Danie van Kay | Licensed eating disorder recovery coach
Recovering with Danie | Eating Disorder Recovery Podcast
In this podcast, I will cover eating disorder recovery related topics, and I will also sprinkle in conversations on dating, intimacy, self reflection, inner critic, having a chronic illness, navigating life in your 30s... basically anything that has to do with normal day today life as a fully recovered eating disorder recovery coach! Whether you struggle with anorexia, bulimia, or something in between, I'd love to take you along on the road to full food freedom! If you want to know more or get in touch, you can find me on Instagram @danievankay or website www.danievankay.com
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Danie van Kay | Licensed eating disorder recovery coach
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Jun 13, 2026
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Episodes
#86: Gaining weight without the presence of extreme hunger & chronic discomfort PTSD 08.01.2024 27:15
In today's episode, I talk openly and candidly about my experience with chronic illness, stress/PTSD from my chronic illness, and about my own current weight gaining journey. If you follow me on Instagram, you've probably seen my start of my weight-gain journey that I recently embarked on, after some unintentional weight loss. While I absolutely despised and feared weight gain when I had a...
#85: The plate-by-plate approach® 01.01.2024 20:15
Happy new year! We're kicking 2024 off with a review of a popular method in eating disorder recovery. The plate-by-plate approach® has been a popular method of nutritional rehabilitation in eating disorders for the past couple of years. And whilst I love that it at least isn't based on counting calories or macronutrients, I'm still not the biggest fan. In today's episode, I discuss...
#84: Weight gain - how to stop postponing the inevitable 25.12.2023 22:37
You may not want to gain weight, but the truth is that if you want to recover, you will have to. It doesn't need to be a goal per se, but it will happen, and if you keep avoiding it, you won't recover. But how do you do it? How do you accept you're going to gain weight and stop avoiding it? In today's episode we talk all about how to get yourself to actually take step towards recov...
#83: Here's your reminder that event restriction needs to STOP! 22.12.2023 20:10
With the holiday's around the corner and aunt Susy in the back of your head exclaiming how she "barely ate all day so she could enjoy a nice dinner!", it's no wonder if you're finding yourself wanting to (or feeling like you need to) restrict before the Christmas holidays. However, I'm here to remind you that absolutely you do not need to restrict before the holidays or a...
#82: "Feasting" after being recovered 11.12.2023 23:46
I've talked about feasting in recovery more often - on why it's not only logical but necessary to fuel your body with A LOT of food that's easily digestible (aka 'processed foods') and foods that you've restricted for so long. But what if you feel like you're there - you've recovered from your restrictive eating disorder, be that anorexia, bulimia or OSFED, and you&...
#81: Coping with going ALL-IN during Christmas and family members 04.12.2023 25:05
It's almost Christmas! The most wonderful time of the year? With all the festivities going on, everyone being hyperfocused on foods and drinks, and often a lot of dining with loved ones, Christmas can be a very stressful time for those suffering from an eating disorder. You may be scared that you'll 'binge' or worried about not having control over your food, and to top it all off,...
#80: When to transition from a meal-plan to intuitive eating? 27.11.2023 26:45
Mealplans can be super helpful when recovering from an eating disorder. However, you're not going to always eat according to a meal-plan. So when is the best time to transition from a meal plan into intuitive eating, to avoid relapsing into anorexia, bulimia, or OSFED? And just how rigid do meal-plans need to be anyway? Tune in to find out! My new program, The Booster Intensive, is starting so...
#79: Why quasi recovery is the most dangerous phase to be in 20.11.2023 21:25
Many people who start real recovery, have experienced quasi recovery. It's a hell of a place to be in, but on the outside, you may seem 'fine' or even 'healthy'. As people stop watching you as closely and you start to convince yourself that you're recovered, actually recovering may seem 'useless' and scary. But that's not to say that it isn't the best choice...
#78: Eating in abundance & WTF are clinics doing? 12.11.2023 19:12
If you've struggled with an eating disorder or disordered eating - whether that's anorexia, bulimia, BED or any other eating disorder - chances are, you've experienced 'binging'. Heck, even people without eating disorders have probably binged at some point in their life. Feasting - as I like to call binging - is absolutely normal and actually insanely helpful when you are in re...
#77: Can I recover in 6 weeks? 06.11.2023 23:38
If you've been on the eating disorder recovery side of any social media platform lately, you may have heard about how Tabitha Farrar recently claimed that not only is it possible to recover from your eating disorder in six weeks, it's also what will happen if you are truly motivated and trying. And while I'm generally a big fan of her work, and have used knowledge from her book in both...
#76: Q&A pt 5: Edema, protein bars, period at a low weight and more 30.10.2023 27:39
In episode 2 of season 2, we continue on with the Q&A. Today's episode is all about what your physical health says about your eating disorder and what happens to it when you start recovering from your eating disorder. Like why you may retain some water (a.k.a. edema) when recovering, why the fact that the scale goes up doesn't matter, and what (not) getting your period at a low body we...
75: Q&A part 4: identity crisis in recovery, food guilt, body shaming, counting calories and more 23.10.2023 34:21
Season 2 has started! Welcome to this new season of Recovering with Danie. We’re starting the season where we left off last week, answering more of your questions regarding eating disorder recovery, food, fitness, and diet culture. In today’s episode, I talk about finding yourself when you’re recovering from an eating disorder - who are you besides (and without) mental health issues? And while you...
#74: Q&A pt 3 - Recovering when not underweight, cope with weight gain, going inpatient & I can’t stop eating sugar 16.10.2023 17:29
You keep asking good questions, and so I keep answering them! Although only a very few percentage of eating disorder sufferers is underweight, diet culture and many mental health facilities make a big deal out of recovering when you’re not underweight. So how do you do it? Why do you have to gain weight when you recover from a restrictive eating disorder, and how do you cope with the weight gain i...
#73: Q&A pt 2 - Can I still recover at age 40, recovering in a thin body, exercise compulsion and more 09.10.2023 29:30
In the second part of this Q&A, Danie answers some more listener questions about eating disorder recovery, exercise addiction, body positivity and body shaming, and more. Do you wonder whether you're ever too old for recovery, or find yourself not knowing how to start recovery? Or what a thin body does(n't) have to do with recovery? How about gaining muscle instead of gaining weight? I...
#72: Q&A - my dating life, night eating, feasting & recovery burnout 02.10.2023 32:17
We're back with a good old combination episode with personal updates and recovery tips! Danie discusses her own dating life and how she's been feeling, along with commonly asked questions regarding night eating, feasting, and recovery burnout. AKA all you guys want to know and need to propel forward in your eating disorder recovery. Tune in! My new program, The Booster Intensive, is starti...
#71: Do I need a mealplan or plan in general? 25.09.2023 19:57
In an earlier episodes, we already discussed the dangers of meal plans and how to use them effectively. But, if you’re just starting recovery and/or treatment, you may not even have a meal plan or a plan in general. In today’s episode, Danie talks about the whether you need (meal)plans to recover from your eating disorder, and tips and tricks on how to (not) use or make them. Tune in for your week...
#70: The dangers of negative self talk in recovery 18.09.2023 17:28
The way you speak to yourself matters. But how, exactly? In today’s episode Danie explains the dangers of negative self talk in recovery, and why she wants her clients to give them the permission and love they seek from those around them, within themselves. If you’re in recovery and what to scare away the eating disorder voice with a healthy voice, be sure to listen to this next episode of Recover...
#69: The honeymoon phase & “you have to gain weight anyway” 11.09.2023 17:03
So, you start doing what you've been scared of this entire time: Recovery. And as it turns out, it's not as scary as you thought it would be, maybe you even find yourself enjoying it! Many people with an eating disorder will wonder if this is 'weird', or whether they maybe never even had an eating disorder to begin with. After all, aren't you supposed to spend recovery crying/s...
#68: Recovery trends: All-in, Minnie Maud, and recovery TikTok 04.09.2023 21:08
It can sometimes seem like 'methods' to recover from your eating disorder are just as 'trendy' as fad-diets. If you've been on the recovery side of social media at all in the past couple of years, you're likely to have heard of all-in and Minnie Maud, and more recently, lots of people have been documenting their recovery journey on TikTok. So what do these terms mean, how d...
#67: Mindful eating and intuitive eating in recovery 28.08.2023 15:38
Mindful eating and intuitive eating are hot topics - any food or sports influencer will talk to you about how you need to eat mindfully and tune into your body's fullness signals. But what if you're in recovery? How do does concepts apply to you, and how do you know when it's your intuition/body telling you to stop eating, and when it's your eating disorder? Danie discusses all thi...
#66: Will I develop Binge Eating Disorder after having had a restrictive ED? 21.08.2023 21:53
One of the most frequently asked questions has been: "Will I develop Binge Eating Disorder after having had a restrictive ED?", and as it turns out, it's not just people with eating disorders who think they will, but Google seems to think the same thing. In today's episode, Danie discusses the science behind these claims, and why binging/feasting during recovery does not mean you...
#65: Life after recovery 16.08.2023 25:25
If you’re recovering, you may frequently worry about what your life will look like after recovery, or you may romanticise it. The reality is most likely that your life after recovery is somewhat of a mix between the amazing things you suspect, and the harder things you may be trying to avoid with your eating disorder. The crucial difference between how it was and how it will be, however? The fact...
#64: "Help, I’m triggered!" 07.08.2023 20:51
Recovery is hard, and venturing into the real world can be scary. There’s loads of things that may trigger you, which may make you want to avoid them. But should you? How can you work on your triggers? How can you avoid getting triggered, without having to give up on living? In today’s episode, Danie discusses all this and more! My new program The Mini recovery Bootcamp has been officially launche...
#63: This might be why you’re not feasting 01.08.2023 16:59
We're back to regular podcast episodes! Today's episode is on feasting/binging. Feasting is normal and like we've discussed before, it can be very important to recovery and it's likely you'll experience the urge to feast during your eating disorder or recovery. However, even if you get the urge, it can be hard to listen to it. So what are the driving factors behind it? How can...
#62: I’ve been robbed and my mum is sick 27.07.2023 13:40
Danie has been a bit more quiet recently due to everything that has been going on. In today's different-from-normal episode, she discusses why that is. Seeing as this is a community, Danie wants to be open and honest with you about how she's been doing. And although perhaps not the point of the episode, Danie wouldn't be Danie if even this episode weren't inspiring. My new program...
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