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I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: With all the talk about toxic masculinity, what does POSITIVE masculinity look like? Here's what we can learn about being better men from the hicks, jocks and skids of Letterkenny. What Does Positive Mascul...

The reason why so many people struggle with dating isn't because of their looks, their height, their genes or their hairline. It's because they are caught in a cycle of bad habits and practices that destroy your confidence and sabotages your ability to improve. Here's how you can break out of this negative cycle and build the habits that will improve your willpower, your self-esteem and help you f...

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Everyone's heard the "let's just be friends" speech from someone they've been attracted to. But how do you make a friendship work with someone you're attracted to? How do you keep sex from getting in the wa...

Do you know what women find sexy in a man? Not attractive, not aesthetically pleasing but what makes a woman want to peel a man's clothing off with her teeth. A lot of guys… don't. In fact, a lot of guys have the absolute WRONG ideas about what turns women on. If you want to be sexier than other guys, then you should know what draws a woman to a guy... and why she says YES to sleeping with one guy...

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Valentine's Day is coming, and it's stressing people out. How can you learn to be happy when you're single, especially when it seems like the universe is determined to remind you that everyone else is coupl...

Here's something nobody will tell you about being successful with women: nobody is "naturally" good with women. Nobody is born with an instinctual ability to get dates. Everyone — people who seem to be naturally gifted and people who learned later in life — all developed their skills the same way. That's why all the people who are successful with women have the same things in common. If you want t...

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How do you keep your relationship from fading into boredom? What's the secret to keeping the spark making your long-term relationship feel as fresh and hot and alive as when you first met? Book A Private Co...

We live more and more of our lives online, and that means that more of our relationships start there too. But most guys don't know how to flirt effectively on Facebook, Instagram or Snapchat. If you want to be the guy that women like to talk to and enjoy hearing from, not just another thirsty dude trying to slide into her DMs, then you want to follow these rules for flirting with women on social m...

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: What are the best pictures for dating apps like Tinder, Hinge, Bumble and OKCupid? And how can guys look more photogenic and get more matches? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript av...

How do you find someone who's the RIGHT girlfriend for you... and how do you make sure that YOU are the guy that SHE'S looking for? We're going to talk about what you can do to turn 2020 into the year you meet someone who is your perfect match, and how to be the exact right man for her as well. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why online dating is the WRONG approach for trying to find the perfect girlfriend How m...

DR. NERDLOVE MERCHANDISE: https://nerdloveacademy.com/shop/  One of the biggest reasons why people have a hard time flirting successfully is that they don't understand how flirting is supposed to work. But when you understand the overall philosophy of flirting, you're in a much better position to fine tune your flirting style to one that works for you and lets you adapt to whomever you're trying t...

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How can you meet more women when you live in a small town? And how do you stop having a fear of missing out on the "perfect" relationship?   Book a Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove   Transcript av...

What would you do if you weren't afraid of being rejected? How would your life change if you could approach people you were attracted to without the fear of rejection? Eliminating your fear of rejection could create a profound transformation in your life. You can do this. You can learn to be absolutely fearless when it comes to meeting new people. It's just a matter of making a very simple change...

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Should you tell women that you're a virgin, or is it better to keep it a secret. And is dating your co-worker a good idea? The Virgin's Guide to Great Sex Book a Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove T...

Why did she stop replying to your texts? Why won't she text you back? Is time to panic?  When when stop responding to your texts, it can feel like she doesn't like you any more. But that's not always the case. If your text conversations are drying up before you can get her out on a date, then you may be having one of these common issues. Here's why women won't text you back… and what you can do ab...

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe next week the question I'll answer will be yours! This week: Why do so many women have empty online dating profiles? And what do you do when a woman's given you a fake number? Transcript available at  patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don't forget to subscribe and revie...

Online dating sucks. Doesn't matter if it's Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid or Christian Mingle. Men get next to no matches, women get flooded with awful messages, bots, trolls and zombie profiles run rampant on most apps... it's like trying to find a diamond in a pit of sewage. Most dating apps seem designed to be frustrating to ANYONE who wants to date someone of the opposite sex. But it doesn't have to...

Toxic relationships can be hard to recognize. Are you being stubborn and selfish? Or is something actually wrong? Toxic people don't look like cartoon abusers, gloating about how great it is to manipulate folks. Learning how to recognize the signs of a toxic relationship — and how to avoid them in the first place — will strengthen your relationships, improve your confidence and make you 100% happi...

Why do women say they want to find a nice guy, but never seem to want to date them? The answer is that what women are  not saying is actually more important. Whenever a woman says "I wish I could find a nice guy", there's the unspoken modifier: "I wish i could find a nice guy… who actually excites me." Here's how men can stop being so "nice", and start being amazing. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What women RE...

Are you ruining your chances of meeting incredible women before you even start? Women HATE it when the guys they meet do these 5 things. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How guys turn women off before they even say a word Why trying to impress women you're attracted to is the wrong move How to demonstrate REAL value and status when you're flirting Why you don't want to have TOO much in common How men manage to tu...

Confidence isn't about being 100% sure of your inevitable success, it's simply feeling that you know how to handle the situation.
 Taking away the fear of social awkwardness helps build bullet-proof social confidence. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:  Why your attitude is the key to your social success How you accidently cripple your in-person social skills Why MeetUps, mixers and networking is better for develop...

What does it take to be someone that women want to date? It's not about looks, status or money. It's about understanding the secret behind  why we fall in love and with whom.  Show Highlights: Why guys focus on surface issues... and miss the most important parts of attraction Why women will reject you BEFORE getting to know the real you How guys turn off women long before they ever start talking t...

Does personality matter, or are looks the only thing that's important? Why do guys have a hard time understanding what makes a man attractive to women? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How much your physique ACTUALLY matters to women Why "attraction triggers" and evolutionary psychology give men all the wrong answers How we let self-limiting beliefs sabotage our dating success Why attraction is about more than bi...

Men feel immense pressure to look a particular way and they're breaking themselves, physically and psychically to try to get to reach those ideals.
 As bodies are marketed to us as products and men are sold self-loathing, we have to ask: what does a REAL man look like? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How male celebrities are getting the body-shaming treatment from the media Why the idea of what makes a "real" ma...

When Chris Morgan had a meltdown at the Bagel Boss in Long Island, he was tapping into real frustrations short men have in dating. Here's how short guys can learn to get the girl. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How the body shaming of Jason Momoa and the Bagel Boss meltdown are symptoms of the same problem Why your height isn't the deal breaker you think it is What Tom Cruise, Robert Downey Jr., Donald Glover a...