Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast

This week we sat down with Stormy aka Hellfire, to discuss the Leather community in Texas, and their gender exploration journey.  Find Stormy on FetLife. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find The Rigger's Delight Humbler here!   Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Bei...

This week we sat down with Mistress Jasmine Corvina to discuss chastity, FLR, and even squish in a little food/foot fetish talk. Find more about Mistress Jasmine Corvina . SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find The Snapper 2.0 here!  Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door |...

This week we talked to Pup Boogie about ABDL and Pet Play, and the stigmas (of past and present) that come with each. We also discuss title holding and the importance of serving/representation in the community to allow a space for everyone. Find Boogie on FetLife SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Breast Traps...

This week Dick and max sit down to talk about some life events/changes to the show, and his experience this year at TES FEST. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Pussy Trap here!   Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Lib...

This week we sat down with Kaitlin Klarer to discuss her show  Watch Girls Watch Porn as well as her time as a dancer and current work as a sex coach! All Kaitlin's links: https://linktr.ee/mysexcoach SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Nipple Trap...

This week we sat down with JimJam to talk about the Dallas leather community and being a 24/7 dominant with depression. We discussed what drew him to the leather community, what leather means beyond shoes/pieces of clothing, and how leather is typically much less intimidating than it might seem. Finally, we covered how he manages a 24/7 lifestyle as a dominant with depression, and how he makes the...

Struggling with how to celebrate Pride Month when many "celebrations" feel rife with corporate lip service, over-sanitization, and police? After a brief intro from Dick and Gwen, enjoy this bonus conversation in which Gwen, Coco Paige, friend of the show Rhapsody in Blue, and upcoming guest Rosie grapple with remembering queer and trans history, censorship/sanitization, and finding queer joy in a...

This week we sat down with Auntie Vice, author, host of the Fat Chicks on Top Podcast, and creator of the Love Letters to a Unicorn BDSM blog. We talked about body positivity and disability activism in and out of kink/sexuality, body hair and grooming in D/s, and her journey to becoming a sex educator.  SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find all of Auntie Vice's projects at https:...

This week we sat down with Lulabelle, a bratty, subby masochist. We talked about how her D/s dynamic has helped with her mental health, such as being able to comfortably express her bratty side during times of lower mental health. We also discussed what it's like working through therapy as a kinky person, the importance of building safe connections after trauma, and kink after CSA. SUPPORT THE SHO...

This week we sat down with Violet Kitten to talk about her interests in asylum fantasies, monsterfucking, petplay, and bondage. We also discussed how she's been exploring her toppy side through sex work lately, and how she's been dabbling in mouth/throat fetish roleplays since getting an endoscope dildo.  SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find Violet's content! Dick's links Gwen's...

This week we're back for part two of our conversation with Billy Lore. We talked more about his porn creations, rebranding himself as a trans man in the public eye, and how that affects his relationship to the queer community.  SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find Billy's porn and more about his workshops on his website. The porn Billy made in an ambulance! Dick's links Gwen's l...

This week we sat down with returning guest Billy Lore: sex educator, porn maker, and co-host of The Dildorks! We caught up on what he's been up to since the last time we talked, got the scoop on his Better Bottoming for Submissives class, and learned what it's like to shoot porn in an ambulance. We had so much to talk about that it turned into a two-part episode—look forward to that next week. SUP...

This week we sat down to give some updates about the show, how Off the Cuffs almost went off the air recently, and how to support us going forward. We also talked about a solo scene Gwen did at The Gallery, her first collaboration with another sex worker, and Dick's new relationship updates!  OUR NEW LINKTREE (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) All the videos from Gwen's first porn collaboration wit...

This week we sat down with Lord Allen, an indigenous queer nonbinary hellhound leatherboi who co-hosts The Kinky Tavern podcast! We talked about their involvement in the leather community, neurodivergence in kink, ways they advocate for themself at events, and the class they teach called How to Talk to Your Autistic Submissive.  Find Lord Allen on Fetlife Check out and support The Kinky Tavern! Di...

This week we sat down with RhapsodyinBlue to talk about The Gallery, the community space she started in Michigan for play parties, classes, and social events. We also talked about the importance of not pouring from an empty cup as a community leader, as well as the class she teaches on relationship de-escalation. Find Rhapsody on Fetlife Instagram: @rhapsody_in_blue4 Dick's links Gwen's links Buy...

This week we sat down with Scruff to talk about inclusion in the pet play community. We talked about BarkAgainst, a campaign she started to support inclusion at kink and pet play events.  Support and learn more about BarkAgainst Scruff's Twitter Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Pussy Trap here!...

This week we sat down with Femme Fatale, representative of Arousr, an adult entertainment/kink education platform that connects people to verified women to explore their kinks, fetishes, and sexuality in a safe/anonymous space. We talk about what the platform is like for sex workers and customers, as well as the efforts Arousr is making to revolutionize and improve online sex work.  Check out Arou...

This week we sat down with Mon Loup (Wolfie), submissive, wolfdog, and masochist of Crow, our guest from last week! We got their perspective on their 24/7 D/s relationship, how seeing indie wrestling matches with Crow has made them want to get beaten with fluorescent light tubes, and how their primal identities as Crow and Wolfdog play out in their dynamic. We also talked about the delightful symp...

This week we sat down with Crow, dominant, daddy, handler, and sadist of Mon Loup, who happens to be next week's guest! We asked him about his role in their 24/7 D/s relationship, which includes all things impact, rough body play, wrestling, and primal play. He also tells us about their shared pro wrestling kink, and how attending indie wrestling shows inspired lots of their impact/wrestling play...

This week we had technical issues with our interview, so instead, we're releasing an intro with Dick and max, then airing Dick and Gwen's kinky movie review of The VVitch (2015). Follow max on Twitter and Fetlife Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our blog Check out our sponsors for this week, Fettish and Terrible Toyshop. You can find The Stinger here! Keep us on the air by d...

This week we sat down with returning guest  NookieNotes from the DatingKinky podcast. This time around we talked about non-monogamy, such as what asymmetrical non-monogamy is and how to keep things ethical, as well as uphold healthy boundaries in partnerships. We also talked about the challenges and rewards of growing and shifting in your identity over time. Find Nookie on FetLife Find Dating Kink...

This week we sat down with Noa, creator of The Replicock, a studio where she makes (mainly) penises into art by turning them into dildos, candles, jewelry, chandeliers… pretty much any type of art/home decor you could think of. We discussed differences between visiting a pro cock replicator versus doing it yourself, her experiences and perspective gained through the sheer amount of cocks she's wor...

This week we sat down without a guest to talk about Gwen's first professional fetish shoot, in which she tried out heavy bondage, Michael Myers horror takedown play, and extreme tickling! We also talk about a day trip we took recently in which Gwen bestowed Dick with the honor of becoming the Mayor of Hell for a day. Watch the vlog of our trip to Hell! Available to all tiers on our Patreon. Check...

This week we sat down with kinky blogger and journalist Podopheleus. He is a submissive who writes about normalization of kink & BDSM, how to visit/approach professional dominatrices, and submissive men's mental health. He's also a kinky author focusing on erotic fiction, and he even gives us some impressive BDSM-related rap verses from his newest novel!  Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on...

It's part two of our call/write-in Radioactive Spider Bites from listeners! We hope you enjoy this beautiful medley of kinky memories.  Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Securing Sexuality and Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Pussy Trap here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of...