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GIVE FIRST This is the counter-balance prompt to SIMPING. Simping is a man over-provisioning a woman.  It’s a man giving to a woman way more than she is giving back to him.  A Simping dynamic is one that is way out of balance on reciprocity. ************** I also encourage men and women to both GIVE FIRST in their interactions with others.  Giving First is where we demonstrate our capacity and att...

A SIMP OVER-PROVISIONS THE WOMAN ‘SIMPING’ has become part of the modern man-woman vocabulary.  The word has a negative connotation regarding the man it applies to.  I have not used this word myself, but these days, while coaching men on their NICE GUY syndrome, men themselves are describing their own behavior as simping and wanting to stop. Within my framework, I would define ‘Simping’ as a man o...

THE FIRST AGREEMENT IN MAN-WOMAN DYNAMIC The first agreement a man and a woman should create between them is what kind of dynamic they want to create. For couples who are considering creating a dynamic where the man is leading his woman well, and his woman is desirous of that, the two of them coming into agreement that this is in fact the dynamic they both want to create is the big first step. Man...

AGREEMENT IS THE FOUNDATION OF A FUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP 1.  If you want to lead your relationship as a man, your foundational drive needs to be to create Agreement within your relationship unit. 2.  This means, don’t bring people into your relationship unit who are not interested in coming into Agreement with you. 3.  Contentious women are bad relationship partners. ********************* 4.  Any...

PODCAST - Creating the Dominant Man OBISIDIAN.  October 4-8, 2026.  Catskills, NY COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/obsidian/ ******************* COUPLES’ COURSE.  Dominican Republic.  November 12-17, 2026 COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/dscouples ******************* SUBMISSIVE WOMAN - SELF STUDY COURSE : https://www.omrupani.com/spaces/18894018/content www. OmRupani.org

OBSIDIAN, Q&A.  DEEPER JOURNEY IS ANCHORED IN RELATIONSHIP. I give information and answer some questions about my new BDSM training. This training will emphasize foundational skills for this realm.  It will also focus on each student mapping out their own erotic make up.  And it will emphasize relationship skills for creating a functional and sustainable dynamic. Please reach out if you have a...

OBSIDIAN - SAFE MEN DON’T MAKE WOMEN FEEL SAFE Course Date : October 4-8.  Catskills, NY. Course Page : https://omrupani.org/obsidian/ www. OmRupani.org

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COURSE PAGE :  https://www.omrupani.com/spaces/18894018/content www. OmRupani.org

PRIESTESS TRAINING - SOMATIC MASTERY IN THE AI AGE Course Page : https://omrupani.org/#/the-priestess-of-dark-eros/ www. OmRupani.org

IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 04 - YOU HAVE WOUNDING AROUND MASCULINE AUTHORITY A woman's relationship to masculine authority is a crucial factor in how her energies run towards her man. If she thinks masculine power is benevolent, if she thinks masculine power renders her safer, she will logically be in support of men being in their power, of her own man being in his power. If s...

PODCAST - MODERN MASCULINITY AND MAN-WOMAN RELATING CONVERSATION TOPICS: The Nice Guy Persona It’s expensive for women to get fooled by men and their masks. What is the nice guy trying to convince you of? The Nice Guy persona is a control mechanism. Wanting everybody’s approval makes cowards of men. Limitations with mothers and women teaching men how to be men. Most mothers and women in society ar...

ON MY KNEES, WITH A SCORECARD www. OmRupani.org

LUGHNASADH - HANDFASTING www. OmRupani.org

COUPLES’ COURSE - STUDENT TESTIMONIALS Next Course - November 12-17.  Dominican Republic. Course Page : https://omrupani.org/#/dscouples/ www. OmRupani.org

MY NEXT COUPLES’ COURSE & THE STATE OF MAN-WOMAN RELATING TODAY COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/#/dscouples/ www. OmRupani.org

IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 03 - YOU ARE ADDICTED TO CORRECTING MEN Corrections go down the hierarchy.  Parents are supposed to correct their children.  Teachers are supposed to correct their students. When you pay someone to take you yoga, you graciously receive their corrections. When you pay someone to teach you French Cooking, you receive their adjustments and suggestions. Corre...

Using the Leadership Polarity bars I use in my classes to explain people’s temperaments and desires and where the discrepancies might be in what people want and what they are able to create in their partnerships. OmRupani.org www. OmRupani.org

STUDENT TESTIMONIALS FOR PRIESTESS TRAINING Student testimonials for my ProDomme Training. Next courses in Jersey City, NJ Level I - September 14 - 20 Level II - November 30 - December 6 COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/#/the-priestess-of-dark-eros/ Please reach out if you have any questions. — Om Rupani www. OmRupani.org

IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 02 : YOU ARE CONTAINING HIM. This is an unmitigated disaster.  A woman containing her man, or a man repeatedly reaching to his woman for containment is a severe breakdown in hierarchy and polarity. The bulk of the blame for this breakdown I would put squarely on the men.  If you have allowed this to happen in your relationship, the fault is yours.  If you...

IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 01 - AFFECTION minus RESPECT This is the first video in this series.  This lament from women that their husband/partner has become like their child is far and wide these days.  I believe the lament is genuine.  That the problem and breakdown is genuine. I believe this problem is rooted in the collapse of male leadership, and the collapse of RESPECT from t...

REDUCING FEES FOR D.R. RETREAT FROM $4400 TO $3200 I’m reducing the course fee for BDSM FUNDAMENTALS in the Dominican Republic, June 4 - 10. Course fee was $4400.  I’m reducing it to $3200. The fee includes room and board (with a double room). There are some quad rooms also available for $2800. COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/bdsmfundamentals ——————————————- Many people are feeling understandab...

LAURIE ELLINGTON PODCAST - THE DISASTER OF THE MODERN WOMAN FALSE ARCHETYPE PODCAST TOPICS: Om’s origin story. The failed experiment of women investigating masculinity. The Modern Woman False Archetype — The Karen archetype. Men have lost their radar while being across from masculine women. How women use their erotic power and energy in a second rate manner. When we use our Eros as a means to some...

NEW COUPLES’ RETREAT! Hello Everyone.  I’m very excited to be offering a new week-long, couples’ retreat, especially for men and women who know that they want the man to be in the lead/dominant position in their dynamic, and they want the woman to move deeper into her feminine submission. For the first time, I will be teaching on the topic of RELATIONAL DOMINANCE-SUBMISSION, compared to only shari...