Tinder or Bumble differently? Do they look for different kinds of men?  What are the most curious ways that women have now changed their dating behaviours?  With Covid-19 on the top of everyone's mind, we are all coping with the current situation in different ways.  I've noticed some very curious changes that hav...

What is your attachment style?  How does that attachment style determine whether you're going to face an ongoing string of bad relationships, or whether you're going to find an incredible woman? Attachment theory has been around for over 50 years, and it studies the ways in which our early childhood impacts our anxiety levels around relationships as adults, and can have a massive impact...

2 powerful strategies to help you stop being needy around women.   Women consistently rate neediness as being one of the biggest turn-offs - and yet so many guys find it hard to reduce the amount of needy behaviour that finds its way into their interactions.  Imagine if you could stop feeling so 'thirsty' for women and instead started focussing on what you really wanted from a woman and...

What if self-confidence doesn't really exist?  What if people who are trying to learn to be more confident are going about it all wrong?  Almost all of us want to know how to be more confident, and in this video, I want to show you how the key to becoming more confident might be to STOP trying to act more confident, and instead focus on being whatever you are when you let go of your insecurit...

We've all heard that women are turned off by weak men - And that the best way to keep a woman attracted is not to show any weakness at all, to remain stoic and alpha.  But most men feel a lot of conflict about this solution (rightfully so).  After all, one of the reasons to have a long term partner is for emotional support and intimacy.  So what's a better solution? How can you share you...

Do you find yourself fixating on being able to attract those women who seem to be the hottest in any room? The ones who work for hours to look as good as they do? The ones who work hard to ensure they have every man's eyes on them?  Getting fixated on these women is actually a dangerous trap that many men fall into - and they get fixated on the wrong women for the wrong reasons, and often thi...

What do women want in a man? Do they want the bad boy? Do they want the rock star? Do they want the strong and silent type?  No matter where you look online, trying to work out what kind of man turns women on is complicated, and you're likely to get mixed messages, and that's frustrating.  As it turns out there are many different kinds of men that women like, many stereotypes of guy that...

When women play games with and try to manipulate you,  it's frustrating, and angering - and very often it makes us feel mad at the woman, and sometimes women in general.  Last week I went on a few dates with a woman who started to play games with me, and I felt like it was a fantastic learning opportunity for both myself and my audience.  When you can understand the deeper reasons why women p...

A lot of our dating frustrations have their roots in our blindspots.  Our blindspots are the results of the rules of thumb we have about women, about yourselves, about sex, and about attraction - And if these rules that we hold for ourselves are mal-adaptive, then it can prove to be very difficult to attract women.  I want to go over where these rules of thumb come from, what some of the most comm...

Sick and tired of your tinder match rate constantly dropping, and it eventually seems like no women in your area are going to be interested in you ever again? Working on my own Tinder, I found a really fantastic strategy for both halting the Tinder ranking decay, and for increasing the variety of women that end up matching with you.  Sometimes focussing on a tighter niche of women can prove to be...

Establishing and Maintaining Casual Sex Relationships can be tricky at the best of times. Today I'll be bringing Lloyd from TheSingleGuy channel to discuss some critical insights on the big mistakes guys make when it comes to keeping casual relationships healthy.  If you've ever had a woman fall for you and you only wanted to keep things casual, or if you've had women in the past ge...

Open relationships can be emotionally complicated at the best of times, and I've learned the critical importance of a technique called emotional zeroing out which has really helped keep my partner and I happy even when things get complicated.  A few nights ago at a swingers party, I felt myself getting triggered by a few things that were going on. Rather than get mad at my partner and lash ou...

Are you thinking about doing a pickup Bootcamp over a weekend?  Are you getting really excited by all the hype and positive reviews you're seeing on the company's website?  Today I want to talk about why most men should be very wary of doing a weekend pickup Bootcamp - and why I rarely ever run them myself.  And under what circumstances I DO run them. For guys who want to learn to be mor...

When you meet a woman, why should you expect her to want to go on a date with you?  This is a confronting question that many men fail to ask themselves.  Today I'm going to be discussing the dating mindset that guys need to have before trying to learn to attract women. Because sometimes the best strategy is to work on yourself as a man first before trying to pick up girls.  This is the dating...

If you're struggling to get the women you ideally want, and your feeling lonely, should you lower your standards with women to get some attention?  The whole notion of lowering standards to attract women is based on the social pressure and judgement men put on each other to only date physically attractive women, even if you can't meet any and end up feeling frustrated.  In fact, when you...

Did you know that quite a few people who think of themselves as being introverts aren't really introverts at all?  There's a lot of confusion about what being an introvert or being an extrovert is really all about - and sometimes that can play a big role in defining how we see ourselves and our social capabilities.  From its early beginnings with Carl Jung, to its present-day place in mo...

Is Hypergamy really something men need to conern themselves with? Is there solid science behind the term? If you aren't wealthy or good looking, are you doomed to be alone and unloved for the rest of your life? There's a trend in our current society to make men believe that women are only interested in men who are good looking, tall, and wealthy - and even though the science clearly show...

Did you know that with the right strategies in place, solo approaching women can be just as much fun as going out with a bunch of wingmen?  For most guys, the idea of going out to meet women all alone is completely alien, but I'm going to show you a strategy that has proven to get me MORE success than going out with friends, and frequently includes women trying to set me up with their friends...

Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and all other online dating platforms are all just different kinds of online advertising mediums.  Online advertising has its own success philosophy, and if you want to get lots of dates in your online dating profiles, then you should adopt the same kinds of mindsets as you would if you were advertising on Google Adwords or Facebook.  Online dating apps like Tinder and Bumble...

I Want to share my life-long battle with anxiety and depression with my viewers - Too many men and women struggle with anxiety disorders on a daily basis, and it's easy to feel all alone.  Anxiety can strike any one of us at any time, and it's important that more people talk openly about their experiences no matter how unflattering they may be.  I myself felt a lot of shame about the anx...

What do women REALLY want in a man? What traits do you need to have to attract a woman in your life?    That seems to be a debate that has been raging amongst guys for a long time, but there really isn't a debate - the answers have been well understood by sociologists and psychologists for quite some time.  Today I'll be sharing the 6 most attractive features that men look for in women -...