PF Unfiltered

This Valentine’s week, skip the couple goals content. Here’s a real marriage. He had a full-blown affair in year 2 of their marriage. She flew to Oklahoma, drove him to the other woman’s house, and asked one question: “Is there something you want to tell me?” They just celebrated 20 years of marriage. In this raw and unfiltered episode, Tosin and Sanmi Laja-Akintayo (“The LAs”) share the real stor...

Should you quit your job and chase your passion? Not so fast. Pastor Femi unpacks why passion and purpose aren't the same thing—and why confusing them could have you chasing the wrong thing your whole life. PF shares the 5 clues to finding your actual purpose, gets real about what to do when your passion doesn't pay the bills, and reveals the pivotal moment God asked him: "Who sets yo...

Welcome to Season 4 of PF Unfiltered! We're kicking off the year with a conversation about the elephant in the room: why your New Year resolutions are probably already collecting dust. This isn't just another motivational podcast telling you to "work harder" or "manifest your dreams." This is an honest, biblically grounded conversation about the real reason most people...

In this conversation, the PF and team reflect on their experiences in 2025, discussing personal growth, challenges faced, and the importance of community and faith. They emphasize the need for intentionality in setting goals for 2026 and the significance of seeking God personally rather than relying solely on external guidance. The discussion also highlights the challenges of modern community dyna...

Pastor Femi, Esther, and Kenneth tackle the most debated question in church culture with biblical truth and unfiltered honesty. The answer might surprise you. In this episode, PF breaks down 1 Corinthians 8 "idols are nothing" and explains why Christmas shouldn't be the scapegoat for pseudo-spirituality. The crew explores Christian freedom, why believers judge each other over holiday...

"If you leave church because you are hurt, you never understood what church was about." - Pastor Femi Controversial? Absolutely. But before you comment, hear the full conversation. Young people are leaving church in record numbers—especially African immigrants and diaspora Christians who grew up in the faith. Pastor Femi, Kenneth, and Esther tackle why this is happening and whether walki...

We’re opening up the floor! Drop your raw, honest, unfiltered questions about faith, relationships, real-life struggles, and everything in between. No topic is off-limits. Send your questions to askpf@pfunfiltered.com or DM us on IG  @PFUnfiltered  . PF is looking forward to your questions!

In this heartfelt Thanksgiving episode of PF Unfiltered, the crew tackles the hardest kind of gratitude - being thankful when life isn't going according to plan. Discover how our hosts navigate family traditions, personal growth, and the transformative power of community. Whether you're a fan of turkey or prefer jollof rice, this conversation will inspire you to find your own reasons to be...

In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF sits down with Dami and Lolade Akibola, an incredible couple to discuss one of the most challenging aspects of marriage: MONEY!!. If you've ever wondered how to handle finances as a married couple, especially when cultural expectations clash with modern realities, this conversation is essential. Dami and Lolade share their journey from college students with...

In this episode of PF Unfiltered, the hosts delve into the complexities of emotions, mental health, and seasonal depression. They discuss personal experiences with depression, the impact of faith and community, and practical ways to manage mental health during difficult times. The conversation also highlights the difference between happiness and joy, the importance of purpose, and practical activi...

In this episode of PF Unfiltered, hosts Esther and Tunde engage in a candid discussion about the differences in Christian faith practices between Nigeria and the United States. They explore the perceptions each country's Christian community has of the other, the cultural and societal influences on faith, and the varying emphases on religious activities. The conversation touches on the challeng...

In this episode PF gets candid about almost breaking under the weight of perfection, how performing perfection nearly cost him his peace and how honesty, grace, and purpose pulled him back, first-born vs last-born pressure, and why the Holy Spirit not the timeline should set your pace.

What does it mean to have boundaries as a Christian? In this episode, PF Unfiltered explores how fear, insecurity, and people-pleasing often keep us from saying no. The crew tackles boundaries in relationships, money, church life, and work with biblical wisdom and real-life stories. Learn why confidence in God (not just self-help tips) is the foundation for healthy limits.

In this unfiltered conversation, Pastor Femi, Esther, and Tunde flip the script on red flags — and dive deep into what green flags really look like in relationships, friendships, and faith. From emotional availability to patience, honesty, and kindness, the crew breaks down how to spot healthy traits without confusing them for performance or perfection. 🟩 They get real about modern dating terms,...

Ever felt stuck between who you’ve been and who you’re called to become? In this episode, Pastor Wale Adenuga shares why he stepped down after 8 years of pastoring, the lessons behind his most famous song, and why contentment not performance is the heart of faith. Expect laughter, raw honesty, and hard truths about church culture, leadership, and transition.

From wig lace and too much makeup to love bombing and selfish friendships, the PF Unfiltered crew dives into the petty and the serious signs you shouldn’t ignore. Expect laughs, cultural banter, and biblical wisdom on spotting red flags in dating, friendships, and beyond.

How do we disagree without blowing up the relationship? In this lively PF Unfiltered episode, PF, Esther, and T dig into real-life conflict: tone vs. words, listening to understand (not to clap back), “agree to disagree,” switching churches over style, being friends with exes, and the spicy liquor-store question for Christians. Also: the eternal debate… pineapple on pizza 🍍🍕.

Season 3 of PF Unfiltered kicks off with a big question: Should pastors, worship leaders, and church creatives be paid—or is ministry meant to be free? Pastor Femi and the crew dive into the unfiltered truth about church money, pastoral pay, musicians charging fees, and even the controversy over private jets. We unpack Bible verses like “don’t muzzle the ox,” talk church finances and stewardship,...

What would PF do if God gave him just one week? Hear his honest, heartfelt answer—alongside hilarious banter, some sandwich betrayal, and lessons on staying connected to the Body of Christ. 🎉 This episode is sponsored by Mama Mary’s All-Purpose Seasoning! Nigerian-inspired, bold flavor for soups, stews, rice, meats & more. 🌿 Original & Low Sodium (No MSG) options available. 🛒 Order on A...

They barely knew each other. “The Lord said...” turned into “We’re pregnant” on day one. In this hilarious yet sobering episode, the crew and Guest, Pastor AK dive into the chaos that unfolds when couples skip friendship, rush into marriage, and let pressure or prophecy drive their decisions. Real talk. Real laughs. Always unfiltered. This Episode is Sponsored by Mama Mary’s All-Purpose Seasoning!...

In this heartfelt and unfiltered episode, PF sits down with Emmy Award-winning filmmaker Abi Matesun (Malekfotos) to unpack the tension between control, creativity, and surrender to God. From childhood in Nigeria to global success in storytelling, they explore how dependence on God not ambition fuels true excellence.

As headlines grow darker and policies grow more unpredictable, this episode calls Christians back to the peace of God that surpasses understanding. Through scripture, personal stories, and candid conversations, we explore how to develop unshakable faith in a world that’s constantly shifting. If you’ve ever felt like your hope is fading, this one is for you.

From ancestral altars to pop culture trends, we unpack thetruth about witchcraft—what it really means biblically, how it shows up today,and why it’s more than broomsticks and black cats. Is it harmless, or spiritualwarfare in disguise and how believers can discern the difference?   This Episode is Sponsored by Mama Mary’s All-PurposeSeasoning! 🎉 Mama Mary’s is the Nigerian spice blend that makes...

In this powerful episode of PF Unfiltered, we sit with the tension of unanswered prayers and the emotional weight they leave behind. Through personal stories, honest reflections, and scriptural truth, we reveal how God’s love and faithfulness are not always revealed in answered prayers but often in the process of waiting, growing, and surrendering. We also discuss the difference between asking and...

In Part 2 of our PF Unfiltered conversation, we pick up where we left off—taking the boundary talk even deeper. This time, we’re unpacking how past experiences, church teachings, and societal pressures shape the way we date and love today. What happens when boundaries are too rigid—or too loose? How do we navigate grace, temptation, and accountability in a world that glorifies self over sacrifice?...