School Of Attraction Podcast

Stop approaching women out of your league and first start focussing on your social intelligence.  So many guys who are just starting to learn to attract women get focussed on approaching women who are too far up the social hierarchy and wonder why they're failing so frequently. Social Intelligence is a trait that any guy can learn which will help him attract the hot girls he always wanted. Bu...

When approaching women, guys there are 3 big mistakes most guys make that get them rejected, and they're really easy to fix.  Whether you are running out of things to say, or you simply have no idea why she doesn't like you back, the reasons for getting rejected are really quite simple to fix. I've been coaching men for almost a decade now, and getting rejected every time they appro...

When guys start working on being successful at attracting women, there are 6 common mistakes I see guys making over and over again.  Most guys start the journey of learning how to talk to girls, but they quickly hit a wall where they stop getting any better and they burn out and quit.  Today I'm going to discuss what these mistakes are so you can avoid them and learn how to better attract wom...

A few years ago, one of my clients managed to get Scarlett Johannson to give him a call on the phone - how did he do it?  I'm going to talk with Brendan who is an ex-student who has gone on to live a colourful sex life including orgies, many casual sex relationships and more.  What were the most important lessons he learned about becoming the kind of man women want to get down and dirty with?

It's no secret that I believe strongly in fighting for men's rights, and that I think feminism usually takes political issues way too far, but I'm also not a fan at all of the Redpill and Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) movement.  All these ideologies act as big red flags to emotionally unstable people who have vendettas against the opposite gender.  I'm going to talk about why...

What do women want? What do women want in a man? What is a masculine man? What is a feminine woman? What is Masculine Sensitivity? These are questions which get asked a lot, and in this day and age, it can be a very tricky question for some to answer.  In this Podcast, Damien Diecke and Diviya Nand discuss some of the powerful aspects to being the kind of man that women sit up and take notice of....

Throughout society men are being taught that learning to find a high quality partner isn't that important, and will just 'happen' naturally down the line.  But increasingly, men are becoming frustrated with their dating lives because they don't know how to talk to women.  We invest 100s of thousands in our career but never think to invest in learning to attract better women int...

No matter what kind of results you want to have with women, whether it's to find that one special woman for a fulfilling long term relationship, or just live the single life and sew some wild oats - There's no denying that our mindsets lie at the center of our success (or lack thereof!)  So what are the mindsets that truly set apart the men who seem to always have such an easy time talki...

Would you like to know how to consistently have more fun and more successful relationships? Would you like to know how to embrace your passions and purpose while still having a fantastic relationship with an amazing woman? Would you like to have relationships explained to you in great detail by one of the world's foremost relationship experts? Some of the topics covered include: - the importa...

Do you find yourself constantly falling into childish emotional states around women? Do you get jealous or insecure or generally controlling around women? Do you struggle with rejection and act out?  These are all signs that you haven't learned to deal with your inner child appropriately.  When women say they want a man and not a boy, what they really want is a man who knows how to manage his...

So many times guys see cute girls and refuse to take any action because she's so hot that she must be out of his league.  Correlating hot women with leagues is a terrible strategy that's going to guarantee you never have success with women.  What you want to find a girlfriend, or just pick up a hot girl in a bar, you need to be aware that there is a league of sorts at play that's re...

Did you know that most men miss out on the most amazing sex of their lives?  Did you know that the beliefs you have about casual sex can play a massive role in how eager women will be to go to bed with you? If you're struggling to get one night stands with girls, or you're never feeling fulfilled by your sexual experiences, then this could be the missing piece of the puzzle.  I know it c...

Knowing how to get her interested in casual sex is a critical skill most guys struggle with. The reason the struggle so much is that they don't understand what's in it for the girl. When it comes to casual sex for women the truth is that it's NOT just about the sex. It's about a complex emotional journey that women want to go through before they will WANT  no strings attached c...

Toxic Masculinity has really polarised a lot of people recently especially with the recent release of the Gillette ad campaign. I took the time to have a deeper look to see what was really going on in society that's causing so many women and some men to get upset at the modern notion of masculinity.  What I discover is that there are some really valid problems that deserve attention but that...

Ever wondered how to tell if she's approachable? I'm going to share the red and greed flags so you know exactly what to look out for, especially when working out which girls to avoid. Knowing if a girl is available, and knowing how to tell if she wants to talk to you is a very important skill to learn. Most men have no idea and as a result, they have to face a lot more rejection and awkw...

There's a lot of negativity being shifted towards men in society right now but who's to blame?  In this interview with Fascinating opinion-youtuber - Yogioabs, we're going to delve into the world of MGTOW, Feminism, Red-Pill, and Men's Rights.  This is one of those times when I get to interview a man who I respect, but don't agree with all the time - It's a way to exp...

Over the last 2 weeks, I've read through the entire Rational Male book by Rollo Tomassi, to better understand the philosophy behind the red pill movement.  It turns out there's plenty that I agree with, but there's also a lot that turns out to be teaching very unhealthy mindsets.  Do I think men should be turning to the red pill philosophy to improve their lives? For many it would d...

In this talk, you’ll learn what it takes to be happy. Damien Diecke shows that “getting stuff” is the long and unstable way to happiness, and shares the direct, efficient and effective way to you achieving sustainable happiness that lasts. In this podcast, you’ll learn: - How pursuit, not pleasure is the key to your happiness. - What you can learn from the happiest people ever recorded. - The prac...

Few things can be more soul-destroying than going through an emotionally abusive relationship, and yet almost all men go through this at one point or another in their lives.  But what's really important is how you learn to process the abuse you received during your relationship, and what kind of accountability you take for the role you played. 

Have you ever been caught in a neediness spiral? Where you can see yourself getting more and more needy with a girl, and she's getting more and more turned off by you, but the more turned off she is, the needier you become?  We've all had it happen to us at least once - And most guides that teach us how to be less needy focus on controlling our behaviours in the moment.  But in today&apo...

I hear a lot of debate about whether online dating or cold approaching is a better way to meet women. Often times guys sit in one camp and hurl abuse at the other.  But in truth, when it comes to meeting girls, both can be great strategies but they do have their own pros and cons.  Sure you could invest time in both, but the truth is that you'll eventually need to invest your time in just one...

I want to explore my personal evolving views of what is going on in the aftermath of the #METOO movement, especially the notion of affirmative consent which has a lot of men left scratching their heads.  I've spent a lot of time talking to women trying to understand their take on the events and the general psychological environment of the movement and why it exploded so quickly and what it&ap...

Let's first explore why women test men when they first meet them, to understand why women want to put us on the spot and make us feel uncomfortable.  Then let's look at some of the most frequently asked 'shit tests' that men frequently receive, and how to bust through them in a way that leaves women liking us even more.  Shit tests are a golden opportunity to demonstrate to a w...

2 Dating professionals discuss the good, the bad, and the ugly in their experiences with open relationships with their long term partners.  Are open relationships the natural path for humans?  Or is monogamy still the way to go? How do you bring up conversations about open relationships with your partner?  How should you react if she brings up the idea of an open relationship with you?

In this in-course training sound byte, Damien is going to show you step-by-step how to make the perfect approach when you see a woman you really want to talk do but have no idea what to do or say.