School Of Attraction Podcast

Why do relationships fall apart even when there's love, effort, and good intentions? In this episode, Damien sits down with relationship and sex coach Monica Tanner to dig into the patterns that quietly destroy partnerships — from male vulnerability and the fear of being truly known, to resentment, communication breakdowns, and the role sex plays in long-term intimacy. They cover the misconce...

In this episode of the School of Attraction , Damien Deaker sits down with relational leadership coach Mike Elliott to explore the profound connection between childhood imprinting and adult intimacy. Mike shares his powerful journey from a "perfect on paper" life to a spiritual and relational rock bottom that led him to discover the critical difference between survival-based "me&quo...

In this episode of the School of Attraction , Damien Deaker sits down with international best-selling author and relationship coach Michelle Hoffman to deconstruct the "learnable skills" behind finding a lasting partnership. Moving beyond the surface-level "swipe culture," Michelle introduces a layered strategy for identifying the right partner by focusing on personality qualit...

In this episode of the School of Attraction , Damien Deaker sits down with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers —a licensed psychotherapist, researcher, and best-selling author—to deconstruct the invisible barriers that keep men and women from truly understanding each other. The conversation dives deep into the "covert messages" we receive from childhood through puberty, exploring how societal cond...

What happens when a volcanologist and geochemist applies rigorous scientific standards to feminist theory and evolutionary psychology? You get one of the most intellectually honest conversations about gender differences, attraction, and modern dating politics you'll ever hear. Marc Defant, Professor at the University of South Florida, didn't start out studying human mating behavior—he st...

Tim Wienecke returns to the School of Attraction podcast for a fascinating deep-dive into red pill philosophy and manosphere ideas. Rather than dismissing or blindly accepting these concepts, Damien and Tim (host of the American Masculinity podcast ) take a thoughtful, nuanced approach to examining core beliefs about hypergamy, the dating marketplace, male and female attraction, and relationship d...

In this episode of the School of Attraction podcast, Damien reconnects with Chris Manak, a long-time dating coach and friend, to explore the evolving landscape of dating. They dive deep into what it’s really like dating in Southeast Asia, why many men mistakenly think moving overseas makes romance easier, and how cultural differences shape attraction. The conversation also unpacks how apps have re...

In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast , Damien sits down with Marcus, host of Secrets of a Sugar Daddy , for a candid deep dive into the sugar dating lifestyle. From jaw-dropping stories to surprising success stories, Marcus shares how he went from a traditional marriage to navigating one of the most misunderstood dating subcultures in the world. You’ll discover: The realities vs. mi...

What does it really mean to be masculine in today’s world? In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast , Damien is joined by returning guest Wienecke for a raw, thought-provoking conversation on masculinity, aggression, and the modern challenges men face. Together, they break down: Why so many messages about being a man today are extreme, unhealthy, or rooted in control The four core mascu...

In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast , Damien sits down with head coach Denny Jones to unpack how the dating landscape has radically changed over the past decade. From the early days of Tinder’s explosive rise to today’s hyper-competitive online dating scene, they explore why so many young men now feel overwhelmed, socially anxious, and disconnected. You’ll hear eye-opening insights...

Dating coach Ryan Dixon has noticed a drastic change in the mindsets of men over his 13 year coaching  career.  And this mindset is making it ever harder for them to find success in the modern dating landscape.  How can men find success? What should they be avoiding? How can they develop their confidence in a world that can feel like it's designed to keep them down?  Ryan Dixon - www.schoolof...

What is social media doing to modern dating trends? How is it hurting women just as badly as it hurts men?  Where do we go as a society moving forwards from this point?  How to we bridge the gap between men and women who are hurt and traumatised by past dating experiences?  Hayley Quinn coaches both men and women as a professional dating coach - To find out more visit her at: www.hayleyquinn.com 

Men's councillor discusses the path to self-confidence and a strong sense of masculine identity.   Why are men suffering so much in the current climate, and what are the biggest emotional hurdles men are facing now when it comes ot dating, and how can they overcome them.  American Masculinity Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/7N41BVkVzYcGmeUB8qabbt?si=8844adb01db3414b

Could a chatbot actually help you get better with women?  As a professional dating coach, I was skeptical too… so I put ChatGPT to the test. In this video, I run through 15 real-world dating skills — from Tinder openers and flirting, to photo feedback and planning great dates — and I compare what AI said… to what I would recommend. Which dating coach wins: human experience or artificial intelligen...

Get a top - down view of the complete attraction process from approaching a woman to getting her number, to asking her home.  What are all the points of attraction, and how do they fit together, when should you banter? When should you build rapport? How can you avoid rejection?  This makes it easier for single men to discover what part of the their attraction process they need to work on to get be...

I’m going to reveal a little-known but powerful method to activate a woman’s “attraction switch” that most guys completely ignore. Forget the surface-level conversations and typical pickup lines—this is about building deep rapport through a series of targeted questions that create genuine connections. When you learn how to build rapport the right way, you’ll see immediate results. Women will be mo...

How can a completely average man learn to go from going on 1 date a year to going on 4 or more dates a week?  This funnel plus multipliers strategy can show men how to date and attract more women without ever having to cold approach again.  This is a dating coaching strategy that nobody else has shown you before.

Want to level up with women FAST?  If I lost all my social skills today, these are the EXACT steps I’d take to dominate dating—no sleaze, no BS.  From notebook hacks to Latin dance moves, this is your cheat code to confidence, charm, and a killer social life. Dating tips, social skills, women advice—start winning now!

Struggling with instant rejection when approaching women? You’re not alone. Many guys feel like women are dismissive or unfriendly during initial interactions in bars and clubs. But here’s the kicker: my students don’t face this issue as much as you'd think! In this video, I’ll reveal why most men experience cold responses and how my clients are able to connect more naturally—by simply avoidi...

I explored feminist reddit groups to try and work out why so many men are feeling negative about the movement.   I was shocked to find so much negative and toxic sentiment aimed at men in general.  It's not all feminists, it's not even half of them, but it's enough to muddy the waters and give the whole feminist movement a bad reputation for anyone casually watching.  I'm going...

Being cheated on by a woman is one of the most painful experiences we can go through in a relationship.   I'm going to give you a list of the most common red flags men should be looking out for both before you decide to get into a long term relationship with a woman, and when you're in a long term relationship and suspect something bad could be going on.  While you can't guarantee a...

In this episode, we dive into one of the most powerful and misunderstood books ever written about masculinity — Iron John by Robert Bly. Whether you're struggling with confidence, feeling lost in your purpose, or just tired of being the “nice guy” who finishes last — this book has something to say to you. I break down Bly’s core ideas — from the Wild Man, to father wounds, emotional descent,...

In this powerful and no-fluff episode, Damien sits down with world-renowned relationship expert Susan Winter to dismantle the outdated myths holding men back in modern dating.  From why confidence without authenticity turns women off, to how practicing with zero-pressure conversations can transform your social life, this episode is packed with gold.  Susan shares insights from her decades of coach...

Learn how to approach women at night in a bar in a variety of situations. What do you say when you first approach a woman?  What's the difference between approaching a group of 2 women or a group of 3 women?  What's the easiest group of women to approach and get good results?  Dating And Relationship Coach https://www.schoolofattraction.com/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&ut...

Are common myths about self-confidence holding you back?  I'll dive into the top 5 misconceptions about self-confidence that are making it harder to build genuine self-assurance. Discover the truth behind these confidence myths, understand what self-confidence really is (and isn’t), and learn practical tips to break free from these limiting beliefs.  Whether you're struggling to feel mor...