PF Unfiltered

Why do we cancel people based on a snapshot of their life, when God judges by something we can't even see? In Part 2 of "I Believe in God But I'm Not Religious," Pastor Femi, Lorraine and Tunde get into what actually makes someone a Christian, and why so much of how we judge each other has nothing to do with God's standard. PF explains that God counts you as a Christian becau...

Is the Bible misogynistic, or have we only been reading one verse of it? For the first time in 25 years, men are out-attending women at church (Barna, 2025). Gen Z and Millennial men are filling the pews while young women quietly walk out, and online, the Bible is getting the blame. PF and the crew dig into why. They take on the verses people quote most (1 Timothy's "let the women be sile...

"I believe in God, but I'm not religious." You've heard it, maybe you've said it. But what does it actually mean, and is it enough? Pastor Femi (PF), Tunde Makanjuola and Loraine unpack spirituality and religion, starting with what "spiritual" really means and whether being over-spiritual is a thing. The crew gets personal: Tunde was hit and called ungrateful for no...

Should you keep giving when you know some of those requests are scams? PF has a surprisingly freeing answer about black tax, generosity, and the line between being a blessing and being exploited. Most of us know the messages: school fees, rent, a sick relative, and sometimes a roof that doesn't exist. In this episode, PF, Loraine and Kenneth get honest about black tax and "billing,"...

Everybody says they want to serve so why does modern church so often feel like a room full of people just watching? Season 5 is back, and Pastor Femi, Esther, and Tunde get honest about what SERVICE actually looks like when no one's watching. This isn't a lecture on volunteering. It's a real conversation about rest without guilt, why "doing nothing" can be harder than working...

What happens when someone checks all your boxes… but still isn’t right for you? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF and the crew respond to real audience questions on relationships, singleness, sex, purity, marriage, fear, standards, and the confusion a lot of Christians carry into modern dating. This conversation goes straight at unequally yoked relationships, why “boxes” can become walls, why f...

Where did miracles go? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF tackles one of the biggest questions many Christians quietly ask: why does it feel like we don’t see miracles the way people talk about them in Acts, revival stories, or old-school church culture? But the real answer is sharper than most people expect. PF argues that the modern church has confused the spectacular with the miraculous and i...

Who are you, really? Not your job title, not your bank account, not your relationship status. If all of that disappeared tomorrow, what's left? In this episode, PF, Rosalyn, and Kenneth get honest about the identity crisis most Christians won't talk about and why the answer isn't just quoting "fearfully and wonderfully made" in the mirror. PF breaks down why we let everyone e...

What if Babylon isn’t just a Bible story, a government, or a corrupt culture “out there” but the very system we’re all living in every day? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF, Roslyn, Kenneth, and Femi wrestle with one uncomfortable question: what does it really mean to be in the world but not of it? The conversation goes deep into Christianity, politics, capitalism, religion, work, voting, prof...

Why do you feel stuck? Because you feel like you're not working on purpose. You haven't figured out the call of God. No, no, no I don't give people that much credit. They compare themselves with other people. And they say: I should be here. But I'm stuck here." That's how PF opens this one then about eight minutes later he says the quiet part out loud: *most "purpose&...

What if everyone you call your enemy that coworker, that ex, that "village person," that ops was never actually your enemy in the first place? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, Pastor Femi breaks down spiritual warfare in a way most churches won't touch. From "ops" at work to ancestral curses to the witches your aunties warned you about, this conversation cuts through the n...

Feeling like your life is on autopilot? You're not depressed you're just living the life your parents prayed for. Stop chasing artificial highs. In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF breaks down why our generation is obsessed with constant stimulation and why that "meh" feeling isn't a medical emergency, but a spiritual opportunity. This conversation unpacks the trap of immedi...

Why do so many men struggle to be emotionally available and why does vulnerability sometimes get punished instead of rewarded? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, Pastor Femi, Tunde, and Kenneth unpack men's mental health, emotional suppression, Christian masculinity, relationships, and the pressure many African Christian men feel to always be strong, silent, and 'man up.' They talk abou...

Is the "soft life" actually a biblical promise or a dangerous prosperity scam? Pastor Femi unpacks the real cost of following Christ today. We love to scroll through aesthetics, but does the Bible actually teach a life free from struggle? In this episode we dismantle the "Soft Life" narrative — a modern, consumerist gospel that often leads believers to abandon their faith when...

Pastor Femi tackles the controversial rise of AI in the church, addressing whether it's a tool for growth or a threat to genuine faith. We discuss the hypocrisy of 'technological illiteracy' and why the real danger isn't the software, but the heart behind the prompt. Listen to PF Unfiltered weekly. Subscribe wherever you get podcasts. Follow us: @pfunfiltered (IG · TikTok · X)

Are you waking up with anxiety? You're not alone. If you're tired of chasing money, social status, and your parents dreams, it's time to audit your life. We are breaking down why your hustle mentality might be destroying your faith and why 'success' looks different than what society told you. It’s time to stop living for the approval of others and start living for the only One...

Are you shouting into the wind? Prayer isn't a magical performance or a production to impress God—it’s a conversation. We’re breaking down why many of us struggle to pray and exposing the religious theatre that keeps us from real intimacy with the Father. Stop acting and start connecting. EP11Most Christians have been taught that prayer requires specific protocols, long sessions, and religious...

Are you bankrupting your own future to fix your parents' poor financial choices? You love them, but ‘honoring your parents’ doesn’t mean losing your autonomy. We’re unpacking how to set firm boundaries without the guilt and why your bank account is nobody’s business but your own. This is the conversation the community needs to have. CHAPTERS: 0:00 The 'Give Me Money' Trap 0:53 Time to...

Churches used to talk about lust all the time. Now they don't — and PF has a theory about why. In this episode, PF, Esther, and Tunde tackle the conversation most pastors and podcasters won't touch: sexual desire, attraction, what both men and women are responsible for, and why being honest about biology doesn't make you a bad person. PF gets into why he'd rather preach about redem...

This conversation gets heated in the best way. The crew unpacks what it actually means to be the church not a building, not a concert, not a social club but the body of Christ. PF argues that rejecting the church wholesale while claiming to follow Christ is a contradiction, and draws a sharp line between acceptance and tolerance that will challenge both sides of the debate. The episode digs into w...

Growing up in an African household often comes with strict, unwritten rules—don’t question authority, don’t challenge your parents, and always respect your elders. But what happens when you’re an adult living in a different culture and those expectations remain the same? In this episode, PF reflects on his upbringing with a strict Yoruba mother and a more liberal father, and how those experiences...

If you had a billion dollars, what would you do? PF's answer might surprise you — and then he flips the question entirely. In this episode, PF, Esther, Kenneth, and Tunde tackle one of the most uncomfortable questions in Christian culture: how much money is actually enough? PF breaks down exactly what $1 million can cover (house, car, food, kids' tuition) and then asks why none of us would...

One word said casually, said a thousand times nearly broke a 10-year marriage. It wasn't cheating. It wasn't money. It was something most people say every day without thinking twice. In this episode, PF, Tunde, and Esther get into the small habits that quietly destroy marriages and the ones that quietly save them. PF breaks down what the Bible actually teaches about submission in marriage...

Should Christians still tithe? And why do people lose their minds when a pastor wears a nice watch? In this episode, PF, Kenneth, and Esther tackle one of the most divisive topics in church culture — money, tithing, and what pastors actually deserve to earn. PF gets vulnerable about his own lifestyle, reveals he works 80 hours a week on 5 hours of sleep, and explains why he'll never apologize...

In this unfiltered conversation, the crew tackles the gender roles debate head-on: Why are men emotionally unavailable? Why do women want men to cry... but also find it "cringy"? And why are we surprised by the exact people WE raised? Pastor Femi makes a bold argument: Stop blaming individuals. Blame the assembly line. The men you're frustrated with? Your mothers raised them. The women with "chips...