School Of Attraction Podcast

Most people walk around thinking that kink is usual.. or unhealthy.. or unnatural... But in actuality it's far more common to have sexual kinks than it is to be 100% bland and vanilla.  But more importantly, discovering your kinds can launch you on a journey to discover who you really are, and what you really want from the world - there is a level of psychological catharsis to be found by dis...

We've all heard that nice guys finish last, but why does that have to be the case? What is it about nice guys that stops them getting the girl they want?  Why do so many women take advantage of nice guys, and then leave them for some other jerk.  Nice guy syndrome isn't about men being too nice, it's about men trying to be nice in order to get women to like them, which turns women o...

Do you know the difference been knowing something and grokking it?  What does mixing alcoholics and psychedelics teach us about life success? Did you know that grokking things is the key difference between success and failure?  Whether you're trying to date more women, build a successful business, or lose weight - if you don't grok the solution, then you're going to struggling to ge...

There's a lot of shame for men around exploring their sexuality - And this shame causes men to hide or avoid parts of themselves that are left begging to be explored.  I interview Sex Therapist and Phd Dr Mandy as we explore the nature of sexuality and the sexual spectrum to try and uncover what it REALLY means for a man and his sense of masculinity and sense of self if he begins to explore h...

Why are some men immune to getting low self-esteem, when so many others are struggling to feel like there's any hope for them in the dating world?  It's harder for men now than any other time in history to find a partner, and yet some men overcome their adversity and still find success, while most struggle and feel helpless to change their situation.  Martin Seligman, wrote about a condi...

Can an average man still attract women? Or has modern society doomed the average guy to a life of involuntary celibacy?  I've been a dating coach for both men and women for 12 years now and I want to share with you the complete truth - I don't want to hold any punches, instead telling you exactly what an average man can and should expect.  Trying to flirt with and date women is only a pa...

I interview Dave Booda from https://boodaism.com/   about his journey and experiences working on his masculinity with a range of different men's work coaches and programs. 

Is your anxiety or depression all in your head? Is it just the result of bad thinking patterns in your mind? Or is it the result of something going wrong inside your body?  I'm going to talk about my journey with anxiety and being told I was simply suffering from panic attacks when in reality I had a major serotonin and stress hormone regulation problem that nobody guessed at until I did my o...

Stop feeling the shame of premature ejaculations and learn to last longer in bed - Here are 3 strategies for curing your premature ejaculation.  I'm also going to teach you how to have women see you as being amazing in bed without even curing your PE first.  As a bonus, I'm going to share my mystery box technique which creates a massive amount of sexual tension and arouses women into hyp...

David De-Angelo famously sadi that attraction wasn't a choice -  That women can't decide what guys they are attracted to - it is just a primal and sub-conscious process, and there's nothing us guys can do to change that fact.  In truth, I agree with the basic idea that most women are on autopilot when it comes to what kinds of men they choose to date.  But the truth is also more com...

Most of the success I've had in my life I attribute to the skills I learned trying to become more successful with women.   From my relationship success to my business success, I've used these critical life skills in every part of my world.  We often don't realise that we learn ego strength, self-esteem, sales skills, networking abilities when we work on our seduction and attraction...

Do you know What Your Attraction Demons Are?   Did you know they're responsible for a lot of the pain you've suffered in dating and your relationships?  Our attraction demons lead to the relationship dynamics we create in our romantic lives, whether we're just looking for something casual, or something more long time.  It's very easy to feel that women are all untrustworthy or...

Are you in the trap of constantly meeting the same kinds of women? Do you feel like all women all have the same negative behaviours?  Did you know that your taste in women, and the kinds of women you are drawn to are largely not related to attractiveness?  Instead, we choose the women we tend to talk to based on our locus of attraction.  Your locus of attraction is a way of choosing romantic partn...

How can you get deeply connected with your dark masculine sexuality?  How would women behave differently around you?  Today I'm going to share an exercise to start getting you connected with this long forgotten part of who you are as a man. Can you believe that being better connected with this part of ourselves as men, that we will feel more confident, more sexual, more deserving of amazing w...

Have you ever wondered what the difference is between a man looking charming and a man looking creepy?  Many men avoid approaching women because they're anxious of coming across as creepy - but often they're not even sure how to avoid looking creepy to their crush.  There's a lot of scientific research into the experience of creepiness and as it turns out - it's not so hard to...

There is plenty to complain about online dating apps - You get ranked based on looks, Women are flakey, There are shady business practices.  But are these unfair aspects of online dating really worth getting focussed on and obsessed with?  Whether you use Tinder, or Bumble, Hinge, or Some other dating app - You're going to get frustrated at times.  But I'd argue that there's a healt...

If I have to hear another woman tell a guy to "just be himself" around women, and he'll have lots of dating success, I think I might have a conniption!   But actually - there's much deeper wisdom in this statement than I think the women saying it realise.  The simplicity of the statement makes it sound like it has a simple answer - but actually... Being yourself is one of the h...

While the whole world is jumping to online dating as a way to keep meeting dating partners, there's no denying that online dating is not an ideal way to meet people.  Today I'm going to explore alternate ways that we may soon be meeting our dating partners in the near future - Because the world is always changing, and it's up to us to keep up.  Why do you want to keep up with dating...

Do you regularly ask yourself how you can make a particular woman like you?  Did you know that this question almost guarantees you won't get good results?  How can this be? This question seems the most fundamental of all attraction conundrums.  But actually focussing on trying to make women like you is the completely wrong way to meet and attract women.  So what is the real secret to successf...

Do all women seem to behave in the same way? Have you experienced the frustrating experience that women are gold diggers, or fickle, or superficial, or racist?  Dating can definitely be frustrating for guys, but sometimes it's just "obvious" that women just aren't that great, and most women aren't worth dating at all.  After I went on a catfish date this weekend, it made m...

Do you know what to expect from an open relationship experience?  Are you comfortable with your partner being intimate with other people?  When you are thinking about opening up your relationship, many men and women don't really know what to expect from the world of polyamory - Because while it can be a lot of fun, most of us will also have to face a lot of demons and insecurities along the w...

While the whole world is jumping to online dating as a way to keep meeting dating partners, there's no denying that online dating is not an ideal way to meet people.  Today I'm going to explore alternate ways that we may soon be meeting our dating partners in the near future - Because the world is always changing, and it's up to us to keep up.  Why do you want to keep up with dating...

What is the dark Masculine? How does it turn women on? How can you develop your dark masculine as a man?  What shame do men typically hide from the world and why does it prevent them from having the sexually and emotionally rewarding relationships they crave.  Join Sarah Martin from Sexual Craftsmanship ( http://www.sexualcraftsmanship.com) and I as we discuss these topics and much much more

Do you regularly ask yourself how you can make a particular woman like you?  Did you know that this question almost guarantees you won't get good results?  How can this be? This question seems the most fundamental of all attraction conundrums.  But actually focussing on trying to make women like you is the completely wrong way to meet and attract women.  So what is the real secret to successf...

Do all women seem to behave in the same way? Have you experienced the frustrating experience that women are gold diggers, or fickle, or superficial, or racist?  Dating can definitely be frustrating for guys, but sometimes it's just "obvious" that women just aren't that great, and most women aren't worth dating at all.  After I went on a catfish date this weekend, it made m...