Lola Phoenix

Non-Monogamy Help

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Non-Monogamy Help is a relationship advice podcast for people in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships. With the help of a therapist with over a decade of experience, your host Lola Phoenix, answers the questions your questions about rules, hierarchies, unicorns and more.

Be sure to visit the podcast's website and support the creator: nonmonogamyhelp.com

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Lola Phoenix

Episodes

Episode 19 - Is Polyamory Lazy? 04.10.2019 22:10

Is polyamory just an easy way to go from person to person to get what you want. Or is there more to it than that? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with y...

Episode 18 - Monster of a Metamour 20.09.2019 28:12

You don't get along with your metamour and what's more -- you think they might be unhealthy for your partner. What do you do? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhel...

Episode 17 - Delaying The Inevitable 06.09.2019 30:11

Your partner has agreed to open your relationship, but you're afraid to make the first leap. Should you wait until they have a date first? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@n...

Episode 16 - Just Deal With It 23.08.2019 17:54

Your partner has told you that they want to sleep with other people and expects you to just deal with it. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your ques...

Episode 15 - Fancying An Artist 09.08.2019 14:04

Your partner has never been too keen on non-monogamy, but you have an appointment with an artist you can't resist. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with...

Episode 14 - To Open or Not To Open 29.07.2019 31:59

Should you end a marriage with kids just because your partner wants to be explore? Or just wait it out? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your questi...

Episode 13 - I Wanna Ruin Our Friendship 12.07.2019 19:07

You've fallen for your (very monogamous) best friend. Should you take the plunge and 'ruin' your friendship? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with y...

Episode 12 - Needing To Be Touched 28.06.2019 19:18

When your partner feels like they can’t touch anyone any more, are cheating or polyamory your only options? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with yo...

Episode 11 - Long Distance Lament 14.06.2019 25:58

Your relationship has moved to long distance and your partner has a new partner... and is now ignoring your needs. What do you do? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonoga...

Episode 10 - Forced into Polyamory 17.05.2019 28:03

Your partner wants to open your relationship, but you don't. And you have kids. What now? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question.

Episode 9 - Winning Gold Medals 03.05.2019 22:26

Are you giving your partner a gold medal for doing something they should be doing anyway? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question.

Episode 8 - Polyamorous and Pregnant 19.04.2019 27:34

When a baby's on the way should you close the relationship if you feel you can't trust your partner? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question.

Episode 7 - Polyagony 05.04.2019 30:17

Tired of juggling partners, living in polyagony, and ready to throw in the towel. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question.

Episode 6: Polyam in the Middle 22.03.2019 24:19

When an attempt at kitchen table polyamory goes awry and two of your loves can't see eye to eye. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question.

Episode 5: Tricky Triangles and BPD 08.03.2019 34:50

When is a good time to try and see if you are non-monogamous? And how can borderline personality disorder impact it? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com wit...

Episode 4: Getting Married As a Triad 22.02.2019 17:04

Is it possible to get married to both of the loves of your life? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question.

Episode 3: Shouldn't this be easier if I've cheated? 08.02.2019 24:31

What if you've tried non-monogamy because you cheated, and it's not working out as well as you thought? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website . Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com ! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your questi...

Episode 2: STIs Don't Care About Feelings 25.01.2019 34:24

What happens when your partner is fluid bonded with others but you want them to be fluid bonded to you instead? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Full audio transcript can be found on Patreon. More about Non-Monogamy Help: https://nonmonogamyhelp.com https://www.patreon.com/lolaphoenix https://twitter.com/NonMonogamyHelp Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your questio...

Episode 1: Thruple Trouble 11.01.2019 19:27

What do you do when you start dating a couple and things don't seem to be going right... but that's actually going according to plan? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. More about Non-Monogamy Help: https://nonmonogamyhelp.com https://www.patreon.com/lolaphoenix https://twitter.com/NonMonogamyHelp Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question.