Say What?
say what?
On the say what? podcast, we help Christian women overcome toxic purity culture, be confident in their sex lives, heal from painful sex, and feel less alone! Hanna believes that everyone has a seat on her couch, regardless of who you are, and it will never be too full for you to sit down. She currently lives in Colorado with her husband, Thomas and dog, Theo. She’s the most Enneagram 2 of all Enneagram 2’s. Let's talk about tough things, together!
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Episodes
The TWINS Birth Story!! 25.02.2026 47:15
The identical twin boys are finally here — and their arrival was nothing short of wild. In this episode, Hanna shares the full birth story — from finding out they needed to head to the hospital earlier than expected… to the intensity of delivery… to the unexpected breakthroughs that followed. What could have been overwhelming was instead marked by peace, provision, and God’s faithfulness in every...
The Babies Are Coming!! 14.01.2026 34:47
Hanna is back to chat about her last few months of pregnancy, birth plans, how she feels about becoming a mother of 3, how she’s preparing for postpartum, and more!
Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month 23.10.2025 28:34
It’s Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, so today Hanna shares how she’s doing post miscarriage. She also shares life updates about her car shopping, decluttering, and FINALLY getting into pelvic floor physical therapy!
How To Train Your Husband w/ Thomas Ward 15.10.2025 1:15:27
This week Hanna is joined by her husband, Thomas. They catch up on life as soon to be twin parents and talk about how couples can work together to evenly share the mental load of their family.
The Data Behind Painful Sex 08.10.2025 1:07:37
Dr. Arielle Leonard Hodges joins us to discuss her research study Investigating The Experiences of Evangelical Couples Coping with Painful Intercourse During Early Marriage. We chatted about purity culture and how it is connected to painful sex. The Research Follow Dr. Arielle on Instagram
Single, Sex, and the Gift of Desire 25.09.2025 27:50
Singles, this episode is for you! Here’s what I wish I knew when I was single and experiencing sexual desires.
NYC Recap - God Showing Up in the Details 17.09.2025 41:55
Hanna went to NYC for a quick girls trip with her bestie and God kept showing up! In this episode she recaps her trip and shares how the Lord really cares about the things we care about. Get your Brick for 10% off! https://www.getbrick.app/HANNA43752
Sex While You’re Pregnant?? 10.09.2025 26:18
Let’s talk about pregnancy sex! Hanna breaks it all down in this episode—why there’s no one-size-fits-all answer, what to expect trimester by trimester, and how to approach sex with grace during this season. From practical tips (yes, there are pregnancy-friendly positions!) to understanding responsive desire and the role of a supportive partner, this conversation is all about normalizing the ups a...
Prenatal Depression 03.09.2025 28:02
Hanna shares her experience with prenatal and postpartum depression and how it has been this pregnancy. She shares what helps her through it and her plan to fight postpartum depression this time around. Thanks to Pixie Cup for sponsoring today’s episode!! Use code SAYWHAT for 15% off! Get Your Brick!
Are Fantasies and Kinks Okay as Christians? 27.08.2025 57:07
Today we dive into the topic of fantasies and kinks! Are they sinful? What’s okay and what isn’t? How do you talk to your spouse about your desires? What does the Bible say about it? We talked about it all! Thanks to Pixie Cup for sponsoring today’s episode!! Use code SAYWHAT for 15% off! Christian Sex Toy Store
Deconstructing Purity Culture Without Losing My Faith 20.08.2025 40:49
Hanna vulnerably shares how she stayed a Christian after deconstructing purity culture. She shares life updates about the most embarrassing thing to ever happen to her, how her twin pregnancy is going, and her excitement for Taylor Swift’s new album.
When Sex Hurts and You Want a Baby 13.08.2025 29:01
This week, Hanna chats about the loneliness of wanting to get pregnant while living with vaginismus, a reality that can mean painful intimacy, a difficult road to conception, or turning to options like IUI. Also, she shares life updates, including her thoughts on Taylor Swift’s new album and how her pregnancy with her twin boys is going so far. Work with Jess from Pain Free Intimacy - code SAYWHAT...
Porn - How To Talk To Your Kids About It 06.08.2025 1:03:27
Hanna is joined by Kristen Miele from Sex Ed Reclaimed! They talk about best practices for talking to your kids about porn, what safeguards you can implement, how to respond if you catch your child watching, and more! Follow Kristen on Instagram https://www.sexedreclaimed.com/ Thanks to Pixie Cup for sponsoring today’s episode!! Use code SAYWHAT for 15% off!
I'm Pregnant With TWINS!! 30.07.2025 39:37
Hanna is having TWINS! She shares everything from her finding out, symptoms, if she knows the genders, how she’s doing with this emotionally, how the past few months have gone, and more! SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT: Join Hanna and Jess from Pain Free Intimacy for a Meet Up on August 2nd at 2pm at the Durham Food Hall! RSVP here or send us a DM to let us know you’re coming! Thanks to Pixie Cup for sponso...
Fantasies, Faith, & Finances 25.07.2025 52:38
This is part 2 of answering YOUR questions! Hanna talks about fantasies and role playing, how to connect with God when you feel far off, anxiety around finances, how dilating isn’t a sin, and more! SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT: Join Hanna and Jess from Pain Free Intimacy for a Meet Up on August 2nd at 2pm at the Durham Food Hall! RSVP here Thanks to Pixie Cup for sponsoring today’s episode!! Use code SAY...
Masturbation, PP Anxiety, Dilating, and more! 16.07.2025 43:40
It’s time for an advice column! You wrote in with your incredible questions and Hanna answered them. From questions about masturbation, postpartum anxiety, not wanting to go to pelvic floor physical therapy, to not having your wants met in the bedroom, we really covered it all! There were so many great questions, this week is part 1. Come back next week for part 2! SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT: Join Hanna...
Should Christians Wear Bikinis?? 09.07.2025 33:54
Hanna is back from her podcast break and she’s so excited to catch up!! We talk about her miscarriage recovery and what she’s up to this summer. Our topic today is all about how to handle modesty in the summer after growing up in toxic purity culture. SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT: Join Hanna and Jess from Pain Free Intimacy for a Meet Up on August 2nd at 2pm at the Durham Food Hall! RSVP here Thanks to Pi...
I Had A Miscarriage 14.04.2025 52:41
TW: baby loss Hanna experienced a miscarriage and is sharing her experience. If you’ve been through this, you are not alone ❤️
How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex 02.04.2025 30:54
Talking to your partner about sex doesn’t have to be scary or awkward! Today Hanna breaks down how to talk about sex, how to initiate, and how to talk about it when you’re engaged. Condoms Lube The Christian Sex Educator Courses
Purity Isn’t The Enemy, Purity Culture Is 26.03.2025 35:27
Hanna is back after taking a week off! We catch up about the past few weeks and then talk about how purity isn’t the enemy, but purity culture is. Hanna’s new fave tank top!! She wears Medium The Eden USE CODE ‘POD’
“Un-Sexy” Products That I Can’t Live Without 12.03.2025 34:54
Today Hanna shares some of her (and yours!) favorite daily products that you can’t live without, or just elevate your life and make it better! All Products say what? Instagram
How To Track Your Fertility 05.03.2025 44:36
Hanna is joined by Holly Grigg-Spall from the Daysy team! Daysy is a hormone-free fertility tracker device. They chat about why tracking your fertility improves your overall health, how using Daysy can help with pregnancy planning, and how knowing your data helps you plan for your life. Use code SAYWHAT for 15% off Daysy! Daysy on instagram
How to Look Forward to Sex w/ Kingdom Sexuality 26.02.2025 54:21
Alana and Tiera from the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast joins us today to help the Christian girls actually ENJOY sex, so it’s something you look forward to! Kingdom Sexuality Follow Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram!
Is Masturbation a Sin? 19.02.2025 58:07
Today Hanna chats about a very nuanced topic, masturbation. Miss Virginia Williams Story Instagram TikTok YouTube
Your Hairstyle Means You Consented to Sex? 12.02.2025 26:29
TW: Sexual abuse Hanna chats about a new law in Colorado that makes it illegal to say “what was she wearing?”! More Info About The Law https://sbaproject.org/what-were-you-wearing/
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