Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples

So many couples quietly fear that desire is gone for good… that stress, aging, or hormones have somehow ruined intimacy.   In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples , we offer a powerful reframe: desire doesn’t die. It goes offline when the body is overwhelmed. They explore how chronic stress, survival mode, and hormonal shifts shut down pleasure… and how safety, slowing...

If it feels like you and your partner are stuck in the same argument on repeat… you’re not failing at communication. You’re touching something deeper. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples , we unpack why certain fights keep resurfacing in long-term relationships even when the topic changes and what’s actually required to interrupt the cycle. They explore how nervous...

As the year comes to a close, most couples rush straight into what’s next… without ever pausing to honour what they’ve lived through together. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples) , we invite you into a simple, powerful end-of-year ritual designed to help you slow down, feel, and consciously close one chapter before...

We’re taught that real love should feel effortless… but the truth is that long-term love isn’t something you fall into and stay in automatically. It’s something you choose, nurture, and return to — again and again. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples) , Kim & Roberto break down the fairytale myth of effortless love...

So many people carry the quiet fear that their trauma makes them flawed… broken… or unlovable. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples) , we bring a grounded, compassionate truth: trauma doesn’t mean you’re damaged. It means you’re human. It means your nervous system adapted to survive. They share vulnerable stories, bo...

There’s a cultural myth that desire fades with age… but the truth is far more powerful than that. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples) , we explore what really happens to erotic energy after 40… and why this stage of life can become your most sensual, confident, and pleasure-filled chapter yet. We share vuln...

Every couple argues…, but very few couples know how to turn conflict into closeness. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples) , we explore why old hurts resurface, why the same arguments repeat, and how conscious repair brings your relationship into deeper emotional and erotic intimacy. They share vulnerable sto...

Most couples think intimacy happens in the bedroom… but the truth is, it starts in the tiny, everyday moments where you show up, soften, and let yourself be seen. In this episode of the Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as: "Get Your Sexy Back for Couples Podcast") , we explore how touch, truth, presence, and nervous-system attunement create the kind of intimacy t...

Long-term relationships aren’t meant to choose between passion and partnership. They’re meant to hold both.   In this episode of Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples) , we explore how stability and spark work together to create a relationship that feels safe, alive, playful, and deeply connected. They share personal stories a...

Silence feels safe… until it starts to disconnect you.   In this episode of the Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formally known as: Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples) , we dive into the truth about the conversations most couples avoid and how those silences slowly create distance, resentment, and disconnection in love, sex, and everyday intimacy.   They share personal stor...

Let’s be honest… Tantra gets glamorized. People think it’s about rituals, candles, and hours-long sex, but in real life, Tantra isn’t about performance. It’s about presence. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples , we get real about what sacred sex actually looks like in long-term love... the raw, embodied, everyday version that deepens intimacy long after the honeymoon phas...

You love each other. But somewhere between the chaos of life and the comfort of routine… something’s missing. She’s craving more. More depth, more presence, and more intimacy. He thinks everything’s fine. That space in between? That’s the pleasure gap. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples , we open a real, raw conversation about how to close the gap: emotionally, energetic...

Midlife doesn’t mean the end of passion...it’s an invitation to rediscover yourself, your body, and your relationship in a whole new way. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open an honest conversation about what really happens when bodies, hormones, and desires begin to shift and how to navigate those changes together with compassion, curiosity, and connection.   Wha...

If you’ve ever seen Couples Retreat , you probably laughed and maybe thought, “Please tell me real retreats aren’t like that.” You’re not alone. Hollywood’s version of “healing” is filled with forced sharing, public breakdowns, and humiliation disguised as therapy. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples , we share the truth about what real couples retreats are like and why t...

You know that feeling when a simple conversation spirals into the same fight you’ve had a hundred times before. It’s not about the dishes or the money. It’s about safety, disconnection, and your nervous system trying to protect you. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples , we open up about how to recognize when your nervous systems are running the show and how to repair and...

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Stress takes over. And without even noticing, intimacy fades, sex feels functional, and play disappears. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples , we unpack why pleasure and play aren’t indulgences and why they’re the medicine your relationship needs to thrive.   What you’ll hear in this episode: ✨ Why pleasure is not a luxury and ho...

You love each other, share a life together, maybe even still laugh sometimes… but if you’re honest, the spark is gone. Intimacy feels flat, and you’re more like roommates than lovers. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples , we share why the “roommate phase” happens, what it really costs, and how to shift back into passion, play, and deep intimacy.   What you’ll hear in this...

If sex feels disconnected, mechanical, or just not happening, then the real block might not be desire… it might be safety. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples , we share why emotional safety is the foundation of intimacy and how it creates the conditions for passion, polarity, and lasting connection.   What you’ll hear in this episode: What emotional safety really means a...

Every couple knows the ache of mismatched desire — when one of you is longing for more intimacy, while the other feels pulled back or pressured. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples , we share how to reframe desire mismatch from a source of conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection, presence, and intimacy.   What you’ll hear in this episode: Why mismatched desires...

So many of us were told that passion fades with age and that once you’re in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, intimacy is over. We’re here to call bullsh!t on that story.   In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples , we share why intimacy can actually deepen with age and how to reignite the spark in your relationship, no matter where you are on the journey.   What you’ll hear in this e...

You’d think retreat leaders wouldn’t “need” a retreat themselves… but the truth is, we’ll never be done learning, deepening, and choosing each other.  In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples , we share why we said yes to flying across the world for a couples mastermind and retreat — and what it gave us as partners, lovers, and leaders.   What you’ll hear in this episode: Why...

Do you ever feel like you and your partner have become more like roommates than lovers? The truth is… your spark isn’t gone. It’s waiting to be remembered.   In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how presence, polarity, and sacred intimacy can bring back desire—without starting from scratch.   What you’ll hear in this episode: Why your spark isn’t gone and it’s bu...

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how the natural dance between the masculine and feminine can transform your intimacy, trust, and erotic connection. Whether you’re new to polarity or deep in your practice, this conversation offers insight, lived experience, and tangible steps to bring more presence and passion into your relationship.   What you’ll hear in thi...

What if sacred sexuality started with eye contact, breath, and truth-telling? This is what Tantra really looks like, and for couples who are ready to feel more.    In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we debunk the biggest myths surrounding Tantra and explore how it can become a living, embodied practice that fosters presence, trust, and sacred connection.   💫 What you’l...

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we guide you through the experience of a private couples retreat, revealing what happens behind the scenes — from intention-setting to integration. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s really like to do this work in a sacred, supported container… this one’s for you.   What you’ll hear in this episode: What makes a private retreat differen...