Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Dr Kirk Honda presents his test for cultural appropriation to Humberto.  This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What is cultural appropriation?  10:25 Examples of appropriation 16:26 What is cultural appreciation? 39:28 Why are conversations important? 58:10 Is it appropriation? 1:39:30 The Great British Bake...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk talks with Patron Kirsten Palmer about whether or not Jeffrey Dahmer has all four traits of The Dark Tetrad. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: http...

Dr Kirk Honda reviews an article by Dr Pascal Vrticka that debunks myths about attachment theory. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Dr. Pascal Vrticka 01:04 Are dads 'secondary moms'?  02:13 Is the Triune Brain Model a good explanation of attachment? 09:13 Is synchrony better for attachment?  29:53 Is Ox...

Dr Kirk Honda reviews an article by Dr Pascal Vrticka that debunks myths about attachment theory. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Does disorganized attachment exist in adults? 08:12 How many types of attachment are there?  53:27 Is attachment good or bad? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channe...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Yuval Laor about why we evolved to have sexual fetishes. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/con...

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Do violent fantasies mean anything? 24:50 Recent celebrity losses 43:31 How did Rebecca develop self-care behaviors? 1:03:41 How can parents adjust to their children becoming more individuated?  1:16:24 How can paren...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about countertransference, or the feelings a therapist has about the client. (Intro) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psyc...

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Gregg Spiridellis (founder of JibJab, etc.) about his AI tools for therapists and clients. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Gregg Spiridellis 04:19 What inspired Moments? 14:33 How private is my data? 25:40 What feedback have they received? 26:33 What is Moments for...

Dr Kirk rants about internet mobs and Bob explores his trauma. (Intro) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Validation and hope 01:34 Yay timestamps! 07:44 Does a victim of domestic abuse have anything to apologize for? 21:24 Does Dr. Kirk still care about Borderline?  28:34 What is the difference between d...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Bob about his schemas. (This is part 2 of a two-part series.)(Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.c...

Dr Kirk answers leftover questions from the 17th Anniversary Live Show survey. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What therapy is best for Borderline? 04:42 How can I address my own toxic behavior?  07:18 Drawing boundaries with in-laws  08:55 Thoughts on relationship OCD  11:45 How can schools pick a com...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Humberto about his schemas, childhood, emotional needs, etc. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.c...

Bobcast!  Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron questions. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 An abusive relationship and affair 31:02 Was the pastor sexually abusive?  41:18 Is this a safe relationship or just less bad?  52:03 Is infidelity in an abusive relationship ok?  1:02:43 What does repair look like? 1:07...

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Grand jury results 12:07 Linda Hoffman-Pugh's book 31:07 Who does Humberto & Dr. Kirk think was the perpetrator?  Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Bob about his schemas, childhood, emotional needs, etc. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/Ps...

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story. 00:00 Did an intruder do it? 26:41 Points of dispute 33:20 Potential intruder suspects This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.pat...

[Rerun] Do you have recurring patterns in your relationships that are frustrating? Schema therapy might help. Dr. Kirk Honda talks for over four hours about the theory and how to use it in your life -- our core emotional needs, the schema that develop when some of our needs aren't met, how we habitually cope with those schema being triggered, and our overall personality modes that develop. (Intro)...

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Did the Ramseys do it? 04:03 Did Patsy do it? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Autopsy details Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseatt...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about infidelity in therapy This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psycholo...

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Pageant interview 06:36 Ramsey family history 24:18 Check in with yourself  27:35 The Ramsey's maintain their innocence  Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7i...

[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto give advice to a listener about their relationship. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact...

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Setting the scene 15:22 The ransom note  Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: http...

Dr Kirk answers leftover questions from the 17th Anniversary Live Show survey. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk provides an in-depth psychodynamic case formulation for Gloria of the famous Gloria Tapes. What defenses does she exhibit? How did her personality develop? This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://...