Danie van Kay | Licensed eating disorder recovery coach

Recovering with Danie | Eating Disorder Recovery Podcast

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​In this podcast, I will cover eating disorder recovery related topics, and I will also sprinkle in conversations on dating, intimacy, self reflection, inner critic, having a chronic illness, navigating life in your 30s... basically anything that has to do with normal day today life as a fully recovered eating disorder recovery coach! Whether you struggle with anorexia, bulimia, or something in between, I'd love to take you along on the road to full food freedom! If you want to know more or get in touch, you can find me on Instagram @danievankay or website www.danievankay.com

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Danie van Kay | Licensed eating disorder recovery coach

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Health

Podcast website

www.danievankay.com

Latest episode

Jun 13, 2026

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Episodes

#186: Eating Disorder Q&A - Feeling “Not Sick Enough,” Food Obsession & Recovery Fear 13.06.2026

AIDanie ⁠⁠ has officially launched and I could not be more excited. AIDanie is your real-time eating disorder recovery support system, trained directly by me and built around action-oriented, goal-focused recovery guidance. You can start with a free trial that includes 20 free messages to experience the support for yourself. After that, you can choose from: Basic Tier Plus Tier VIP Tier The Plus a...

#185: Why “Weight Restored” Does NOT Mean Nutritionally Rehabilitated 30.05.2026

AIDanie ⁠ has officially launched and I could not be more excited. AIDanie is your real-time eating disorder recovery support system, trained directly by me and built around action-oriented, goal-focused recovery guidance. You can start with a free trial that includes 20 free messages to experience the support for yourself. After that, you can choose from: Basic Tier Plus Tier VIP Tier The Plus an...

#184: You Can Be Dying and Still Look Fine 16.05.2026

AIDanie has officially launched and I could not be more excited. AIDanie is your real-time eating disorder recovery support system, trained directly by me and built around action-oriented, goal-focused recovery guidance. You can start with a free trial that includes 20 free messages to experience the support for yourself. After that, you can choose from: Basic Tier Plus Tier VIP Tier The Plus and...

#183: AIDanie®, Intuitive Eating Mistakes & The Exercise Truth No One Talks About 02.05.2026

In this week's episode, I tell you more about the project I've been working on behind the scenes, and which is launching May 9th: AI Danie ®, your personal AI recovery assistant, rooted in my DVK Recovery Method®. Be sure to visit the website to learn more and sign up so you'll be the first to get acces when we launch: http://aidanievankay.com ! Besides this project, I also answer some of your que...

#182: Why You Need to Build Your Own Online Treatment Team to Get Unstuck 25.04.2026

Oh my God… it’s finally happening. I’m officially launching AI Danie on May 9th 🤍 This is something I’ve been quietly building behind the scenes; an AI version of me that you can talk to anytime, about anything. The thoughts you don’t say out loud, the moments you feel stuck, the questions that come up at 10pm… it’s there. Because recovery doesn’t just happen in sessions. It happens in the in-bet...

#181: Why High Functioning Eating Disorders Are The Most Dangerous part. 1 18.04.2026

A lot of my clients will tell me they don't think their eating disorder is bad enough. One reason they feel this way can be the fact that they are still functioning. Going to school or work, household chores, social outings... From the outside, it may look like things are fine. But in reality, it's so dangerous. So lets discuss why this is and what to do about it - tune in! Do you need mor...

#180: The Binge–Purge Cycle: Why You’re Stuck And When It’s Time to Step Back from Work/School 04.04.2026

In this week's episode, we discuss two big topics: why restricting can keep you stuck in a binge-purge cycle, and when it is time to take a step back from school and work to really focus on your recovery. In this episode, I also mention a very exclusive offer for podcast listeners! Curious? You can find more information below, and be sure to tune in! 🎧 Exclusive Offer for Podcast Listeners To cel...

#179: Extreme Hunger in Recovery: 5 Questions I Get From Every Client 28.03.2026

This week, we're talking all about extreme hunger. While it's very common in eating disorder recovery, it can be very scary and feel uncertain. There are five questions I get asked by pretty much every client. So in this episode, we're going over all of them. To empower you to listen to your extreme hunger and use it to your advantage to propel forward in your recovery! I have new spot...

#178: Everyone Compliments Your Body… So Why Are You Still Struggling? (+ All In vs Slow?) 20.03.2026

Do you seek approval yet never feel like it's enough? Do you still hate your body even if others are complimenting you? In this episode we talk all about why that is: What is it that you're really seeking which you're not getting? How can you recover from your eating disorder and actually appreciate your body regardless of the way it looks? Tune in! This is the blogpost I talk about in this episod...

#177: The Almost Recovered Trap + My Weight Gain Update + A Listener Question About Bingeing 11.03.2026

In this week's episode, I tackle some more of your questions on bingeing, discuss why full recovery is actually worth it and how to unstuck yourself from the trap you find yourself in when you're nearly - but not fully - there. I also give an update on my personal life! A while back, I shared that I was on a personal weight gain journey for health reasons, to see how it would feel. So how...

#176: If You Feel Stuck in Recovery, Listen to This 04.03.2026

After taking a little bit of a break, I'm back to answer your emails and voicenotes! In this week's episode, we talk all about setting boundaries and taking steps to actually recover. If you're feeling like you are stuck, don't know how to progress, or wonder how to avoid getting triggered, this episode is for you. Tune in! As mentioned in the episode: Michael Merzenich is an American neuroscienti...

#175: You’re Not Afraid of Calories. You’re Afraid of What They Mean 04.02.2026

If you struggle with an eating disorder, chances are you've thought about calories as 'something scary', something to be limited and something negative. However, I argue that you aren't actually scared of calories at all. You're scared of what they mean to you. And by not tackling the fear of calories, but rather the fear of that what calories signify to you, you can take steps...

#174: When Healthy Eating Becomes an Eating Disorder 28.01.2026

With the start of the new year, there are countless people who have the new years resolution of eating healthier. All sorts of diets cutting out food groups have been popular for ages, and while focusing on nutrition isn't always a bad thing, for some people there's a fine line between eating healthy and developing an eating disorder. So what is the border between healthy eating and eating disorde...

#173: Everyone Wants to Be Recovered. No One Wants to Be in Recovery. 14.01.2026

Recovery is hard work, unfortunately. But an eating disorder is even harder. Why can it be so difficult to continue recovery? And how can you push yourself, motivate yourself when it all seems tough? What lies beyond recovery, what is being recovered and why is it worth all of the hard work? All that and more, in this week's episode - tune in! I also offer 1:1 support beyond ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠...

#172: All-In or Burnout? The Truth About Motivation, Your Nervous System, and Real Change 07.01.2026

This week's episode (the first one of the year!) is about making real changes: how can you recover and what role does your nervous system play in this? Do you need to be calm and secure in order to benefit from going all-in? How do you motivate yourself to make changes and how can help from other people and professionals play a role in this? All that and more in this week's episode - tune...

#171: What Working With Hundreds of Clients Taught Me About Recovery 22.12.2025

Happy holidays! The end of the year is the perfect time for some reflection. So in this last episode of the year, I'm reflecting on what coaching hundreds of clients has taught me about recovery, my clients, and eating disorders. Why does our eating disorder make us feel like we're all alone or unique, when in reality, so many of us struggle with the same things? What are some things you m...

#170: From Voice Notes to Inbox - Your Top Questions on Mental Hunger & Weight Gain 10.12.2025

In this week's episode, I'm answering some of the questions that you guys' sent me via SpeakPipe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . I'm discussing everything mental hunger and weight gain: what is it, how do you deal with it, and how can you cope? Tune in! If you feel like you need more help recovering from your eating disorder, I still do ⁠⁠single boost s...

#169: I’m Gaining Weight on Purpose And I’m Stepping Back From Coaching. 27.11.2025

This week's episode is quite different from my normal episodes... In this week's episode, I reflect on my weight gain journey and talk about my own mental and physical health. I've had to decide to take a step back from coaching for a while (not forever ;)), to spend more time and energy on me. If you feel like you need more help recovering from your eating disorder, I still do ⁠single...

#168: Q&A with Megan from @megsy_recovery - Embracing Weight Gain and Finding Freedom 11.11.2025

I'm back again with a co-hosted episode! For this week's episode, I was joined by Megan from @megsy_recovery , to discuss all things weight gain and recovery. We answered your guys' questions and went in depth about our experiences, tips and tricks on navigating eating disorder recovery. Tune in! Do you want to ask your questions for interviews or Q&A sessions that are coming up? B...

#167: I Tried Gaining 10–15 Pounds on Purpose — Here’s What Happened After One Month 02.11.2025

A while ago, in episode 160, I discussed my plan to purposefully gain weight, just to see what would happen. In this week’s episode, I discuss my process. What has happened now that I’ve gained weight? How did I make myself gain weight? I also discuss how incredibly important my past recovery from my eating disorder has been in terms of allowing me to do this and all the benefits that that comes w...

#166: Why I Don’t Use the Word Intuitive Eating Anymore: From Energy Deficit to Restorative to Functional Eating 26.10.2025

Intuitive eating has become all the rage, it seems. And while great in principle, I argue that intuitive eating - especially in recovery from an eating disorder and thereafter - has some shortcomings. In this week’s episode, I talk about how and why I myself don’t always eat intuitively, and why it is so important to sometimes eat restoratively and functionally. Why do we sometimes need to eat mor...

#165: Bonus ep. IG live: Navigating Weight Gain, Body Image And More with Zeynep 23.10.2025

Every week or so, I will be uploading bonus episodes, containing recordings of the live-sessions I have been (and will be) having on my Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ account together with other recovery influencers and recovery coaches! This week, I went live together with Zeynap , also known as @realistic.body.therapist to discuss all things recovery, ment...

#164: Bonus episode - How to get unstuck from quasi recovery & exclusive LIVE IG Q&A with Amalie Lee 16.10.2025

From now on, every week or so I'll be posting a bonus episode for you guys! Over on my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , I'm hosting weekly live-sessions in which I'm joined by other recovered influencers and recovery coaches to talk about all things mental health, eating disorder, recovery, and life....

#163: When Your Body Changes Faster Than Your Mind, Q&A and more! 15.10.2025

This week's episode, I'm joined again by my friend as we talk about coping with your changing body and accepting weight gain. How do you remove the moral value you've attached to your weight? How do you cope with no longer being the skinniest person in the room. All that and more in this week's episode - tune in! If you would like to see my method written down, create your own action plan, and joi...

#162: All In or Slow Steps? Navigating Autism, Recovery, and What ‘Healthy’ Really Means 08.10.2025

This week’s episode, I’m not alone! A friend has join the podcast to talk about her lived experience with an eating disorder and autism, and answer your guys' questions. How may autism influence your recovery and how can you successfully recover from your eating disorder when you have autism? We also answer some questions on going all-in, weight gain, and healthy eating, regardless of whether...

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