School Of Attraction Podcast

I've heard my friends talking about tantric sex and tantra workshops for a long time, and It wasn't until last weekend that I finally decided to give it a shot and see how it was.  I'm going to explain why I think a lot of people - especially men - could benefit from the experience the same way I did - even if things can get a little heated at times.  School Of Attraction Dating And...

We've all seen women try to shame men who date much younger females, but is this all just sour grapes? Or is there a valid reason women often see problems with men who prefer to date in a lower age bracket? How about older women with younger men?   Can these age gap relationships work in the real world?  Can a man date a much younger woman from another country and both individuals genuinely f...

What does it mean to live an extraordinary life?   How can we overcome the endless stream of massive obstacles that life can throw in our path?  Motivational speaker and coach Terry Tucker talks about his experiences as a police officer, hostage negotiator, athlete and Cancer patient.  1.Control your mind or your mind will control you. 2.Embrace the pain and difficulty we all experience in life, a...

What is masculinity in a world where men increasingly feel like they're under attack, and the "Boss B!tch" is an archetype women are striving towards?  Our culture is teaching men to detach from themselves and live lives without purpose - If we want to have fulfilling, loving relationships with women then we owe it to ourselves to get reconnected, without shame or prejudice.  Andre...

Australian men's mental health practitioner talks about the critical need men have for connection and open communication with each other.  We discuss how to identify great men's work coaches, therapists, and mentors.  We discuss in detail the powerful work you can do inside a men's group.  www.mindful-men.com.au

What are the biggest mistakes men and women make when trying to meet and date each other?    I speak with Laurie Gerber, a female dating coach who's been featured on the Dr Phil Show and the Today Show about how she perceives the problems with modern dating from a woman's perspective. Laurie is offering you a FREE GIFT with lots more expert dating advice: "3 Secrets to Finding and M...

I talk with the host of "Exploring Humanity" Podcast who is a therapist that specialises in resolving attachment styles and psychedelic assisted therapy.   How do attachment styles play such a powerful role in our dating lives?  How can the professional use of psychedelics help us to rapidly move through previously intractable emotional traumas?  psychedelicmedicine.earth coupletherapy.e...

Men's Work Coach and author of "The Masculine In Relationship" -  GS Youngblood discusses with me the 3 phases men need to work on to step into their masculine - Both in relationships and when first meeting women.  gsyoungblood.com IG @gsyoungbloodmir

Florence Ann Romano - the author of "Build Your Village"  talks about the critical importance of having a healthy series of emotionally fulfilling relationships in our lives and not solely placing all the pressure to feed our emotional needs onto our romantic partners which is a common reason for relationships to fail.  https://florenceann.com/

Tantra and Sex coach, and co-host of the " sex reimagined " podcast - Leah Piper talks to me about getting women aroused, creating an incredible first experience and the big mistakes guys make which ruin the experience.  Last 10x Longer for Men & my free gift. https://www.sexreimagined.com/last-10x-longer

I interview online men's fitness and health consultant Nick Soulias about how men can identify and increase low testosterone levels leading to more energy, better sex lives, more motivation and much much more.  You'll also be able to book a FREE strategy session with me: https://nicholassoulias.typeform.com/to/RisPo3Ex

When you approach a cute girl in a bar, at a house party, or out during the day?   You'd be forgiven for thinking women hold all the power in dating because they have the ability to accept or reject the guy, and he has to put in all the effort.  But if you continue to feel powerless when approaching women, then you'll always be giving your power away.  I want to show men how to feel empo...

So you've been flirting with a girl at a bar or house party, but you want to know how to start creating some sexual tension and really get her craving to be intimate with you - where do you start?  I'm going to share 7 of my favourite ways I share with all my clients to build sexual tension.  1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Damien: https://schoolofattraction.com/phone-coaching/

Do you know what the difference is between sexual tension and sexual esclation?    I get men contacting me every week asking me how to sexually escalate with a woman they've started dating, or a woman they'v ejust met in a bar.  But this is the wrong question to ask, because more men should be focussing on building sexual tension with women instead.  And the two are not the same thing. ...

How bad is racism when you're dating?   OK Cupid released some shocking statistics a few years ago, which have led many men and women to presume dating for them could indeed be hopeless.  But statistics can be misleading - and there is a lot more going on behind the scenes determining the sexual and romantic preferences of men and women both offline and online.  1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions Wit...

Online dating can be really frustrating - it doesn't matter whether you use Tinder or Bumble or Hinge or any of the other competitors out there - most men are struggling to get matches.  But the solution to your frustration could be hidden in the research done in the 1980s in the hunt for the perfect pasta sauce.  Let's find out what changes you could make to your profile to get more rig...

Whenever most guys think about getting casual sex, they often think about trying to get one-night stands - They picture going to a bar, finding a cute girl to talk to and trying to get her home that night.  But this can be the worst strategy to have sex - it takes a long time, there are lots of ways to get rejected - and most women aren't looking to find met to sleep with this way.  Book A 1:...

I often hear guys wanting to learn how to be more masculine, or how to be more alpha, and the reason for this is to better attract women - because everyone knows that women lust after masculine men right?  But what if our hunt for masculinity was a red herring causing us guys to chase our tails, while still having no more success with girls than we did before? Dating women is never simple, and bui...

It's easy to talk about our most successful dates ever, and share stories of success with beautiful women - But nobody ever wants to talk about the biggest failures where we did something stupid that ruined our chances.  I want to share 4 true and funny dating stories about how I crashed and burned with beautiful women because of something stupid I did or said.  Because it doesn't matter...

What is the best way to meet women in 2022?  While so many of us spend time on online dating these days, this isn't necessarily the best way to find attractive girls to date.  I'm going to explore a range of different ways of meeting women from cold approaching to social circle, introduction agencies, mail order brides, and travelling overseas.  I'll tell you the very best way to fi...

Maybe you struggle to approach women because you have approach anxiety, or you keep getting told "let's just be friends" - Or maybe you keep finding men who aren't ready for a relationship yet.  There 1000s of ways we can become stuck in a repeating pattern of failing to get the results we want when dating.  Often, the solution lies in doing some deeper work inside ourselves be...

Many men and women struggle with setting boundaries when it comes to dating - they have the belief that boundary setting must always break rapport and feel like a reprimand.  But actually poor quality boundaries are aggressive - Those of us with strong boundaries know how to do it in a way that builds rapport rather than breaks it.  Setting strong boundaries with women builds attraction and respec...

For most guys, walking into a bar and approaching women is a completely alien idea - it's scary - and there's just so much you don't know.  There are plenty of videos online teaching you how to approach women in bars, but most of them try to get you to pretend to be a super-confident d-bag in order to get women to pay attention.  I want to show you my own style of picking up girls i...

I'm going to discuss strategies for building a great sense of fun, comedy, and banter when flirting with women.  This light-hearted discussion will cover some surprisingly deep aspects behind banter and the psychology of humour and attraction

Are you constantly worried about being too needy when dating?   Most men and women try hard to avoid looking too desperate or needy with their partners, and this often leads to wants and needs not being met.  Needy behaviour is often seen as being repulsive by both men and women, so naturally, this is something we try not to do when attracting a mate.  If you are asking a girl out on a date, or as...