Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 10, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Obsessive and abusive love 15:33 Are these examples of limerence? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/Psych...

Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 9, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Erotomania 35:04 Sex crimes & stalking  Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: h...

Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 8, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Fictional examples of limerence 16:38 Somatic symptoms Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeatt...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda does a deep dive on therapist self-disclosure. November 6, 2017 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the Fyre Festival disaster and the psychology of its organizer, Billy McFarland. Is he a psychopath? Is he a victim of capitalism? Were we all subject to a mass delusion? February 6, 2019 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/c...

Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 3, 2025 (Intro) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Refining qualifiers & the cycle16:08 Was Kendra displaying limerence?  Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.p...

Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 2, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Limerence in the wild 17:33 Background anxiety 24:51 Continuous tension and hyper anxiety  Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https...

Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 1, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Intro 01:45 intrusive thoughts 23:12 Daydreaming & fantasy Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/Psycholog...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about domestic violence. May 30, 2016 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://ww...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about domestic violence. February 24, 2016 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https...

Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. November 26, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Intro 05:37 The signs of experiencing limerence 18:22 The functional impact  28:53 How does limerence disrupt life? 46:43 How is it different from a crush? 1:06:43 Is it possible to have a he...

Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. November 25, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Dr. Kirk's definition of limerence 09:14 Exploring terminology of limerence 12:30 What types of relationships involve limerence?  21:48 Clarifying the state of limerence 24:59 A 'bad' definit...

Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. November 24, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What is limerence?  08:1 How did Dr. Kirk get here? 22:48 What does the current research and discourse look like? 48:02 An exercise for limerence Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/chan...

Dr Kirk Honda reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 21, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Intro01:16 Self-care culture can cause undue pressure 03:42 Teachers should be banned from using mental health terms 11:04 Autistic individuals are frequently misdiagnosed with Borderli...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about being afraid of your therapist. January 21, 2016 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact We...

Dr Kirk Honda reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 19, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Intro 01:16 There should be therapy for friends 03:55 Therapists incentivise their clients to act immorally  04:41 Self improvement is a loop that leads to dissatisfaction  05:37 There...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Humberto talk about sexual fantasies. November 2, 2018 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: h...

Dr Kirk Honda reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 17, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Intro 03:21 Post-communist regimes breeds fearful avoidance 06:04 Patriarchy is the reason we say 'big egos' 11:05 First time clients should read a transference for dummies 14:32 More t...

Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. (Intro) November 14, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Exposure with social anxiety Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psycholog...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the NXIVM cult and the recent arrests of the leaders, Keith Raniere and Allison Mack. Is Raniere a psychopath? Was Allison Mack a victim of Stockholm syndrome? Why do people join cults? February 11, 2019 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://w...

Dr Kirk Honda, with Isaiah from the Therapy Today YouTube channel, reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 12, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Isaiah 03:42 Are kinky people deranged? 06:00 Do new therapists just think it's cool? 11:14 What is limerence? 16:58 Why...

[Rerun] Why did Ted Bundy kill? How did he become a sexual sadist and a psychopath? What do we know about his history that can explain his obsession? Dr. Kirk Honda explores these clinical questions with co-host Humberto. April 15, 2019. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.co...

Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. November 10, 2025 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 How does Bob handle unresolved feelings? 11:26 How does it feel for Bob to hear Dr. Kirk's anger?  33:58 Is it weird to grieve a therapist-client relationship?  41:05 Is it ok to take a break from therapy?...

Dr Kirk and Humberto talk about random things. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 JonBenét Ramsey responses 09:39 Weapons & Kpop 25:13 28 Years Later  29:23 Wreck-It Ralph 31:52 One Battle After Another 46:21 Tron: Ares  52:30 Doctor Who 54:42 Kpop Demon Hunters 1:14:22 Existential threats & Dr. K...

[Rerun] Is the enneagram personality test valid? Why is it so popular? Can it be used to help people improve their lives or is it just pseudoscience? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto explore these questions and more in the mini deep dive into enneagram. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KI...