School Of Attraction Podcast

Learn how the tinder ranking algorithm has changed in the last few years, and more importantly how you can exploit that system to help you get more matches.  Online dating has seen a lot of gradual changes, so it has become very important for most guys to stay ahead of the curve if they hope to continue getting matches and dates along the way.   It's still possible for the average guys to do...

I interview Tantra coach Marcin aka the Kinky Guru about how he became more sexually confident in himself as a man - not by learning to pick up chicks, but by turning to the world of tantra.  We're going to discuss some of the big lessons he learned on his journey to get to where he is today. 

One of the biggest things lacking from the lives of most men is a deep connection with other men, women, and people in general.  We are suffering from a lack of community, connection, and generally feeling understood.  But even if all you want to do is learn to meet more women, this is a skill that will help you a lot more than you probably realise. 

Dealing with breakups can be emotionally traumatising - There's all kinds of self-doubt, and self-esteem damage. We can feel like we're coming off of a drug addiction.  But there are some really amazing strategies for moving on from breakups and minimising the amount of pain that we need to go through.  And that's what I'm going to talk about today. 

I talk with a Femme Fatale, a representative of website arousr.com and talk about the ways men can begin to explore their kinks in the safety of online video. 

I sit and interview Divya Darling, a coach, business owner, and neuro-scientist, and a personal friend while we discuss the notion of why we feel we need things from women to feel happy - where our true sense of self, identity, and life satisfaction comes from.  Most importantly Divya focuses on me personally as we try to dive deeply into some uncomfortable spaces in my own psyche. 

Author of the newly published book - Red Pill Ideology - Cynthia Payne sits with me as we take a very scientific look at the claims made by the red pill community.  Which ones stand up under scrutiny, and which ones are disproven by peer-reviewed studies?

Dating has radically changed over the last 10 years with the dating app explosion and then the covid epidemic.  What trends and patterns are we seeing shifting as dating coaches, and what are we seeing change as we age and change ourselves?

Today I talk with Jay - an ex School Of Attraction student and current mentor who really stepped into his masculine power and discovered how incredible life can be when you are willing to own your authentic self.  Jay has been regularly meeting some incredibly intelligent, beautiful, and sometimes powerful women - and they've responded to him in ways neither he nor they ever expected. 

Have you ever thought about how similar sales skills are to seduction skills? If you have, then you're not alone.  As it turns out, many of the same skills required to be amazing at sales are also required to attract women.  I want to talk about push vs pull attraction today because one of the big differences between average guys and average salesmen is that they both try to PUSH people to do...

The Hinge dating company recently released a series of statistics they gathered by combing through 1000 hinge dating app profiles to see which photos were most likely to get the most matches.  Today, I'm going to look through the states provided by Hinge, to help you see how you can improve your online dating results.   Will any of these results surprise you?  Will any of them surprise me?  K...

There's an increasing amount of pressure in the media to make men feel bad about their tastes in women.  But recently it's become clear to me that men who have a dating preference for specific races are being increasingly called out as racist.  For many men this hit's a nerve - how can they be racist if they find that race sexy?  After a fascinating conversation I had with an Africa...

Do you get lucky with women often? What does it mean to get lucky? Is there really any luck involved? Is it all lucky?  When you see a cute girl walking down the street, how much luck do you need to have for her to want to go on a date with you?  How much of a role does skill play?  While it's true some of us men are more lucky in dating than others, there's a HUGE amount to be said abou...

How many times have you seen a beautiful woman and decided to walk away from her if she wasn't interesting enough?  I am guessing you have almost never done this. AND YET - this is the exact reason so many men struggle to built attraction, especially around women they find particularly sexy.  Women aren't attracted to men who like them just because they're cute. There has to be more...

Woman are really complicated, aren't they? Well... Maybe not - In fact, I'd argue that women are absolutely no more complicated than men.  It's true that many men get frustrated with women when dating and flirting, it seems like she constantly changes her mind, and you can never work out what she's actually thinking, or why she does the things she does.  As it turns out though...

So you want to attract beautiful women?  Let me ask you a few quick questions to get you thinking...  If you go on a date with a woman - is it a good or a bad idea to write her a text within an hour of saying goodbye saying "Hey, I had a really great time with you, I look forward to catching up again soon!" If you approach a cute girl in a bar, should you buy her a drink?  If I'm on...

Why is it that a disproportionate number of highly successful people invest in therapists?  Is it because they're more broken? Or is it because they know a secret most others don't? Many of us think that we should only see a therapist if we're broken or on the verge of hurting ourselves or others.... Or maybe if our lives are falling apart and we don't know how to get on track....

What can our past tell us about what women find attractive?  Is it possible to look at our distant ancestors and consider what their lives looked like to help us to understand what a girl's DNA tells her to be turned on by?  The Evolutionary Theory Of Attraction believes that by better understanding the sexual behaviours and pressures that would have been present while humans were evolving, t...

Do you have the experience of approaching women, trying your best to build attraction and flirt with them, but always feeling like a fish out of water? Like no matter how hard you work on your banter or rapport, you can never seem to build attraction with the girls you like?  A lot of this could come down to what tribes these women are a part of, and what tribes you generally belong to yourself. ...

Do you struggle to have fun in social situations? Do you feel too boring for women to notice you? Do you hope that fun people will be around so you can have a good time and be more flirty? This isn't something buried in your genetics! This isn't even necessarily because you don't have a particular skill - It's connected to the relationship you have with your inner-child.  Whene...

You walk into a bar, and you see an older man dating a much younger woman - Is that guy a sleaze or a legend? Is he to be admired or scorned? Is he doing something inherently wrong? Or is he just following a biological imperative?  It's easy to assume that women are just jealous that these men aren't interested in them once they approach their 30s. But actually, there is a fascinating le...

What is a simple daily lifestyle change you can make which will drastically reduce your shyness with girls AND your social anxiety?  There are many reasons why the thought of approaching a cute girl will scare you and make you anxious - And believe it or not, it's a far more common problem than most men realise.  But if you start to change your behaviours around both men and women on a day to...

Are you sexually escalating at the wrong time?   If you're flirting with a girl, how long should you wait until you start trying to create sexual conversation or 'put the moves' on her?  While it's true that a bit of sexual touch or sexual banter can definitely build attraction, sexual escalation is generally not an important factor for building attraction.  Most men try to bri...

I'm going to share 3 extreme strategies you can use to drastically improve your confidence with women.  These aren't your regular 'how to attract girls' videos, this is going to dive into some really radical ways you can give yourself a huge boost in results and self-esteem at the same time.  So if you want to be more confident around girls - AND nothing you've tried so fa...

Are you sick of constantly being the one to chase after the women you want to date?   Wouldn't it be amazing if just for once, you could get women chasing after you instead? It's actually completely possible - in this video I'm going to share the strategies that I've been using with my clients since 2009 to get women chasing them.  Knowing what women want and what turns them on...