PF Unfiltered

Who are you, really? Not your job title, not your bank account, not your relationship status. If all of that disappeared tomorrow, what's left? In this episode, PF, Rosalyn, and Kenneth get honest about the identity crisis most Christians won't talk about and why the answer isn't just quoting "fearfully and wonderfully made" in the mirror. PF breaks down why we let everyone e...

What if Babylon isn’t just a Bible story, a government, or a corrupt culture “out there” but the very system we’re all living in every day? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF, Roslyn, Kenneth, and Femi wrestle with one uncomfortable question: what does it really mean to be in the world but not of it? The conversation goes deep into Christianity, politics, capitalism, religion, work, voting, prof...

Why do you feel stuck? Because you feel like you're not working on purpose. You haven't figured out the call of God. No, no, no I don't give people that much credit. They compare themselves with other people. And they say: I should be here. But I'm stuck here." That's how PF opens this one then about eight minutes later he says the quiet part out loud: *most "purpose&...

What if everyone you call your enemy that coworker, that ex, that "village person," that ops was never actually your enemy in the first place? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, Pastor Femi breaks down spiritual warfare in a way most churches won't touch. From "ops" at work to ancestral curses to the witches your aunties warned you about, this conversation cuts through the n...

Feeling like your life is on autopilot? You're not depressed you're just living the life your parents prayed for. Stop chasing artificial highs. In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF breaks down why our generation is obsessed with constant stimulation and why that "meh" feeling isn't a medical emergency, but a spiritual opportunity. This conversation unpacks the trap of immedi...

Why do so many men struggle to be emotionally available and why does vulnerability sometimes get punished instead of rewarded? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, Pastor Femi, Tunde, and Kenneth unpack men's mental health, emotional suppression, Christian masculinity, relationships, and the pressure many African Christian men feel to always be strong, silent, and 'man up.' They talk abou...

Is the "soft life" actually a biblical promise or a dangerous prosperity scam? Pastor Femi unpacks the real cost of following Christ today. We love to scroll through aesthetics, but does the Bible actually teach a life free from struggle? In this episode we dismantle the "Soft Life" narrative — a modern, consumerist gospel that often leads believers to abandon their faith when...

Pastor Femi tackles the controversial rise of AI in the church, addressing whether it's a tool for growth or a threat to genuine faith. We discuss the hypocrisy of 'technological illiteracy' and why the real danger isn't the software, but the heart behind the prompt. Listen to PF Unfiltered weekly. Subscribe wherever you get podcasts. Follow us: @pfunfiltered (IG · TikTok · X)

Are you waking up with anxiety? You're not alone. If you're tired of chasing money, social status, and your parents dreams, it's time to audit your life. We are breaking down why your hustle mentality might be destroying your faith and why 'success' looks different than what society told you. It’s time to stop living for the approval of others and start living for the only One...

Are you shouting into the wind? Prayer isn't a magical performance or a production to impress God—it’s a conversation. We’re breaking down why many of us struggle to pray and exposing the religious theatre that keeps us from real intimacy with the Father. Stop acting and start connecting. EP11Most Christians have been taught that prayer requires specific protocols, long sessions, and religious...

Are you bankrupting your own future to fix your parents' poor financial choices? You love them, but ‘honoring your parents’ doesn’t mean losing your autonomy. We’re unpacking how to set firm boundaries without the guilt and why your bank account is nobody’s business but your own. This is the conversation the community needs to have. CHAPTERS: 0:00 The 'Give Me Money' Trap 0:53 Time to...

Churches used to talk about lust all the time. Now they don't — and PF has a theory about why. In this episode, PF, Esther, and Tunde tackle the conversation most pastors and podcasters won't touch: sexual desire, attraction, what both men and women are responsible for, and why being honest about biology doesn't make you a bad person. PF gets into why he'd rather preach about redem...

This conversation gets heated in the best way. The crew unpacks what it actually means to be the church not a building, not a concert, not a social club but the body of Christ. PF argues that rejecting the church wholesale while claiming to follow Christ is a contradiction, and draws a sharp line between acceptance and tolerance that will challenge both sides of the debate. The episode digs into w...

Growing up in an African household often comes with strict, unwritten rules—don’t question authority, don’t challenge your parents, and always respect your elders. But what happens when you’re an adult living in a different culture and those expectations remain the same? In this episode, PF reflects on his upbringing with a strict Yoruba mother and a more liberal father, and how those experiences...

If you had a billion dollars, what would you do? PF's answer might surprise you — and then he flips the question entirely. In this episode, PF, Esther, Kenneth, and Tunde tackle one of the most uncomfortable questions in Christian culture: how much money is actually enough? PF breaks down exactly what $1 million can cover (house, car, food, kids' tuition) and then asks why none of us would...

One word said casually, said a thousand times nearly broke a 10-year marriage. It wasn't cheating. It wasn't money. It was something most people say every day without thinking twice. In this episode, PF, Tunde, and Esther get into the small habits that quietly destroy marriages and the ones that quietly save them. PF breaks down what the Bible actually teaches about submission in marriage...

Should Christians still tithe? And why do people lose their minds when a pastor wears a nice watch? In this episode, PF, Kenneth, and Esther tackle one of the most divisive topics in church culture — money, tithing, and what pastors actually deserve to earn. PF gets vulnerable about his own lifestyle, reveals he works 80 hours a week on 5 hours of sleep, and explains why he'll never apologize...

In this unfiltered conversation, the crew tackles the gender roles debate head-on: Why are men emotionally unavailable? Why do women want men to cry... but also find it "cringy"? And why are we surprised by the exact people WE raised? Pastor Femi makes a bold argument: Stop blaming individuals. Blame the assembly line. The men you're frustrated with? Your mothers raised them. The women with "chips...

This Valentine’s week, skip the couple goals content. Here’s a real marriage. He had a full-blown affair in year 2 of their marriage. She flew to Oklahoma, drove him to the other woman’s house, and asked one question: “Is there something you want to tell me?” They just celebrated 20 years of marriage. In this raw and unfiltered episode, Tosin and Sanmi Laja-Akintayo (“The LAs”) share the real stor...

Should you quit your job and chase your passion? Not so fast. Pastor Femi unpacks why passion and purpose aren't the same thing—and why confusing them could have you chasing the wrong thing your whole life. PF shares the 5 clues to finding your actual purpose, gets real about what to do when your passion doesn't pay the bills, and reveals the pivotal moment God asked him: "Who sets yo...

Welcome to Season 4 of PF Unfiltered! We're kicking off the year with a conversation about the elephant in the room: why your New Year resolutions are probably already collecting dust. This isn't just another motivational podcast telling you to "work harder" or "manifest your dreams." This is an honest, biblically grounded conversation about the real reason most people...

In this conversation, the PF and team reflect on their experiences in 2025, discussing personal growth, challenges faced, and the importance of community and faith. They emphasize the need for intentionality in setting goals for 2026 and the significance of seeking God personally rather than relying solely on external guidance. The discussion also highlights the challenges of modern community dyna...

Pastor Femi, Esther, and Kenneth tackle the most debated question in church culture with biblical truth and unfiltered honesty. The answer might surprise you. In this episode, PF breaks down 1 Corinthians 8 "idols are nothing" and explains why Christmas shouldn't be the scapegoat for pseudo-spirituality. The crew explores Christian freedom, why believers judge each other over holiday...

"If you leave church because you are hurt, you never understood what church was about." - Pastor Femi Controversial? Absolutely. But before you comment, hear the full conversation. Young people are leaving church in record numbers—especially African immigrants and diaspora Christians who grew up in the faith. Pastor Femi, Kenneth, and Esther tackle why this is happening and whether walki...

We’re opening up the floor! Drop your raw, honest, unfiltered questions about faith, relationships, real-life struggles, and everything in between. No topic is off-limits. Send your questions to askpf@pfunfiltered.com or DM us on IG  @PFUnfiltered  . PF is looking forward to your questions!