Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast

It's been awhile since we've taken call-in Radioactive Spider Bites from listeners, so we thought it would be fun to hear from you kinky folks this week! As we know some of you want to remain extra anonymous, we took write-ins from our Discord server as well. Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Securing Sexuality and Terrible Toyshop. You can fi...

This week we sat down with Emerson Karsh, also known on social media as The Kink Educator. We talked about her background studying kink in academia, how the pandemic led her to teach through social media, and the personal play she enjoys, such as humiliation, degradation, and masochism.  Find Emerson on Instagram or Twitter Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors...

This week Gwen and Dick sat down for the annual New Year's day wrap up episode. We discuss the end of 2022, Dick's first play party since the pandemic started, and answer some end-of-year listener questions! Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Just E and Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Rigger's Delight Nipple Stretcher here! You can also chec...

This week Dick, Gwen, and max sat down for their final episode before holiday vacation to answer all of your burning questions!  Dick's links Gwen's links max's Twitter Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Securing Sexuality and Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Para-hell-ograms Nipple Clamps here! You can also check out the Nipple Clamp Showdown, a guide comparing all o...

This week we sat down with Russian professional dominatrix, Mistress Smash, who tells us all about how she came into being a Pro Domme, as well as unpacking the influences of capitalism, patriarchy, homophobia, and ableism. Finally, we cover sadism, personal versus professional play, and how the patriarchy colors people's kink experiences.  Mistress Smash's website Find her on all socials as @schm...

This week we sat down once again with fetish performer Princess Kira! We asked her about her recent ventures into diaper fetish and boy/girl videos, as well as the scoop on why she left OnlyFans awhile back due to their heavy (and often confusing) content restrictions. Additionally, we discussed how to stay creative while making porn, as well as her time at FetishCon2022! Princess Kira's links: ht...

This week we sat down with Innana Justice, Paris professional dominatrix and editor of the book "The Heart of the Dominatrix: Portraits and Interviews with Exceptional Mistresses," which features 21 dommes from throughout the world. In her book, she features a wide range of dommes, not just the latex-wearing, whip-wielding domme you might imagine. We also talked about the dinner she hosts for loca...

This week we sat down once again with Divina - Goddess of Secrets to talk more about her findom escapades, such as trying to find balance between self-care and sex work, navigating relationships with finsubs, and all the different ways you can approach findom. We also talked about accepting when your sex life changes over time, and the struggles of dealing with societal pressures of how often we "...

This week we're sitting down with Mr. Gatsby, a dominant who enjoys playing with high protocol and kinky rituals. We talked about his love for M/s dynamics, predicaments, stress positions, punishment, and how fun it can be to set someone up for failure.  Find Mr. Gatsby on Fetlife! Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Fettish and Terrible Toyshop...

This week we were excited to welcome back Ms. Chloe Mars on the show! We talked about wrestling porn and her wrestling dynamic with friend of the show Erin Pim. We also talked about topping with medical and dental fet, and utilizing kink to heal from various forms of trauma throughout her life.  Find Chloe  Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Fe...

This week we're sitting down with professional dominatrix Mistress Shayla Lange. She's really into topping for CBT, hardsports, and her scenes, while often being silly in nature, almost always take a hard left-turn into perversion at some point. She tells us some of the stories of the various modes of sex work she's done, such as stories from the champagne room, and how stripping compares to pro-d...

This week we sat down with Dana Valentine to talk about being a genderfluid sadomasochist, which encompasses their "bubbly sadist" side as well as their "pain slut" side. They have a unique relationship with primal play where they're forced into primal mode by pairing sound and scent with pain. We also talked about what it was like curating a kink/sex-positive lending library. Find Dana on Fetlife...

This week Dick, Gwen, and max all sat down to respond to some long overdue email questions from listeners asking for kinky advice. We also respond to a voicemail from a listener.  Dick's links Gwen's links max's Twitter Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Devil's Lotus Clit Clamp here!  Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our...

This week we sat down with Master Joshua to talk about Kink Collective, an organization he runs that offers bi-weekly kink education classes. We also talked about his career as a pro dom.  Master Joshua's links:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masterjoshuanyc/   Websites:   https://masterjoshua.com/   https://kinkcollective.net/   https://ssdce.org/ Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on...

This week we sat down with trinkerbelchen to discuss their experience in the German kink community over the past three years, disability (autism, specifically), age play, pet play, doll play, and fetishizing their own death in a variety of ways.  Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 275, 281, and 282. Find Trinkerbelchen:  Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/1...

This week we sat down with professional dominatrix Chloe Mars, who specializes in topping for intoxication play (specifically with cannabis, which she refers to as CannaDomming). We also talked about her approach to kink and sex work, her identity as a soft dom with a sadistic streak, and being a mommy dom, and more. Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 146,...

This week we sat down with KittenFlo and her partner Moogie to discuss their interests in rope and pet play, as well as their living power exchange relationship. We also talked about KittenFlo's experiences as a kinky maker and DJ.  Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 268 , 285, and 304. Find more of KittenFlo, including her shop, the Lucky Kitten DJ Twitch...

This week we got max back on the show to talk with us about his time at TES Fest this year! He told us about the two scenes he did at TES Fest—a rough body play/trampling scene, and of course, a humiliation scene. We also talked a bit about the humiliation classes he's been teaching, in which he covers the how and why of humiliation play, the idea that it's based on playing with a sense of identit...

This week we sat down with our friend (and the show's new booker), Molly Pocket! We dove into a bunch of topics, including memories of our high school sexual education (and lack thereof), making sneezing and bathroom porn, and their experience as a sex worker in general. We also talked about some of their budding personal interests, including tickling, piss play, dollification, and all things slim...

This week Dick and Gwen sat down without a guest to talk about what they've been up to with their sex work! Additionally, we give some updates on some of the kink scenes we've recorded recently. We talk about the trials and tribulations of Dick's forays back into sex work, the content we want to put out, incorporating disability into sex work, and more.  Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this o...

This week we sat down once again with Kate Sloan to discuss her new book, 200 Words to Help You Talk About Sexuality & Gender. We discuss language surrounding gender & sexuality, nuances in sexual identities, and how all of this intersects with kink & BDSM. Our hosts also open up a bit about their recent gender realizations, and Kate answers questions about terms for nonbinary significant others,...

This week we're FINALLY putting out part two of our kinky Q&A from episode 296! Thanks to everyone who submitted questions for patiently awaiting our responses. In this one we talk about horny 90s hip-hop music, our gender/sexuality, our dream guests, whether or not we've lost kink interests over time, and more. If you haven't heard it yet, listen to part one of this episode! Thanks for listening!...

This week we sat down with Mortician Barbie, a kinky embalmer, to talk about negotiating about death within kink dynamics. While she's not interested in kinks related to death, planning for death is a large part of negotiations with her partner, and she and her partner have committed to staying monogamous with each other even after the other has passed. We discussed what that looks like for them,...

This week we sat down once again with Sal to talk about kink and fatness. Sal answered listener questions about representation of fat bodies in kink, how to tell if someone is into you or just your body, and the intersections of kink, LGBTQ+, and fatness.  Thanks for listening! Follow Sal on Instagram and Fetlife!   Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our newest blog posts Chec...

This week we sat down with our first in-person guest in a while, our pal Sal! We talked all about their experience as fat queer femme in the kink scene. They gave us practical advice on how to get involved in your local community, their exploratory approach to kink, the effect of the lack of fat representation in kink classes, handling non consensual objectification, kinky dating as a fat person,...