Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast

This week Dick and Gwen sat down once again to give you all an update on where we're at with our lives and the show. Dick talks about temporarily moving back to Long Island to get treatment for his back, and Gwen talks about how she's managing with taking over a lot of the show and starting out the year going back to being in a long-distance relationship. We also talk about how everything going on...

This week we sat down with The Rabbi, a kink educator with an eclectic mix of topping interests. We talked about kink you can do on a dollar store budget, such as cell popping, quills, gua-sha, body drumming, and chain fisting. We also discussed DISC theory and how he uses this model in his counseling practice to help people outside of kink and polyamory.  Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this...

This week we (Dick and Gwen) bought each other collars, something we've been negotiating for awhile, so we wanted to take an episode to talk about our feelings on the subject! We discussed how we negotiated collars as switches (and why we bought one for each other rather than for just one of us), our favorite ways to use them practically, and using collars for flagging. We'll also be doing part tw...

This week we sat down with jezeBelle to talk about their experience working at a legal brothel in Nevada and their feelings on the brothel system as a form of sex work. We also talked about being a part of a leather community and erotic bootblacking.   Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 282, 202, and 004.   Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our newest blog post...

This week Dick and Gwen sat down for a follow-up to their chastity/denial episode from a couple of weeks ago. We talked about Gwen's experience of getting off after a denial period for the first time, and how chastity/denial play made her feel more confident in her sexuality. We also discussed how Dick's spiked chastity cage works and what he enjoys about chastity that hurts.  Thanks for listening...

This week we sat down with Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr from a new kink podcast, The Kinky Tavern. We asked them about their dynamic in which they share a fairly equal power structure, as well as what they get up to with pet play, blood play, and even blood drinking! Listen to The Kinky Tavern Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 088, 220, and 234. Buy our porn o...

With all of the chastity challenges going on at this time of year, Dick and Gwen thought it would be a great time to talk about chastity play and denial! We discussed why we get off on not getting off, how Gwen's current chastity period is going, and how this type of play affects us mentally.  Check out Dick and Gwen's new kinky comic! Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably...

This week, Gwen and Lexi sat down with Rogue Kitty to talk all about her love of kinky comics! We also covered breeding kink, humiliation/degradation, and sex toys you can use to roleplay various penetration-based kinks and fantasies.   Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 197, 158, and 239. Rogue Kitty's Fetlife Buy our porn on ManyVids! Read our newest blog...

This week, Dick and Gwen decided to dedicate a full episode to talking about subspace! We talked about what this headspace is like for each of us, how we access it, and its level of importance to our kink dynamic.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 006, 084. and 243 . Buy our porn on ManyVids! Read our newest blog posts Check out our sponsors for this we...

This week we sat down with Mr. Diamond and Miss Violit to talk about co-running Heroine Girls Clubhouse, a BDSM/fetish club in Baltimore, and what it's like operating it as a couple. We also discussed how to introduce new people to the scene, as well as their dynamic as a couple who are both pro-dominants.   Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 170 and 153 ....

This week, we sat down with Pup Arrgos to talk about pack power dynamic structures, finding your pup identity, and the many different flavors of puppy play. We also covered everything he loves about scat play, as well as his research and perspective on scat safety as a medical professional.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 104, 106, and 254. Find more...

It's finally Dick and Gwen's favorite time of year—Halloween season! This week, we'll be discussing horror movie tropes that make us horny, as well as how we want to incorporate aspects of them into an upcoming fear play scene.  To follow along with our 31 Days of Halloween movie calendar, be sure to follow us on Instagram @ocpkink! Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably lik...

This week, we sat down with Magic to talk about being kinky and autistic—more specifically, how their kink life has changed since they discovered this, as well as how it affects negotiation, communication, and play. We also dive into fear play and their journey as a queer kinky sex worker.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 266, 262, and 215. Find more o...

This week, we welcomed returning guest Kate Sloan back on the show! We talked all about her upcoming book, 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do, including the juicy deets on her original book proposal, the D/s protocols she implemented to help with writing, sections that didn't make it into the book, and much more. We also asked her for advice on DD/lg, as well as engaging in kink when you're dealing...

This week Dick's surgery is over, and while we're still in New York, we thought it would be fun to do an in-person mini-episode with max! We had a little chat about Dick's surgery and how our time in New York went. Thanks for all of the well-wishes, and we'll be back with a full-length episode next week.   Did you know we host a virtual munch every Friday? You can find more details about that here...

Dick is still in recovery from surgery this week, and our friend Erin Pim, host of The Bed Post Podcast, generously offered to let us air one of her episodes! In this one, Erin chats with hedonist Honey Rose. Listen along as they talk about breaking impact implements, running out of storage while shooting content, and educating people about porn. We'll be back with our regularly scheduled content...

This week Dick is recovering from surgery, so our friends Kate and Bex of The Dildorks podcast were kind enough to let us borrow one of their episodes! This episode was aired after Kate got married, and they talk about all of the sexy and kinky dimensions of wedding traditions.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, check out The Dildorks' OCP appearances on episodes 074, 089, and 176....

This week, Dick and Gwen are burnt out. Between moving, mental health, and heart complications that Dick is dealing with, we thought it would be a good time to talk about how to maintain dynamics and kink when life and/or disability seems to be always getting in the way. We cover how to make adjustments to your dynamic under stress, how to manage disability and polyamory, and more.    Thanks for l...

This week, we sat down with Onyx to talk about kink and blindness, as well as what it's like to host a munch for blind kinksters called Blindfold Not Required. We also discussed needle play that focuses on aesthetic/design, and ANR (adult nursing relationships).    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 225, 207 , and 090.   Did you know we host a virtual munch...

This week, Dick and Gwen sat down to talk about their love language—no, not the hippie-dippie kind—but the names and titles we use to turn each other on. From degrading and praising language, to pet names and honorifics, we talked about all of the dirty words that keep our engines purring.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 249 and 128.   Did you know we...

This week, we sat down with Mistress Kay to talk all about desperation kink. She told us about her interest in all kinds of desperation, whether it related to bathroom control, food, orgasms, exercise, temperature, and more. We also talked about how the world of sex toys has changed within her twelve years as a reviewer.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episode...

This week, Dick and Gwen sat down to talk about a mouthsoaping fetish custom we created recently, including what we got out of it personally, and some future mouthsoaping scenes we want to plan. We also give some updates about our big move and how that affects the show.    Visit our ManyVids to see Dick and Gwen's mouthsoaping fetish clip. You can also DM Gwen on OnlyFans if you'd like to purchase...

This week, Dick and Lexi sat down with Delilah Darkholme to talk about being a queer and kinky photographer, as well as developing unexpected kinks and fetishes. We also discussed darker fantasies, such as CNC, coercion, sleepy sex, and navigating/negotiating those kinks as a survivor of sexual assault.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 218, 164, and 01...

This week, Dick and Gwen sat down to talk about their growing interest in tickling fetish. They discussed how this fetish interplays with bondage, vulnerability, power-play, sadism, overstimulation, and more.   Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 058, 045, and 021. Did you know we host a virtual munch every Friday? You can find more details about that here!...

This week, Dick and Gwen strapped Lexi into the hot seat for her first time as a guest! We discussed her interests in medical kink as a bottom, as well as humiliation and embarrassment as a top.    Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 243, 169, and 098.   Lexi's links: Instagram Twitter Niteflirt Did you know we host a virtual munch every Friday? You can find...