Om Rupani Podcast

THE SHADOW SIDE OF NICE GUY IDENTITY *(This is part of the module from the upcoming course DISMANTLING THE NICE GUY IDENTITY) Nice guys aren’t all that nice, it turns out. Nice guys are often holding in a lot of anger.  Sometimes the quantity of this anger can easily qualify as rage. Nice guys are often quite jealous and envious of other men and often act in underhanded way to hurt or sabotage men...

NEW COURSE ON DARK EROS WITH LEAH PIPER! I’m very excited to be collaborating with Leah Piper for a new course that will allow the participants to investigate the darker, more troublesome and ‘NO’ element of their Eros. We are going to use the BDSM framework of scene play and Dom-sub dynamic to take the participants through a series of investigations into various ‘NO’ aspects, so they may discover...

PODCAST WITH DANIEL COETSEE ABOUT THE NICE GUY IDENTITY A conversation about modern masculinity and the Nice Guy scenario that seems so wide-spread in our culture today. I have 2 upcoming courses for men to address these issues: DISMANTLING THE NICE GUY IDENTITY  2.  REGAINING OUR EDGE AS MEN COURSE INFO : https://omrupani.org/#/short-online-courses/ — Om Rupani www. OmRupani.org

Q&A about upcoming Priestess Training Lauren and I discuss some of the aspects of this in-depth training and take questions from women considering joining us for the next run, which starts in June. COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-mastery Please reach out to us with any questions : OmRupani@me.com Om Rupani OmRupani.org www. OmRupani.org

RELAUNCHING THE PRIESTESS TRAINING IN JUNE This is the most advanced and in-depth BDSM training I offer for people who want to deepen this exploration for themselves and bring it to others for whom they want to hold space. Lauren and I will be launching the third run of this course in June. We talk a little bit about what we have seen our students get out of this journey. We will be doing a Q&...

CONVERSATION ABOUT UPCOMING CLASSES IN BOULDER I’ll be doing a Demo and Q&A on BDSM this Friday 3/22/24. REGISTRATION PAGE : https://www.eventbrite.com/e/om-rupani-talk-on-bdsm-principles-domsub-energetics-live-demo-tickets-800464820827?aff=erelexpmlt ********************* Next weekend, will be teaching a class in Man-Woman relating.  3/23 - 3/24. REGISTRATION PAGE : https://www.eventbrite.com...

PODCAST WITH LEAH PIPER & DR. WILLOW BROWN Another lively conversation with these two delightful, amazing women.  We talk about many things having to do with modern man-woman relating and eros. Our conversation around Men’s Hearts and the modern woman’s attitudes towards men’s hearts gets a bit heated and convoluted here.  I think we end up talking past each other at times.  Who knew the issue...

MAN - WOMAN & BDSM CONVERSATION ABOUT UPCOMING CLASSES IN BOULDER I will be doing a talk on BDSM principles along with a live demo in Boulder on Friday, March 22, 2024. Following that, I will be teaching a weekend class there in Man-Woman relating. My dear friend Micaela is hosting these events in Boulder.  She and I discuss here the topics that will be covered during these two events and all...

WHY WOMEN DON’T HAVE AN INNER MASCULINE : IF YOU DID, YOU WOULD HAVE SOME NATIVE UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT IT IS TO BE A MAN — WHICH YOU DON’T! The idea that certain energies and activities are masculine or feminine, and therefore when a woman is engaged in those ‘masculine’ energies, she is in her ‘inner masculine’, or when a man is engaged in the ‘feminine’ energies, he’s in his ‘inner feminine’ is...

A MAN’S SUGGESTIONS ON HOW WOMEN MAY BE MORE FEMININE: 01 - GIVE UP YOUR INNER MASCULINE More and more women are writing to me these days, asking how they might step more into their feminine. I thought about this and wrote about this and have come up with a few suggestions.  Will make a serious of videos on these. The first suggestion is : Please give up the concept of your inner masculine. You do...

10 BDSM SKILLS THAT CAN INFORM ALL RELATIONSHIPS : 04 - FIND YOUR DOM RIGHT Find your Dom right. Find your Man right. Find your Leader right. These can be guiding principles for navigating one’s relationship.  Keep this as the goal — finding your Dom/Man/Leader right.  When you are not finding them right, pause your connection and do whatever is needed to come back to finding them right. This prin...

CONVERSATION ABOUT UPCOMING BOULDER WORKSHOP I will be teaching an afternoon workshop in Boulder on 1/14/24. Conversing here about BDSM and Man-Woman Relating.   About men’s fear of actually getting new information and education regarding sexual mastery. The importance of getting accurate feedback from women in sex and relationships. The contempt before investigation attitudes towards BDSM in our...

PODCAST WITH AARON KLEINERMAN Conversing about BDSM, Eros in long-term relationships and other matters. — Om Rupani OmRupani.org www. OmRupani.org

TANTRIC FRAMEWORK FOR BDSM The way Laurie and I teach BDSM, we frame different types of BDSM play within how the energies are moving in different Chakras: Containment and somatic play, like rope bondage, sensation play, pain play, confinement play activate our energies in the 1st Chakra. All sexual play hits our 2nd Chakra — including arousal, forced orgasm, orgasm control, peaking. All esteem and...

CONTAINMENT IN MAN-WOMAN RELATING Containment is a skill very much needed to do BDSM well.  But this is a skill that is needed far and wide in all our relationships.  Certainly in romantic and intimate relationships between men and women, women are very much in need of receiving solid Containment from their men. Beyond romantic relationships, being able to give good Containment is a skill very muc...

CONTAINMENT & PENETRATION IN BDSM PLAY AND SENSUALITY It’s good to understand that sensual energies move in an UP & DOWN cyclical form. It’s good to master providing both of these phases to our partners in our sensual connections: CONTAINMENT involves the grounding and integrating phase of the energy. PENETRATION is the more stimulating and arousing phase of the cycle. *******************...

PODCAST WITH KELLY BROGAN ON MAN-WOMAN RELATING It’s always a pleasure to talk to Kelly, especially at such length, and get into the topics regarding Man-Woman Relating and Eros that we are both deeply curious about. Also mentioned in here is the new free mini-course I’ve just released : DOMINANT MAN + SUBMISSIVE WOMAN - A RELATIONSHIP PRIMER. That course is available on my teaching website at OmR...

FREE MINI-COURSE : DOMINANT MAN + SUBMISSIVE WOMAN - A RELATIONSHIP PRIMER Hello Everyone.  As more people these days are becoming curious about exploring a more polarized dynamic in their man-woman connections, there is a growing inquiry around how exactly can a couple go about doing this flavor of relating.  Men want to know how they might better step into their Dominant archetype.  Women have m...

OF VICTIMS AND VILLAINS. Why is it universally so that human beings would rather be victims than villains? Talk to two opposing parties — whether these opposing parties be quarreling countries or quarreling siblings or spouses.  Ask the two parties to give a tally of their actions.  On paper, their actions will likely seem identical.  Both of them have likely been: Selfish. Thoughtless. Judgementa...

COMING SOON - FREE MINI-COURSE :  DOMINANT MAN + SUBMISSIVE WOMAN - A RELATIONSHIP PRIMER As more men and women become curious about exploring a more polarized form of relating, the most common inquiry that is understandably coming my way these days is : ‘Well, how do we do this?’  How does one go about creating a polarized relationship dynamic and container?  What are the ingredients?  How does o...

10 BDSM SKILLS THAT CAN INFORM ALL RELATIONSHIPS : 03 - LISTEN FOR THE DESIRE UNDERNEATH THE DESIRE All people are lying all the time. Men lie. Women lie. In my observation, women like more than men and better than men. Why do we lie? We lie to get our way. We lie to avoid punishment. We lie in order to look good and avoid looking bad. I think women have a fourth reason for lying, which I think is...

10 BDSM SKILLS THAT CAN INFORM ALL RELATIONSHIPS : 02 - DON’T BORE YOUR SUBMISSIVE! Boredom isn’t just a shallow thing.  Boredom is ultimately indicative of soul stagnation. Boredom indicates to us that our journeys have stalled. We are here seeking expansion.  We are here seeking experiences.  Our soul is on an arc. Our Eros is no exception to his.  Our erotic journey and self-expression is also...

10 BDSM SKILLS THAT CAN INFORM ALL RELATIONSHIPS : 01 - CONTAIN YOUR SUBMISSIVE People often ask whether BDSM principles and energetics can be applied to other relationships and dynamics.  I’ve heard too many bad answers to this inquiry.  I’ve decided to make my own series of conversations to talk about how the skills from a good and balanced D/s dynamic might be extrapolated to :  Non-BDSM / Vani...

MEN SHOULD CARRY CATASTROPHE ON THEIR BACKS Keeping an eye on our future can be very clarifying. Whenever I see a man who seems lost in his life today, it is inevitably the case that he has lost his vision for the future that he is building. Having a vision for our future helps us align our energies.  It gives correct direction to where we should be spending our efforts today. It’s difficult to fe...

MEN ARE NOT IN COMPETITION WITH EACH OTHER FOR WOMEN There is a lot of talk these days about HYPERGAMY among men. The basic idea so many men have accepted regarding how women operate with men, how women select men is that women go for the top guys. The top 5% of men, or the top 10% or 20% of men get all the women.  The rest of the men are invisible to women.  The rest of the men are bound to be lo...