Emma and Fin

Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Personal Stories of Polyamory, Swinging, and Beyond

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Hi! We’re Emma and Fin! We’re a married couple in our thirties who have been exploring non-monogamy for over 15 years. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship styles to hear their amazing stories. Many of our guests identify as swingers or polyamorous. However, quite a few have redefined non-monogamy in their own way by creating a unique dynamic that works for them. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-monogamy that we can show people they are not alone and inspire them to embrace their true selves so that...

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Emma and Fin

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Latest episode

Jul 1, 2026

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Episodes

Ep 47 - Kat + Tom 06.02.2019

This is one of the wilder interviews we have done! Kat and Tom are full of energy and life and they have a fantastic outlook on life and non-monogamy. They share a lot of amazing bits and pieces with us along with some insight into what they are looking for when they meet people in the swinging world. If you're looking for a laughing and learning experience, here is your chance!   Show Notes   Win...

Ep 46 - Vel + Jason 30.01.2019

This week's interview is really heartwarming. Vel and Jason are a couple who have been together for a few years and have essentially been open since the start. The love and compassion they have shown for one another through breakups, coming out to family, and even the death of a partner are very inspirational. Have a listen and let us know what you think. Our guess is, you'll love it.   Show Notes...

Ep 45 - Kevin Patterson (Poly Rolemodels) 23.01.2019

Author, blogger, and speaker of all things polyamory, Kevin Patterson sits down for a wide-ranging interview with us this week. We talk gender roles, male stereotypes, navigating polyamory as a person of color and much more. Kevin also discusses a little bit about the two books he published in 2018: Love's Not Colorblind and For Hire: Operator. We had a great time talking with Kevin and know this...

Ep 44 - Front Porch Swingers (Brenna + Brian) 16.01.2019

This week we have the honor of interviewing the hosts of the new-ish podcast, Front Porch Swingers! Brenna and Brian share some sexy stories with us along with their origin story and some of the other things that make them a unique pair in the swinging and non-monogamy worlds.   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Our Patreon Community!   Kasidie Online Dating - 6 month free trial   1...

Ep 43 - Aleah 09.01.2019

Aleah is a young woman in her early 30's who has been pushing the confines of traditional relationship models for a few years. She has been exploring polyamory along with swinging with some of her poly partners. She has an amazing outlook on life and shares some excellent advice for how to view relationships and take care of the most important person in your life... You.   Show Notes   $10 Off - O...

Ep 42 - Felice + Bill 02.01.2019

This interview blew our minds! These two have so much love for one another and their journey has taken some amazing twists over their 30+ year marriage. They got their start from a little nudge of infidelity and have turned it into one of the best things their marriage has ever seen. This episode is incredible and you need to get in here and listen.   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Jo...

Ep 41 - Sex Out Loud (Tristan Taormino) 26.12.2018

We had the honor of sitting down at Desire in November 2018 with the one and only Tristan Taormino for a an interview in which she tells us things she has never spoken about publicly before. Her words, not ours. The author, porn director, podcaster, and all around bad ass human shares some amazing stories and wisdom with us. If you are thinking about skipping class today, think again.   Show Notes...

Ep 40 - Mila 19.12.2018

An incredible interview with an amazing young woman from Argentina who is now living in Barcelona, Spain. She shares a moving story of growing up and exploring her sexuality and different relationship styles with multiple partners while dealing with some extremely traumatic experiences in her life. Most recently, these experiences lead to her falling in love and marrying her best friend who has be...

Ep 39 - Fight Boring Marriages (Danielle + Clayton) 12.12.2018

Okay, so these two bloggers are amazing! They travel the world, they dabble in swinging, they had sex for 400 consecutive days, and... They have done all of this while battling against a very strong upbringing in the Mormon church. This episode is a blast and we had a ton of fun talking with Clayton and Danielle and are happy to now call them friends. Have a listen and see for yourself!   Show Not...

Ep 38 - Crystal with blackandpoly.org 05.12.2018

Crystal has an incredible story that she shares along with some fantastic discussions around navigating the world of polyamory specifically as it pertains to being a person of color. She is the website editor for blackandpoly.org and has been non-monogamous most of her adult life. She also is on the autism spectrum and shares with us some strategies she uses to help her negotiate multiple relation...

Ep 37 - Elizabeth + Phillip 28.11.2018

We have decided to call this episode "The Parenting Episode" because it is honestly one of the most amazing interviews we have heard about handling being a parent while swinging. It also has one of the craziest blooper moments ever happen in the middle, so give it a listen and you will NOT be disappointed.   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Our Patreon Community!   Kasidie Online D...

Ep 36 - The A-Slut Podcast with Simon 21.11.2018

The host and creator of The A-Slut Podcast joins us all the way from New Zealand for an amazing discussion about consent, BDSM, and polyamory. Give it a listen, but only if you like awesome things that are good for your ears.   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Our Patreon Community!   Kasidie Online Dating   https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/   https://shows.pippa.io/thea-slut...

Ep 35 - Angus 14.11.2018

Our first (and hopefully not last) interview with a BBC bull who has been exploring the swinging lifestyle for many years as both a single person and while in a couple. It's a fascinating interview with tons of advice for any single guys out there looking to try and navigate the lifestyle. Come on, you know you want to try it. Just listen!   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Our Pat...

Ep 34 - Jess + Shawn 07.11.2018

This week we have an interview... Duh! It's an amazing interview with a couple who has been exploring swinging for a little over a year and have some fantastic stories as well as one of the funniest coming out to parents stories we've ever heard. Come on, have a listen and a laugh.   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Our Patreon Community!   Kasidie Online Dating   https://www.norma...

Ep 33 - Cindy + John 31.10.2018

Two of our Twitter Followers reached out and wanted to share their story with everyone. Of course, we wanted them to as well so that's what we did. They have been swinging together since high school and have an amazing attitude toward the whole lifestyle that you are going to want to hear.   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Our Patreon Community!   Kasidie Online Dating   https://w...

Ep 32 - On The Wet Coast (Kat + Flick) 24.10.2018

Kat and Flick from the podcast On The Wet Coast join us this week for a diverse interview covering polyamory, swinging, and mental health within the non-monogamy space. Tune in to hear how they have both navigated the world of swinging and poly on and off for for most of their marriage.   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Our Patreon Community!   Kasidie Online Dating   https://www....

Ep 31 - Abby + Justin 17.10.2018

We wrangled some of our sexy friends who are full of knowledge and experience to come on and share some hilarious and helpful stories from throughout their time exploring swinging. They don't really like to be called swingers but hey, I'm the one typing and they can't stop me! So, come listen to one of the funniest first nights at a swinging party we've ever heard and you can thank us later!   Sho...

Ep 30 - Sarah + Zach 10.10.2018

This week a young couple starts exploring non-monogamy a little more seriously after she calls him up on the phone and has some pretty blunt things to share about her sexual desires. Give it a listen to see how he handles it and what they're doing about it now in this thriller of an interview!   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Our Patreon Community!   Kasidie Online Dating   https...

Ep 29 - Swinging Downunder Interviews Us 08.10.2018

We mix it up for a bonus episode this week! C and D from the podcast Swinging Downunder take over our show and interview us regarding some exciting things we are working on this year!   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Our Patreon Community!   Kasidie Online Dating   https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/   http://www.swingingdownunder.com/  

Ep 28 - Sapphic Swingers (Tiff + Rach) 03.10.2018

Things get a little out of control this week when the hostesses of the Sapphic Swingers podcast drop by for an outrageous yet extremely valuable interview on what it's like being a lesbian couple in the world of swinging. Do not miss this one or you will forever regret it!   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Our Patreon Community!   Kasidie Online Dating   https://www.normalizingnon...

Ep 27 - Christopher 26.09.2018

This week we uncover one of the most unconventional and fascinating relationship dynamics we've had on the show. Christopher has been exploring polyamory with his wife for a few years and is even planning to turn it into a career in psychology. If you don't believe polyamorous relationships can work, you probably need to get in here and listen.   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Ou...

Ep 26 - Vaughn 19.09.2018

Our guest this week describes himself as "polyamorous with a dash of swing." Find out why and what that means to him. We also get some great tips on navigating the lifestyle as a person of color and for people looking to bring a person of color into their dynamic. This is a fantastic interview and we are excited to now call Vaughn a friend of ours and of the show!   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online S...

Ep 25 - Swinging Out West (J + S) 12.09.2018

In this week's interview we talk with the hosts of the podcast 'Swinging Out West' about how they got into swinging, how they have dealt with jealousy, and how swinging has impacted their ability to parent children. Give it a listen to learn how swinging can also make you better parents as well!   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Our Patreon Community!   Kasidie Online Dating   htt...

Ep 24 - Amy 05.09.2018

This week we have an incredible interview with a young woman who is exploring solo polyamory and has been for a few years now. She shares a lot of amazing stories and insight with us in an episode that you'd be a fool to miss.   Show Notes   $10 Off - Online STI Testing   Join Our Patreon Community!   Kasidie Online Dating   https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Ep 22 - Two Married (Bowie + Tristan) 22.08.2018

We continue with our sex worker theme this week with an incredible interview with Bowie and Tristan of the podcast Two Married Sluts. They are both professional companions and involved in the swinging and polyamorous communities. Also, spoiler alert, they are not married to each other! We have a wonderful discussion about how they entered non-monogamy with their partners and their paths to becomin...

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