Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we unpack the dynamics of sacred polarity and share how presence, safety, and honest communication create the foundation for deep, lasting intimacy. 💫 What you’ll hear in this episode: Why emotional safety is the foundation for feminine surrender What grounded masculine leadership looks and feels like How to lead with presence instead...

From the sacred fire of Phoenix Rising Retreats… comes the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast. In this week’s episode, we open up about one of the most tender edges in a relationship: how to invite your partner into deeper intimacy, without nagging, pushing, or trying to fix him. We unpack real examples from our journey and offer grounded, heart-led tools you can start using today.   ✨ Here’s what we cov...

Even after years of tantra, pleasure work, and healing, you can still find yourself having disconnected sex, obligation sex, or even “Let’s just get it over with” sex.   And you’re not broken for that.   In this episode, Pleasure Is a Practice: Why Good Sex Doesn’t Just Happen, we pull back the curtain on our own sexual evolution, what we used to believe was “good sex” (think: drunk, performative,...

Real talk… Most couples wait until they’re hanging on by a thread before they even think about going to a retreat. We get it—we’ve been there. But what if we told you that waiting until things hit rock bottom is one of the biggest mistakes you can make for your relationship?    In this episode, we dive into a raw and honest conversation about.. Why do most couples wait too long before going on a r...

Let’s talk about blowjobs. Not the performative, porn-scripted kind. And not the kind you give just to “get it over with.” We’re talking about the ones that are offered from genuine turn-on, deep connection, and sovereign choice. In this week’s episode, we open up about a very real part of our journey- how something that used to feel like a chore (for Kim) became a space of embodied pleasure, sacr...

Desire isn’t something you chase.  It’s something you create together. We used to think desire was about how we looked, the outfit, the hair, and the moment. But now, after everything we’ve navigated together, we know it’s so much deeper than that.    In this episode, we share… What desire truly means to us now as a couple who’s done the healing, unlearning, and re-embodying How our ideas of desir...

And we are back with another episode! This time, let’s talk about something that holds the key to deeper intimacy — communication.  Because when you create a space of safety and presence, you not only open the door to better communication… you unlock the full potential of love, joy, and sexy connection in your relationship.   In this week’s episode, we explored… How many of us (yes, both women and...

We’re Kim and Roberto, and we’re thrilled to be co-hosting this journey together, both on podcasts and in life ❤️We're excited to bring a fresh perspective on certain topics and offer a unique view on various aspects as a couple.    In this episode, we will share about… How our relationship evolved from early “can’t-believe-this-is-happening” moments to launching Phoenix Rising Retreats up on our...

There’s a sacred shift that happens when a woman stops trying to do it all and starts asking, “What would it look like to actually live in balance?” Bliss isn’t a destination—it’s a frequency you can embody daily.   In this episode, Danite and I go deep about... What happens when the life you built no longer fits the woman you’ve become? Could bliss be something you tune into, not chase after? Are...

Feeling more like roommates than lovers lately? Wondering how to reignite that spark without overhauling your whole life?  You might be asking yourself as well, what it really takes to keep passion alive in long-term relationships—especially when life feels chaotic.   In this heart-to-heart conversation I have with sensual embodiment coach Jannine MacKinnon, we go deep about... What if the spark n...

What if the missing piece in your journey to wholeness wasn’t more hustle, more proving, or more striving—but a deeper connection to your own sensuality? Feminine embodiment doesn't begin in your mind—it starts in your body, in the soft, sacred remembering of your own desire.   In this episode, Willeke and I converse about... What if your sensuality isn’t a luxury, but a lifeline? How have you bee...

For this week’s episode, it will be slightly different as I will be doing it solo. It has been a while since I did a solo podcast, but I am very much excited to share with you a couple of things that have been going on in my life.   Now, in this episode, I will be sharing some updates on the following:  The Get Your Sexy Back podcast The launch of the Phoenix Rising Retreats Packages and other pra...

What if being deeply loved didn’t require you to do it all? What if the magic starts when you pause, soften, and let yourself be held?   Many of us—especially women—were raised to override our needs, abandon our bodies, and prioritize others in exchange for love. But what if real partnership doesn’t require overgiving? What if true intimacy begins the moment we come home to ourselves?   In this we...

Let’s talk about the deep, juicy transformation that happens in midlife—the kind of shift that turns everything you thought you knew about yourself upside down. This conversation is all about reclaiming your body, your sensuality, and your inner wisdom as you transition through midlife and beyond. This stage of life isn’t about fading into the background—it’s about unlocking a whole new level of p...

Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “Why does it seem perfect on the outside, but something still feels… off?” You tell yourself you should be happy—you have the relationship, the family, the life you worked so hard to build. But deep down, there’s this nagging feeling, a quiet knowing that something isn’t right. So, you push it down, stay busy, and keep going. Until one day, you can’t...

Your body has been speaking to you—whispering, nudging, sometimes even screaming. But have you been listening? When we disconnect, whether due to trauma, societal pressures, or daily stress, we override the signals that guide us toward pleasure, safety, and alignment. This disconnection often manifests as chronic pain, anxiety, digestive issues, or even numbness. Healing doesn’t come from pushing...

Grief has a way of reshaping relationships, making intimacy and communication feel like uphill battles. When loss enters a partnership, it can create a disconnect—one person may need to talk while the other withdraws, leaving both feeling more alone than ever. So, how do you bridge that gap without pushing each other further away?   In this week’s episode, Kate and I, talk about... Why traditional...

Let go of the nice Girl & step into your power.  Do you ever feel like you’re always giving but not receiving the same in return? Many women get stuck in the cycle of saying “yes” to avoid conflict, but standing in your truth doesn’t mean being unkind—it means being true to yourself. If you’re constantly running on empty, it might be time to take a closer look at where your energy is going.   In t...

Ever feel like some parts of your body are more sensitive than others? You’re not alone! Many people go through life disconnected from certain sensations, but with healing and awareness, you can heighten pleasure and truly feel every touch in a deeper, more fulfilling way.  The Erotic Blueprints reveal how you naturally experience desire—whether you crave teasing and anticipation (Energetic), love...

There’s a massive shift happening, and as women, we’re feeling it in every part of our lives.  The frustration is real, especially when it comes to our rights, our voices, and the systems that were never built for us in the first place. But here’s the thing—it’s not about blaming men; it’s about recognizing that the old structures are crumbling, and we get to lead the way forward. That starts in o...

Sex magic isn’t some mystical spell—it’s the powerful practice of using pleasure as fuel for manifestation. Think of it as aligning your deepest desires with the universe's energy, using your own pleasure to amplify and send that energy out. In this week’s episode, Lona and I, talk about... What if pleasure could help you manifest your biggest desires? How does pleasure connect to energy and manif...

Let’s reframe this idea of “dysfunction,” because it’s not a dysfunction at all—it’s your body talking to you. The world has brainwashed men (and women) into thinking their performance is just mechanical—either it works, or it doesn’t—and if it doesn’t, then something must be wrong.   In this week’s episode, Emma and I, discuss... How can we reframe the idea of “dysfunction” into a healthier and n...

Relationships require effort, balance, and intentional communication. Passion and attraction thrive when both partners show up authentically, create healthy friction, and balance masculine and feminine energies. By doing the inner work and speaking from the heart, you can cultivate a deeper, more magnetic connection.   In this week’s episode, Nicola and I talked about... What is the difference bet...

We weren’t really taught how to connect with our bodies or have healthy, pleasurable sex—most of what we learn comes from unrealistic movies or porn. Add in stress or trauma, and our bodies, especially the pelvis, hold so much tension. But here’s the thing: learning to relax, reconnect, and trust your body through gentle touch and self-bodywork can be a total game-changer. It’s about feeling safe,...

Menopause doesn’t mark the end of your sexual vitality or pleasure—it’s an incredible opportunity to reconnect with yourself on a deeper level.  This phase, often misunderstood and feared, is what Taoists call the "Second Spring"—a time to reclaim the life force energy that was once directed outward and channel it back into yourself. While menopause can bring changes, it doesn’t mean the end of gr...