Rat Girls

This week, we answer all your orgasm questions and teach you how to orgasm!  The questions we answer are:  "How do you get to an orgasm? I get tense but can’t get to the point of release. Is there a way to make my orgasms smaller? I cry after orgasms because I am overstimulated. Never have I ever successfully masturbated before. Any tips on how to start? Does drawing it out really make it mor...

My fiance, Jesse Townes, is on the pod this week, and we are discussing everything we've done to prepare for the wedding! We share all the tips and tricks we've learned along the way and how we've prepped our relationship. We touch on wedding costs, combining finances, balancing family expectations, bridezillas, mental health, body confidence, wedding diet culture, cold feet, relati...

My fiance, Jesse Townes, is back to answer your relationship questions! We cover: my husband refuses to give oral. How do I get around it?, Navigating when to say I love you and what to do if they don't say it back, what to do if your partner's sex drive is lower than yours, spontaneous desire vs responsive desire, feeling doubts during an engagement, when is the appropriate time to try...

Another episode on bjs!! We answer all your burning questions. Like should you put your tongue in the pee hole, how to give a bj to someone with a foreskin, the proper way to face f*ck, using a vibe during a bj, how to build up sensation and tension, what to do if your arms get tired, enthusiasm, what to do with your teeth, is 53 too old to learn how to give a good bj, how to bring up trying new t...

Jesse Townes, my fiance and overall hot person, joins us to answer your relationship questions!! We cover p0rnography, jealousy, strategies for fighting healthy, what to do when you have different love languages, encouraging your partner to go to therapy, backsliding, being friends with your ex, boundaries, bringing up kinks with your partner, reconnecting after an argument, not being in the mood...

Abigail answers your most pressing BJ questions in this episode of Rat Girls podcast! We talk about deep throating, gag reflex, partners who can't come from bjs, what to do if you have GERD or struggle with acid reflex, what to do if your partner is super big or your mouth is small, hand motions, what to do if your tongue is short, how to handle a sore jaw, feeling confident, avoiding boredom...

In this week’s episode, we get honest about our anxiety journeys. We break down how we discovered we had anxiety and how we now treat it. From therapy to Prozac to breathing techniques to healing your inner child, we cover it all! We also talk about how anxiety affects our relationships with our partners and parents. If you have anxiety, this episode is for you!  We also nibble on loneliness, bach...

Youtuber and bestie Colton David joins us on this week’s episode!! He takes us through his journey to realizing and embracing his sexuality! He walks us through how he discovered he was gay to how he lives proudly now. We talk about coming out to family, queer inspirations, finding what you like, gay dating, hookup culture, and grindr. https://www.youtube.com/c/ColtonDavid https://www.instagram.co...

This week, we are joined by intimacy expert Susan Bratton. She is brilliant and hilarious and walks us through how to have the best orgasm possible. We are truly in awe of her as she teaches us about orgasmic potential, the p-spot, self-love techniques, nipplegasms, nipple play, throat-gasms, female ejaculation, vibrators, vulva sensitivity, and more. 

Musician, Comedian, and Quinn Voice Actor Cera Gibson joins us this week on Rat Girls!! She walks us through her Mormon upbringing, how the church skewed her view of sex, and how she eventually dismantled the shame she felt around sex and her sexuality. She is honest and open, and we’re so honored that she shared her story with us!  https://www.instagram.com/ceragibson/?hl=en We also nibble on pol...

This week, we’re joined by Gracie’s best friend and talented photographer, Josh Going. He shares his journey after weight loss and the complexities that have come with it, which he continues to navigate. He walks us through learning to love yourself first, fostering a relationship with yourself, and being straightforward in dating. We also giggle the entire episode about their spontaneous trip to...

In today’s episode, we’re answering the rattiest of questions. We nibble on date ideas, skincare routines, body confidence in the bedroom, PCOs, cunnilingus, the U spot, cartoon crushes, C anatomy, TikTok, and Vanderpump Rules. 

This week, Ali Jackson from the Finding Mr. Height Podcast joins us!! We’re talking about how to communicate directly during the talking stage. We cover dating app burnout, meeting dates in person, communication cadence, being authentically yourself, anxious attachment, how to end things without ghosting, how much to text during the beginning stages and more.  https://findingmrheight.com/ https://...

Griff Stark-Ennis, host of Petty Crimes Podcast (and our bestie), joins us this week to chat about how freaking hard it is to make friends as an adult. He gives us his best advice on how to make the right friends for you.  https://www.instagram.com/griffstarkennis/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/petty-crimes/id1612693094 We also nibble on fedoras, petty crimes, dog culture, dating, Justin T...

Arie Auston, a nurse practitioner and endo warrior, joins us to discuss her Endometriosis journey. She walks us through her symptoms, treatment options, complications, pain management, getting pregnant with endometriosis, etc.  https://www.instagram.com/aesthetic.np.arie/ https://www.instagram.com/endo_thejourney/ We also nibble on filler, botox, constipation, Dairy Queen, cysts, and more. 

The hilarious Zach Noe Towers joins us this week to chat about common courtesies that some seem to be forgetting! We can’t stop giggling as we discuss theater, airplane, and s3x etiquette, robots, dating, and friendship. https://www.instagram.com/zachnoetowers/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-hours-with-zach-noe-towers/id1706224060 We also nibble on free the nipple, fissures, St. Louis...

This week, we chat about Instagram etiquette in relationships and dating. We cover deleting photos of exes, liking bikini pics, DMing, responding to Insta stories with the fire emoji, posting your partner, posting hot pics, being friends with exes, etc. We also nibble on life expenses, body image and dysmorphia, car issues, credit card debt, sad music, Apple stores, and more.

This week, Jillian Lenna, from the After Curfew podcast, walks us through dating, friendship, self-care, relationships, and confidence tips she learned in her 20s.  https://www.instagram.com/aftercurfew/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-curfew/id1727051735 We also nibble on bold brows,  chokers, Jersey Shore, trends we regret, turning 30, coffee, bad dating advice, A Court of Thorns and...

The Side of Pregnancy You Don’t See Lindsey Metselaar from the We Met At Acme podcast joins us to walk us through the parts of pregnancy we don’t see. We do a deep dive into IVF, getting pregnant with PCOS, emergency C-sections, getting induced, epidurals, tearing, fear around birth, prenatal workouts, etc.  https://www.wemetatacme.com/ https://www.instagram.com/lindzmetz/ https://www.instagram.co...

Dr. Tara,  a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication and an award-winning researcher, teaches us how to use the power of communication to have the best s*x life possible. She walks us through exactly when and how to talk to your partner to improve your spicy life.  https://www.luvbites.co/podcast https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/ We also nibble on becoming a US citizen, our t...

Amanda Azarian joins us this week to answer all our questions about astrology! We talk about why there is a stigma against astrology, the science behind it, why influential people use it, how to use astrology in your daily life, what to do during eclipse season, birth chart readings, what the stars tell us we should expect in the next few years, and more!  To receive a birth chart reading from Ama...

Niki and Cami from the Double Teamed podcast join us to explain exactly what every newbie needs to know about going to a sx party! We learn about how to find parties, what to bring, the dos and don’ts, what to expect, consent talks, etc! We also nibble on boob jobs, twin telepathy, astrology, cysts, situationships, the importance of flossing, and more! https://www.doubleteamedpodcast.com/

This week, Jordyn Hakes from The Horny Housewive podcast joins us. She walks us through everything you need to continue the spark and spiciness in a long-term relationship!  We also nibble on mismatched libido, smut, fan fiction, chat roulette trauma, flirting, love languages, Trader Joe’s, and more. Website: www.thehornyhousewifepodcast.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/_thehornyhousewifepodcast T...

This week, we got real while chatting about our history with body dysmorphia and body image. We dive into what made us self-conscious in the first place (diet culture and 2000s media- ugh) and then take you through our journey to healing their relationship with their body. If you've ever felt body-conscious, this episode is for you.  We also nibble on Intuitive Eating, "Where is Kate Mid...

This week, Bryde Maclean from the Turn Me On podcast joins us. She walks us through everything you need to know for a hot self-love session! We deep dive into what to do with your hands, what to self-love to (korn, smut, your imagination), toys, and how to get out of your head. We also nibble on open relationships, responsive desire, scheduling s3x, lube, boric acid suppositories, leaving a tampon...