Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast

This week, Dick and Gwen sat down to talk about playing with misogyny. We covered some of the roleplays we've used it in, as well as how to negotiate this type of play safely and ethically. We also talked about some of the discourse around whether or not this is a "valid" kink.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 260 and 248. Did you know we host a virtua...

This week, we sat down with Freckles, who told us all about his service submission, what it's like to serve a Femdom collective, and how rope and suspension are the only things that put him in subspace.   Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 202, 129, and 022. Did you know we host a virtual munch every Friday? You can find more details about that here! Keep u...

This week, Dick and Gwen sat down to talk about begging kink. We talked about begging for things we love, begging for things we hate, begging vocabulary/phrases, how to play with this kink safely, and why we find all of it so hot.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 250, 170, and 041 . Did you know we host a virtual munch every Friday? You can find more d...

This week, we sat down with Ellie Next Door to talk about asexuality and the differences between various types of attraction. We also talk about her work as a phone sex operator, as well as the connections between different "families" of kinks.   Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 258, 185, and 042 . Did you know we host a virtual munch every Friday? You ca...

This week, Dick and Gwen sat down to talk about oil fetish! They talk about oil's visual/tactile appeal, as well as its practical applications, including sex with non-traditional body parts, body worship, massage, and more. They also talk about a recent scene they did having to do with oil and foot worship.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 231, 224, an...

This week, we sat down with Rubber Roswell, self-proclaimed "wannabe villain and wearer of masks," to discuss the transformative power of character roleplays, masks, and costumes. We also talked about how the pandemic has allowed people to dive deeper into fetish, as well as how quarantine led him to start a kinky Instagram.   Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like epis...

This week, Dick and Gwen sat down to talk about the many Shrek-like, oniony layers of coming out as kinky. They talk about coming out to yourself, coming out to others, reasons why people might not want to come out, and give some general advice on how to approach the topic. They also delve into their personal journeys and where they're at in the process of coming out.   Thanks for listening! If yo...

This week's episode starts off with a conversation between Dick and Lexi about their recent loss of a close friend. Also, Gwen opens up about her recent epilepsy diagnosis, which she wanted to put out before this episode, as it caused some hiccups with the recording.  Our guest this week is Devyn Stone, who talks with us about his non-traditional Radioactive Spider Bite into Kink, which included b...

This week, Dick and Gwen sat down to discuss gags and gagging fetish, focusing on a research-based scene, as well as a more intimate scene they did recently. They also talk about different types of gags, ranging from traditional to the more unconventional, and how gags opened the door for them to experiment with pet play.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episod...

This week, we sat down with content creator Princess Kira to talk about sneezing fetish, taboo/incest role play, smoking fetish, and body hair worship. We also talk about unwarranted judgments when it comes to smoking and body hair.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 024 , 165, and 257.    Princess Kira's Links:  Twitter Instagram OnlyFans ManyVids Clips...

This week, Dick, Gwen, and max sat down to reminisce on five years of Off the Cuffs, give some updates about the show and their lives, and talk about where Lexi has been. We also answer listener questions about our favorite episodes, our dream guests, and how the show has impacted our lives.     Did you know we host a virtual munch every Friday? You can find more details about that here! Keep us o...

This week, we sat down with Peaches to discuss being a pro-domme with sex-repulsion, finding a place in the kink community after experiencing trauma, and watersports/bodily fluids.   Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 246, 235, and 195.    Peaches' Links: Instagram Twitter OnlyFans Did you know we host a virtual munch every Friday? You can find more details...

This week we sat down with The Adorable Domme, Miss Mae Ling! We talked about a variety of kinks and fetishes, such as food play, ABDL, cosplay, forced bi, and giantess fantasies. We also discussed her light, silly, and fun style of domination, and of course, we had to ask her about her dino dildos!!!   Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 246, 235, and 203....

This week, we sat down with Whiteout to talk about all things rubber and latex. We also discussed how to do kink on a budget, such as zentai suits as a cheaper alternative to latex, and how to make your own lube. He also educated us on the fascinating history of latex.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 155, 148, and 088. Whiteout's links: Youtube Fetlif...

This week, we sat down with illustrator Space Pup Silver to discuss superhero kinks and fetishes! We talked about his fascination with tropes, especially some of the wackier ones from the Silver Age of Comics, such as Red Kryptonite, conveyor belts, and humans kept in alien zoos. We also discussed how his illustration style has developed over time, as well as what inspires his art.    Thanks for l...

This week, we sat down with Frisco the Sex Therapist to talk about physical health and sexuality. We covered the sexiness of sweat and exertion, as well as athletic kinks in general. We also talked about what it's like to be a kinky sex therapist, such as what it means to be a kink-aware therapist, what to look for in a therapist, and how being a sex therapist intersects with Frisco's personal kin...

This week, we sat down with sociologist Dr. Ali Mushtaq to talk about being a kink/BDSM educator who focuses on the intersection of race, gender, and kink. We also discussed navigating consent and other nuances of race play.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 237, 129, and 106.    Dr. Ali's links:  Website BDSM & Kink Classes Twitter (@gettingwolfie) Ins...

This week, we sat down for part two of our lovely conversation with sleepingirl and cckitten of the Two Hyp Chicks podcast! We continue our discussion on erotic hypnosis, this time through the lens of evil (or things we can interpret as evil). We also covered bimboification, and answered the listener questions we didn't get to last week.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd prob...

This week, we sat down for part one of our two part episode with sleepingirl and cckitten of the Two Hyp Chicks podcast! We talked about many aspects of erotic hypnosis, such as what counts as a trance, how hypnosis relates to control, and sleepingirl's books on brainwashing and Neurolinguistic programming.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 082, 176, an...

This week, we sat down with sex coach Dr. Alison Ash to discuss the importance of emotional intimacy and shame in relation to kink and BDSM, as well as conflict resolution within D/s dynamics.   Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 223, 218, and 217. Dr. Alison's Links:  Website (which includes information on her classes) Twitter Instagram Facebook Did you kn...

This week, we sat down with Moth Meadows to talk about world building within your sex life! We talked about the various ongoing role plays they engage in with their partner, such as human/vampire and evil AI mind corruption. We also discussed torture and murder fantasies, including body horror and vivisection role plays. Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 2...

This week, we sat down with sexual folklorist Dixie De La Tour, host of Bawdy Storytelling, to talk about the importance of storytelling, and how sharing ideas can lead to more creative kink scenarios. We also discussed the value of sharing sex-positive content when social media appears to be heading in a direction that's sex-negative.  Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably...

This week, we sat down with Mako Allen, co-host of The Big Little Podcast, to talk about his 20+ year journey with ageplay in the kink community. We also discussed the tools he's developed to help manage an ongoing dynamic, which led to the creation of his app for discipline-based relationships called WeMinder.  Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 074, 125,...

This week, we sat down with Sir Esquire to discuss facesitting, smothering, covert watersports at work, and food enemas (using pudding, applesauce, yogurt, and the like). ⁠   Did you know we host a virtual munch every Friday? You can find more details about that here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you...

New year, new episode! 🍾 The day after our New Year's festivities, we sat down and answered some questions from listeners about kinks we want to explore in 2021, where we would be without OCP, memorable moments on the show, and more. ⁠   Did you know we host a virtual munch every Friday? You can find more details about that here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You ca...