Rat Girls

Dr. Laurie Mintz and Dr. Suzette Johnson join us to chat about how SSRIs or any medication or biology can affect your sex life and how to fix it! We talk about how to advocate for yourself at your doctor, the fix to lack of orgasming, upping sex drive, new women's health studies, and more.  We also nibble on Off Campus, vibes, upping desire, censorship, etc. #ssri #relationshipproblems #datin...

Re-release because I got a colonoscopy this week and that prep has knocked me out!! LOL  This week, we are joined by serial monogamy expert (and Abigail's Husband) Jesse Townes.  He walks us through the process of breaking this toxic relationship pattern and learning to love himself. We also nibble on love languages, night terrors, Scandoval, running in jeans, the orca uprising, toilet paper...

In this episode, we are talking about why women fake orgasms, how to tell if your partner is faking an orgasm, why you shouldn't fake one, how to talk to your partner if you have been faking orgasms and want to have a real one, how to find what feels good for you in the bedroom, how to have good hookups that boost your libido, and more.  We also nibble on colonoscopies, health insurance, milk...

Uh oh! I ran into a guy I used to hook up with! This episode covers my harrowing tale. Hookup nuances, why it's important to know what you want in the bedroom, speaking up for yourself, embarrassing first dates, why dating in LA is the worst, UTIs, safe sex, and more.  We also nibble on Mamma Mia, Christine Baranski, 2D animation, sisters, ai, Disney, etc.    Trigger warning: SA  #datingadvic...

In this episode, we cover how to grow your hair back after hair loss, reasons you might be losing hair, tips from dermatologists, the new spicy show Off Campus, and, of course, the Summer House reunion pt 1.  We also nibble on allergic reactions, body acceptance, red light therapy, effects of under-eating, long-term COVID, parasocial relationships, the Fourth Wing TV show, Acotar, emergency rooms,...

This is a re-release because I got another allergic reaction this week when I was supposed to record with our lovely guest. STRUGGLING. This week we are joined by Alex Hall, the co-founder of Bottom's Digest, to learn all about how to do butt stuff! He talks us through the secret to receiving from a high-fiber diet to the best positions to butt loosening techniques! If you've ever wanted...

In this episode, we are covering a lot! Instead of the 'main cheese', we have a charcuterie board where we touch on a ton of topics! I am sharing how to org*sm and be present in the bedroom when you have ADHD, my experience with getting hypnotized for anxiety, how to fight right with your partner, and why Amanda and Kyle are fighting wrong. And how to make booty stuff comfortable.  We al...

This week, we are talking to Cass and Emma from the Honeydew Me Podcast about how to get the sex you crave! We cover how to feel confident in the bedroom, how to learn what you like, why your 30s are great, how to bring up fantasies to your partner, how to let go of shame around sex, how to talk about sex with your partner, decentering men, and why sex in your 30s is better.  We also nibble on Bra...

(Re-release) The incredible actor, podcast host, and writer Brandon Kyle Goodman join us to share their insights and experience with sexual liberation! And how they became their most free sex loving self! We chat about learning to love yourself, perusing your pleasure, offsetting societal pressures, getting in touch with your body, attracting the right people, intimacy outside the bedroom, and mor...

In this episode, we break down how to orgasm. We cover: The pleasure gap, the clit anatomy, what is an orgasm, combating shame around masturbation and sex, adhd and orgasming, how to focus on the sensation of pleasure in your body, how to touch yourself, how to use a vibe, orgasming with a partner, reasons you might not be orgasming, sexual side effects of medication, and more.  We also nibble on...

Hi all! With skinny culture coming back in a scary way, I wanted to re-release this episode to show how Gracie and I combat toxic diet culture and the pressure to be small.   (this was originally posted in march 2024 so our pop culture references are from then!)  This week, we got real while chatting about our history with body dysmorphia and body image. We dive into what made us self-conscious in...

We're chatting about increasing libido! We cover: desire types, why you have a low libido, mismatched libido, responsive desire, spontaneous desire, how to tell your partner you are not in the mood, stress, how the mental load affects libido, emotional vs physical intimacy, date nights, scheduling sex, touching outside of the bedroom, sex life in a rut, how to keep the spark alive, exploring...

Momtok might not survive this! Season 4 is a doozy! This week, I'm chatting about the show I'm not sure I love but am addicted to. We cover the Jen vs Whitney drama, dadtok- ugh, Connor's magic career, Dakota and Taylor's relationship, my enemies- Zac and Jordan, Maycie as a narrator, Layla's storyline, Jace and Mikayla's separation, and the entire season.  We also ni...

Louise Ferrall, from the Kinsey Institute, joins us to chat about sex education, birth control, eating out, heteronormativity and how it affects research, gender and power dynamics, how to ask for what you want in the bedroom, self-love and menopause.  We also nibble on men's empathy, purity culture, the declining birth rate, the male loneliness epidemic, burgers, and trash pickup. 

Kyle Fraser, winner of Survivor 48 and player on 50, joins us to talk about his Survivor experience! We're talking about recovering from his injury, who he was starstruck by on 50, playing with honor and integrity, working with Kamilla, how social anxiety helped with survivor, how he grew on survivor, who he is still friends with from 48, his favorite Survivor moments, and more!  We also nibb...

This is a re-release because I didn't have time to edit a new pod with romantasy con! The legendary sexpert Dan Savage is on the pod!! He is teaching us all about sexual compatibility, from figuring out if you have it with a new partner or bringing up your preferences to a new partner to realizing you are not sexually compatible with a current partner and how to change it. Or at least how to...

Steve Pinder and Julia Acks join us to chat about the Oscar Nominated Short 'Jane Austen's Period Drama.' This episode is perfect for anyone who has ever wondered how to get into the industry and create a film that stands out or anyone who has ever been curious about the history of women's health and periods.  Steve and Julia answer: how to create an Oscar-nominated short film,...

We are chatting about how to feel like the hottest version of yourself! We cover hot girl hobbies, the mindset needed, how to handle rejection, why community matters, workout routines, balanced eating advice, living in gratitude, magic, how to dress for yourself, and how to do makeup.  We also nibble romantasy, Las Culturistas, macros, flying, anti-depressants, witchcraft, botox, acotar

Chala Hunter, the intimacy coordinator of Heated Rivalry, joins us on this week's episode!  We chat about intimacy coordinating and what it entails, how heated rivalry’s intimacy differed from other shows, how consent is centered while filming, the art of saying no, Heated Rivalry’s cinematography, the teamwork that went into making a safe environment, funny BTS moments, the intimacy process,...

Jesse Townes is on the show, and we are talking about Heated Rivalry!! Because we are obsessed, and it's an amazing way to talk about different relationships! We cover yearning, Shane and Ilya's attachment styles, the little details of the show we love, the sexy scenes, the club montage, the cottage, Scott/Kip, My moon my man, Rose, and basically every part of the show.  We also nibble o...

HEATED RIVALRY, BABY!!! Jesse Townes (the world's biggest Heated Rivalry fan) is on the pod today, and we are walking through the first three episodes of HR. We cover the small moments you might have missed, break down the relationship dynamics and intimate scenes, how masculinity is represented, fandoms and parasocial relationships, why women love the show, and how HR is different than anyth...

Niki, from the Double Teamed Podcast, joins us to talk about her debut novel- The Book Of Lovers! We cover smut books and exploring your fantasies, the ENM community, and when ENM turns back to monogamy, sex parties, kn1fe play, situationships, group sex, detaching from the outcome, and more.  We also nibble on: twilight, vampires, romantasy, mates, twins, new years goals, polyester clothing, havi...

This week is an ask me anything episode, where I answer your questions about: the a-spot, plan b and emergency contraception, org@sming with a partner, Lake Wawasee, being a late-blooming lesbian, Cheex, booty stuff,  the uti vaccine trials, smut books, etc.  We also nibble on breakups, holidays, flying, vaccines, astrology, and more. 

In this episode, we are talking all about Mormon wives season three!!! Aka, the best and worst reality TV show. We are diving into the Demi Drama, Jordan claiming he's being emasculated, Jessi's affair, Mikalaya's story and trauma, Taylor Frankie Paul as a star, and Dakota being a dumb dumb.  Basically, we go through the entire season, and I share my thoughts very uncensored.  We al...

We are joined by actor and singer, Tiana Le, to talk about what it's like growing up in the industry! We cover how she stays grounded, how she fell in love with acting again, the state of the industry, going from playing a child to an adult, how to protect your mental health through rejection, focusing on the journey and not the outcome, and how to make it in the industry.  We also nibble on...