Om Rupani Podcast

THE MODERN WOMAN IS WIDELY ADDICTED TO EXPERIENCING DISAPPOINTMENT IN THE MASCULINE. One of our great energetic and spiritual blindspot is this : We don’t see how addicted we are to certain negative emotions and negative experiences. We all have a pain body.  We all have pain from the past.  We all have pain connected to our primary relationships with our parents. We are all prone to repeating thi...

YOUR RELATIONSHIPS MIGHT BE FAILING BECAUSE YOU ARE A LOUSY COMPANION. Companionship is one of the main reasons we seek out connections of any kind. We make friends with people whose companionship we enjoy. If we enjoy the companionship of our co-workers, our work is more easy and pleasurable.  If we don’t enjoy the companionship of our con-workers; work can become very unpleasant and stressful. E...

WHAT MAKES A MAN IN TO A FUCKBOY. Women do. This is a title, a position, a honorary title that only women can grant men.  Men can’t designate themselves fuckboys. How and when does a woman create a fuckboy?.  A woman creates a fuckboy when she has sex with a man she does not respect. The woman does not think that his man is a man of substance. The woman does not think this man is well accomplished...

IT’S DISASTROUS WHEN MEN CAN’T HANDLE THE TRUTH. Denying reality is not a manly virtue. My recommendation to men is that they have negative temperaments.  Be pessimistic.  Be on the lookout for disasters.  Expect disasters. I believe this negative temperament is also a virtue of leaderships.   We expect our leaders to spot the dangers that are headed our way and to confront those dangers. The firs...

BURNING IN LOVE IS ONE WAY TO HEAL ABANDONMENT ISSUES This is the path of exposure therapy.  It is the direct path to dealing with the issue.  It requires a bit of courage.  And perhaps one has to already be at a certain level of development in order to undertake this more advanced medicine.  Not everybody is ready for it.  But I see more and more people who are in fact ready for it. One reason we...

WOMEN SHOULD NOT ENTER RELATIONSHIPS THROUGH THEIR HEART This may seem like an unconventional notion, but try it on for size. I see the proposition of wanting the man you are having feelings towards to commit to you as a ploy for putting out the fires of the heart, not nurturing them. Each person’s heart journey is their own.  Our heart activation is a spiritual gift.  But how do we respond when t...

MANY WOMEN COACHES ARE LEECHES ON THE PAIN BODIES OF THE WOMEN THEY COACH These coaches firmly embody the RESCUER position on the Victimhood triangle.  The Rescuer position is the most clever.  It is the most camouflaged.  It is the most sinister.   The Rescuer is the one who is most adept at lying and deceiving.  The Rescuers commit their robberies in broad day light, in plain sight of the people...

WHY CASUAL SEX SUCKS FOR WOMEN Casual sex sucks because the people who engage in the casual sex suck at sex. Women have not acquired much sexual mastery.  Their hook-ups and casual dates have not acquired any sexual mastery.  Consequently, their sex sucks. Neither of them knows how to activate a lover’s energetic system.  Neither of them is even present or interested in activating their lover’s en...

WHAT WOMEN WANT FROM MEN This is a great conversation with my dear friends Dana & Meredith on what they are looking for in men today. They are going to be part of the women practitioners for my upcoming course for men: Dating & Dominance For The Modern Man. Even if you are encountering this conversation after the course date, this conversation is timeless.  And I have other courses always...

POLARITY IS NOT FUNDAMENTAL TO MAN-WOMAN RELATING SUCCESS, AGREEMENT IS. Many couples are hearing about polarized relating these days.  Many couples are coming into get trained in polarized relating.  All of which is great. The piece that many couples are missing is : AGREEMENT! Many long term couples are not in agreement with each other. Many couples have been carrying complaints and resentments...

One prominent phenomenon I see these days is how much women are projecting their own esteem issues onto the men they are relating with. It isn't so much that the men they are with are doing anything bad or abusive to devalue the women.  It's simply that the the woman is FEELING devalued. This phenomenon is very parallel to what people with Narcissistic Personality Disorders experience. ...

IF YOU ARE CONTROLLING YOUR MAN, YOU HAVEN’T COMMITTED TO HIM YET. The central element needed for functionality and peace between men and women is AGREEMENT. If there is one poisonous impact that Feminism and Patriarchy Theory has had on the psyches of modern women, it is to convince them that they should never come into agreement with a man, with their man, with men in general, with masculinity....

WHAT IS A SUBMISSIVE WOMAN ANYWAY? A submissive woman is one who wants to pair with a Dominant Man. A submissive woman is one who is no longer is in shadow about wanting a Dominant Man. A submissive woman is one who wants to play the complimentary role to a Dominant Man. A submissive woman desires and values men’s masculinity, their masculine strength and masculine leadership.   She never competes...

PODCAST WITH LEAH PIPER & DR. WILLOW BROWN - 2022 —BDSM as a path to self-discovery. —Bridge between Tantra & BDSM. —How to take responsibility for new sensual investigations. —Emotional release as erotic movement. —Catharsis in BDSM play. —The separation of giving and receiving. —Balancing Giving & Receiving in BDSM dynamics. —The fallacy of seeking healing through receiving rather th...

THE NON-CONSENSUAL DYNAMICS IN VANILLA RELATIONSHIPS Dom-sub dynamics are built on Consent. Dom-sub dynamics are built on the two people being in Agreement with each other. Without this agreement/consent, there is no scene between Dom and sub; there is no dynamic between Dom and sub; there is no relationship between Dom & sub. We even create a provision for both Dom & sub to exit their sce...

AGREEMENT DEFICIENCY IS KILLING WOMEN’S RELATIONSHIPS TO MEN The one ingredient you need to make any relationship work is — AGREEMENT! This applies to romantic relationships. It applies to filial and family relationships. It even applies to relationships within a group and a tribe. ******************** One piece of poisonous programming that the modern woman has swallowed, thanks to feminism, is t...

I have a 6-month program for practitioners who are interested in bringing BDSM skills into their session work.   I teach this intensive with my dear friend Lauren Harkness.   This is a conversation with one of our students about her experience with this course. You can find our more about this program at : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-mastery Best, Om www. OmRupani.org

WOMEN ARE FULL OF SHIT IN THEIR SEXINESS. *(This is a module from the course : CREATING THE DOMINANT MAN) Women’s sexiness is the most alluring part of their bullshit.  It looks so good.  It smiles so good.  It laughs so sexy.  Those eyes, those lips, those heels, that dress, that look in their eyes and then another look in their eyes.  The lilt of their laughter.  That sway of their hips as they...

FEMINISM HAS FAILED!  WHAT’S NEXT? Feminism has given us a generation of angry and disappointed women and a generation of broken and self-doubting men. In this conversation with Kelly Brogan we discuss the current state of masculinity and femininity, all that is dysfunctional in our modern culture and where we might go from here. — Om Rupani www. OmRupani.com www. OmRupani.org

THE MODERN WOMAN IS ENERGETICALLY CONSTIPATED IN RELATION TO THE MASCULINE I think the modern woman is more interested in being disappointed in men than in being happy with men. This is an energetic and spiritual crucible. The feminine ego is deriving a certain satisfaction in being this perpetually disappointed in the masculine. What are the egos satisfactions? She gets to be special in her miser...

MEN SHOULD STOP CARING ABOUT WOMEN’S EMOTIONS. Women’s emotions have become too important to men. This is counterproductive.  This is actually neither good for men, nor for women. Men caring so much for women’s emotions is destroying Man-Woman relating. Women’s emotions are flooding Men’s energetic and emotional bodies in two big ways:  Women’s emotionality is triggering men’s emotionality.  Women...

WHAT ARE YOU BUILT FOR AS A MAN? We all must inquire from time to time, ‘What the hell am I doing here anyway?  What is my Purpose?  Why am I here?’ Maybe instead of turning to the heavens and inquiring about our purpose, we can take a more introverted approach and ask, ‘What exactly am I built for?’ Here today, as you are, what are you built for? As Barbara Walters might ask, if you were a dog, w...

HOW DO I A MAKE A WOMAN MISS ME?  PART 3 OF 3 - ABSENCE! Men underestimate how important their ABSENCE is in the establishment of their value and attraction to women.  A man’s absence is the silent part of his seduction and his confidence. Something for men to consider regarding their Absence: It’s in your absence that a woman actually makes up her mind about you. It’s in your absence that a woman...

HOW DO I MAKE A WOMAN MISS ME?  Part 2 of 3 : EMOTION! Men often ask, ‘How do I make a woman miss me?’ Most often men ask this question after their woman has left them.  In which case, this is a useless question to ask.  Trying to make a woman who has already left you miss you is unproductive. It’s understandable that your feelings might be hurt after you have been left.  It’s understandable that...

HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN MISS YOU 01 - ATTENTION Men often ask this question after the woman has left, which makes the asking of this question rather pointless.  Hankering to make a woman miss you after she has already decided to leave you is a waste of time.  Instead, men should focus on how they might be able to make a woman miss them while they are still seducing her or while they are still in a rel...