Om Rupani Podcast

A GARDENER’S MINDSET FOR BETTER LOVE & EROS A skilled gardener communes with each plant or tree he encounters.  He knows enough about plants to know how this particular plant is doing and how this plant might fair even better. He can tell if this plant would do better in more or less light, with more or less water, planted on this side of the garden or that. The good gardener contributes to ea...

CONTAINMENT 05 - HOW WOMEN CAN RECEIVE THEIR MAN’S CONTAINMENT BETTER Some women have been asking this questions after watching the previous videos I’ve put out on Containment.  These are some thoughts. Om Rupani — OmRupani.org www. OmRupani.org

THE CRUCIAL DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WOMEN WHO REPEATEDLY FAIL IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS WITH MEN, COMPARED TO THE ONE’S WHO SUCCEED.  I believe the crucial difference between these two categories of women is the difference in one core belief they are carrying. The life they lead and what they create with men is actually in logical harmony with this single core belief. Without changing this core belief, it...

BE OF USE IN ORDER TO HAVE ESTEEM The idea of Self-Esteem is something that has become common knowledge.  We all think we know what it is.  There seems to be a general consensus that having high self-esteem is a good thing, and having low self-esteem is something that is regrettable and should be corrected. I am not sure about any of this regarding Self-Esteem.  And yet, I believe self-esteem is a...

WHY THE COURTESAN ARCHETYPE IS THE OLDEST PROFESSION IN THE WORLD. I believe our human soul has always known that our Eros is a pathway to divinity. I believe that this is one of the core drives that pulls us towards sex.  We in fact are looking for God through sex.  We are looking for our original home through sex.  We are looking for the end to our separation identity through sex. We know this,...

GIVE CONTAINMENT TO YOUR WOMAN’S CORE, NOT TO HER EMOTIONS Even before being concerned with giving Containment to anyone, including your woman, it’s good as a man to have a distinction between your Core and your Emotions. A man himself should be anchored in his Core, and not be focused on the changing weather of his emotions.  One of the hallmarks of masculinity is: can a man stay centered in turb...

MEN NEED TO DOMINATE THEIR MOTHERS This isn’t some kinky proposition.  It is an essential part of the individuation process for Men.  One of the hallmarks of a young boy transitioning into manhood is the shift in his relationship and his energies with his mother. I’m going to be very specific about what I mean by ‘dominate your mother’.  There are 6 metrics listed below.  As a man, evaluate yourse...

PLAY, JOY & INNOCENCE IN BDSM When people think of BDSM, the most common adjective that they bring up is ‘DARK’! BDSM is about Dark Eros!  Indeed it is! Or people think of it providing practitioners with Release and Healing.  Also true. TABOO is the other big word that is associated with this realm…and correctly so. But what is understood less is just how much FUN, PLAY, JOY, SILLINESS, MISCHI...

ANSWERING THE CALL OF THE COURTESAN ARCHETYPE The call of certain archetypes is simpler.  The call of other archetypes not so easy. There are archetypes that may be unpopular in our times.  Others are less respected by society than others. Grappling with our call towards any archetype is integral to our soul journey. The Courtesan’s call is a difficult one to answer.  It may be looked down upon. ...

WE ARE BECOMING A LOYALTY-DAMAGED POPULATION It is a common saying that : Hurt People Hurt People. One big way I see this hurt playing out in our culture is through the experience of BETRAYAL. The experience that we are accumulating the most in our current culture of abundant dating and intimacy choices is the experience of Betrayal. And it isn’t even like there are two camps - one camp of people...

STUDENT TESTIMONIAL FOR TANTRA MEETS BDSM Next retreat will be in Tulum in February 2024 : https://omrupani.org/tantra-meets-bdsm-mexico PRIESTESS TRAINING : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-mastery www. OmRupani.org

IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN PARTNERSHIP, DON’T INVEST IN PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT If we understand the prerequisites for Partnership, it becomes much simpler to see whether a person we have encountered is interested in developing a partnership with us or not. Partnership is about two people building something together. Partnership is about bringing one’s own relationship masteries and offering it to anothe...

Q&A with Lauren Harkness About Our Upcoming Immersive Training For Practitioners. Course Registration : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-mastery www. OmRupani.org

COURTESANS AS REPAIR ENZYMES FOR OUR INTIMACY AND RELATIONSHIPS People who have sensual mastery themselves, and who might be able to contribute to the betterment of sensual lives of others are so badly needed in our culture right now. Our relationships and intimacies are in widespread breakdown. Traditional therapy and couple’s counseling has its uses, but most often, the traditional therapist is...

MEN’S REALLY NEED TO FALL OUT OF LOVE WITH THEIR OWN CONFUSION & SCATTERED-NESS God knows the women of our modern world have their share of work to do when it comes to healing their relationship with the masculine and coming into alignment and agreement with men if they are to build any kind of a worthwhile partnership with men. The women who show up to my classes tend to be women who have alr...

THE CRUCIAL BUILDING BLOCK OF COMMITMENT IS ATTENTION, NOT TIME The word and idea of COMMITMENT for most people implies ‘long time span’. This is technically incorrect.  Although a commitment can span for a long period of time, time is not the crucial building block of commitment; attention is. It’s possible to offer your commitment to a person for only 5 minutes.  And it’s possible to be in a lon...

PRIESTESS OF EROS CLASS Q&A. Here with my amazing co-facilitator Lauren Harkness, talking about our upcoming 6-month intensive training for women. More course info is at : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-mastery — Om Rupani www. OmRupani.org

WE ARE DROWNING IN EMOTION AND STARVING FOR LOVE Ask most people, and they will say that Love and Emotions are pretty much the same thing. Most people will agree that Loving someone means caring about their Feelings. Many people will agree that how we Love someone is to soothe and comfort their Feelings. I believe this is a very infantile model of Love. Events of heart activation in the 4th center...

LEAH PIPER & DR. WILLOW BROWN PODCAST - 2023 Lively conversation with Leah Piper & Dr. Willow Brown on all matters related to Man-Woman relating, BDSM and Dominance & Submission. — Om Rupani OmRupani.org www. OmRupani.org

IF YOU WANT TO LEAD YOUR WOMAN, BE BETTER THAN YOUR WOMAN If you want to lead anybody, be better than them. This is the core demand of leadership.  We want to be led by our betters.  We don’t want to be led by people we look down upon. This applies to any and all hierarchically relationships.  Teachers need to be better than their students.  Parents need to be better than their children.  Leaders...

ASPECTING ARCHETYPES IN THE PRIESTESS CLASS Lauren Harkness and I discuss the First Module of the Modern Priestess of Eros.  Aspecting our Dom/sub archetypes for greater personal expression and to increase our ability to hold space for others.   This was a powerful and potent exploration for the graduates of the last round of Modern Priestess.   If you're interested in the class, the next rou...

ONE GUARANTEED WAY TO LIVE A MEDIOCRE LIFE One guaranteed way to live a mediocre life is to live in fear and dread of one’s own negative emotional responses. To live to avoid negative feelings. To live in fear that an event, an action, a direction one may take might generate negative emotions in us. To live in fear of fear. To live in fear of humiliation. To live, not in the fear of failure necess...

S** & CALALMITY PODCAST Lively conversation with podcasters based in Austria. Upcoming Course In Austria : https://omrupani.org/tantra-meets-bdsm-austria -- Om Rupani www. OmRupani.org

WOMEN SHARING ABOUT PARTICIPATING IN THE MEN’S COURSE I had a group of wonderful women practitioners come and give feedback to the men on how they are landing on women’s system. The women are sharing here at the end of the course about their experience with engaging with the men and giving them feedback, and what message they have for men of today. — Om Rupani OmRupani.org www. OmRupani.org

INTIMACY ISSUES WITH EUROPEAN COUPLES Are there intimacy issues among European men and women that are a bit different from other couples? This is a conversation with my collaborator Laurie Handlers about things we have heard European men and women complaint about regarding their relationships.   These are three issues we have heard: 1. European women are bored with European men. 2. European men ar...