Rat Girls

Today is a solo episode where I answer all your lovely questions! I answer: how to avoid checking out mentally during s*x, how to get over an ex, how to bring a vibe in the bedroom, what to do if you can't come without a vibe, what my job is lol, how to not be body conscious in the bedroom, what it means if our partners are watching same s-x p*rn, how to fix lesbian bed death and more!  We al...

This week, Tia Lynn, from the Sexy Biz Babe Podcast, joins us! She talks to us about s*xual freedom, feeling shame around s*x and how to free yourself from the shame, connecting with your partner, improving your s*x life, and more.  We also nibble on shadow work, pole dancing, play parties, 50 Shades of Grey, Vampire Diaries, s*x expectations in media, Papa Johns, and cookie problems. 

My bestie and co-host of Petty Crimes, Griff Stark-Ennis, is on this week's episode!! He is telling us all about his situationship, and we are chatting about how to turn situationships into relationships, how long to be in a situationship, how to know if you really like the person you are dating, how to be unattached from the outcome, dating out of loneliness and more.  We also nibble on over...

YOU GUYS! The EMILY NAGOSKI is on the pod, and I've never been more excited in my entire life. She is the author of Come As You Are, Come Together, Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle, and a really cool s*x expert.  She walks us through how to complete the stress cycle and make way for sexy time! We touch on stress in the body, partner-caused stress, stress hitting your s*x brea...

Cami is joining us today to teach us everything we didn't learn as part of our s*x talk and how to communicate the 'talk' to kids and teens! We learn about introducing them to their body parts, setting boundaries, consent, safety, reality vs. fantasy, pleasure, avoiding shame around s*x, periods, cycles, and more!  You can find her course on teaching the s*x talk to kids and teens h...

Lauren Moore from Book Huddle is on the pod, and we are talking about everything related to Onyx Storm!! We get into what Brennan's rune means, Who Brewyn is, Violet's dream walking, who the brother is, the missing dragon eggs and riders, feathertail theories, if Violet's pregnant, and what happened to Xaden's soul.  We also nibble on writing your own fantasy book, fan casting,...

WARNING: This episode contains spoilers! Lauren Moore from the Book Huddle joins us to deep dive into Onyx Storm! We get into all our thoughts and theories, including the sky theory, 6+1 theory, what's going on with Dunne and the Gods, potential future deaths, how to save Xaden, potential couples, and more! You can skip right to 23:30 if you want to get straight into the Onyx Storm talk! We a...

Amy Chan, the author of the Breakup Bootcamp, joins us to talk about how to get over a breakup and change your dating life for good! We cover revenge fantasies, emotional addiction, breaking the cycle, repetition compulsion, stages of grief, the healing trajectory, feeling safe with your partner, attachment styles, future tripping,  completing the trauma response,  the regional beta paradox, and m...

This week Cami and Niki from Double Teamed Podcast are back and we're answering your questions about what women think about in the bedroom. We cover if we're able to put aside the to-do list and enjoy, if we think about other men or other pen!ses, what noise we want our partners to make, if we care if you come quick, what we're thinking about when our eyes are closed, if we care abo...

The incredible actor, podcast host, and writer Brandon Kyle Goodman join us to share their insights and experience with s*xual liberation! And how they became their most free s*x loving self! We chat about learning to love yourself, perusing your pleasure, offsetting societal pressures, getting in touch with your body, attracting the right people, intimacy outside the bedroom, and more.  We also n...

This week, Cami and Niki from Double Teamed podcast join us to discuss jealousy in relationships! We chat about anxious attachments, toxic things we've done that would put the FBI to shame, jealousy triggers, spiraling, fear of abandonment, fomo, how we deal with it, and more.  We also nibble on Onyx Storm, Instagram stalking, concert tickets, rent prices, the TikTok ban, etc!  If you prefer...

Jesse Townes, my husband and our in house man lol, joins us to share what men think about during s*x! We also have answers from the men in the vibeslut community. So listen to learn their general thoughts, if they compare us to past partners, if they think about other women, if they notice our rolls or body hair, feel an IUD, think our bodies look weird in certain positions, think we smell or tast...

In this week's episode, Abigail walks you through her past funny, awkward hookup stories! S3x is not perfect like we see in movies. It's messy and silly, and that makes it human!  Note: This episode was recorded before the LA wildfires, so there is no mention of them, but next week, we'll talk about what they look like and what people can do to help and stay safe! 

This week we are joined by Alex Hall, the co-founder of Bottom's Digest, to learn all about how to do butt stuff! He talks us through the secret to receiving from a high-fiber diet to the best positions to butt loosening techniques! If you've ever wanted to try booty stuff or make it easier, this episode is for you!  We also nibble on reproductive rights, Las Culturistas, Chicago, the ra...

Wooh! The final installment of answering the sex questions you are too afraid to ask! We talk about women's body hair standards, how to avoid being a deadfish, how to make your penis more sensitive,  how to introduce role play and talk about sex to your partner more often, where to start with BDSM, how it feels to get your ass eaten, how to be more dominate, positions for non-tight vaginas, v...

Holly June Smith, the author of your fav Quinn erotica and the spicy books (Can I Tell You Something? and See You Next Winter), joins us to chat about how to build real-life sexual tension that's smut book-worthy! She walks us through writing sex scenes, little moments that lead up to the big bang, audio erotica, sexual exploration, sexy secrets, touching outside of the bedroom, fuck buddies,...

Welp! Trump won the election. And we are joined by Regan, the host of the F the Nice Guy Podcast, to dissect what this means for dating and sex! We cover the male loneliness epidemic, the 4B movement, women haters, Nick Fuentes, de-centering men, the patriarchy, self-love, safe sex, and more. 

We are back deep-diving into your sex questions! We talk about how to prepare for anal, what to do if your partner doesn't come during sex, where a couple can begin to find a third, the best positions for a small p3nis, how to keep your mouth wet while giving a BJ, how to know if your vagina smells normal, what to do if your partner doesn't want to touch you, your partner being too tired...

In this episode, Abigail answers all your breakup questions! We talk about sex after breakups, if you can still be friends with an ex, what to do if you are friends with their friends and family, when it's okay to start dating again, how to find sexual intimacy when you are single, why people come back to their ex, how you know it's really over, if monogamous couples can stay together wi...

This week, Jacquie Walters, the author of the very scary book Dearest, joins us. She walks us through how motherhood and postpartum inspired her newest horror novel! We deep dive into postpartum depression, psychosis, intrusive thoughts, anxiety, etc.  We also nibble on body horror, period poops, weening, pumping, loneliness, and more. 

Cami and Niki from the Double Teamed Podcast, join us to answer all the sex questions you want to ask but don't know how to! We talk about bj movements, butt stuff, threesomes, soft swaps, circumcised vs uncircumcised d!cks, feeling confident in your skills, hawk tuahing, if size really matters, orgies, being the third in a hook up, squirting, sexual tension, foreplay, smut books and more. 

Jesse, my husband, and I deeeep deep dive into Twilight and 50 Shades of Grey. We talk about the history of both and how 50 Shades started as Twilight Fan Fiction. We also judge if these movies are actually sexy or silly. Basically, every thought anyone can have about Twilight and 50 Shades we address. By the end, you will know more than you ever needed to know about this universe LOL. 

The legendary sexpert Dan Savage is on the pod!! He is teaching us all about sexual compatibility, from figuring out if you have it with a new partner or bringing up your preferences to a new partner to realizing you are not sexually compatible with a current partner and how to change it. Or at least how to free them and yourself from boring sex!  We also nibble on kinks, sexual peaks, the correct...

We got married, y'all!!! We are here to tell you what we learned from our wedding day! Listen for some laughs and to make a note of what to do or not to do on your future big day. We cover ceremony traditions, decompressing, getting ready, flowers, drunk food, wedding planners, bar options, weather prep, having sex on your wedding night, officiants, the after-party, cake cutting, and everythi...

My sister, Grace Jensen, joins us to chat about mistakes you might be making on first dates. We cover texting, the dating apps, first date spots, flirting, crossing the line, sober dating, dating events, etc.  https://www.instagram.com/agewithgracenp/ We also nibble on Botox, filler, intuitive eating, wedding stuff, weight lifting, pilates, body confidence and more.