Dr. Stephanie Holmes
NeuroDiverse Christian Couples
Like all couples, NeuroDiverse (AS/NT) Christian couples face challenges with communication and connection. Those challenges are nuanced in a way that most couples, therapists, and clergy don't typically recognize. Often NeuroDiverse Couples have children on the spectrum (or or other differences), this podcast will dedicate topics to the NeuroDiverse Couple as well as issues that may arise in spectrum or special needs family systems. We invite you to learn about NeuroDiverse Christian couples to understand those aspects more fully.
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Dr. Stephanie Holmes
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Jul 6, 2026
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Episodes
How to Use Polyvagal Theory with AS Clients 11.09.2023 44:14
Jill Jones, LISW-CP Join Dr. Holmes and Jill Jones for an introduction to Polyvagal theory and the Safe and Sound Protocol that stems from PVT. You can find out more about Jill Jones at www.baylaureltherapay.com Jill Jones Biography: Jill Jones, LISW-CP, grew up in a neuro-divergent household and taught in public schools for 14 years before getting her MSW degree in 2002. Since then, Jill has been...
Hindsight Learning: What we continue to learn about our ND Marriage 04.09.2023 1:04:02
Dan and Stephanie, while working on their family book, continue to process things they are learning about themselves and marriage as an ND Christian Couple. They pass on things they wish they had known and why knowing about the diagnosis is so important! The family has written a book coming this fall! If you want to see more of their hindsight learning as a neurodiverse marriage and family, check...
The Importance of Present Dads, Self-Care, & Building Community with John Felageller 28.08.2023 1:02:30
John Felageller has spent over 15 years in education, working with children from Infants to Middle School, serving in a variety of roles, including Teacher, Mentor Teacher, and School Director. John lives in Highwood, IL, and is a single father to his son Christopher (ASD), and is currently a Special Education teacher in Chicago, IL. He is a regular contributor to Key Ministry’s Special Needs Fami...
Growing up with an ASD Dad with Guest Erica Holmes 21.08.2023 54:32
This month we have been focusing on parenting with an ASD partner and parenting in a neurodiverse family system. We have had some listeners ask for a podcast on ASD dads. So today, we bring in our youngest daughter, who is not on the spectrum, to discuss some of her thoughts about growing up with a dad on the spectrum and not knowing about that until later in her teen life. Dr. Stephanie interview...
JTG Talk Parenting 16.08.2023 52:13
From building safe environments to perspectives on social media and a couple of topics in between, JTG talks about parenting.
Autism Dadvocate, Paul Carroll 14.08.2023 56:23
About Paul: As Head of Colleague & Leadership Development at CVS Health, I lead an amazing Talent Development team of 25 professionals who take our leaders and colleagues to “the next level” – strengthening their skill sets in their current role, while preparing them for their future role in the organization. We achieve this by leveraging data, partnering with our business unit stakeholders, a...
Partnering & Parenting as an ND Couple with Kate & Clark 07.08.2023 56:46
This month we will highlight parenting and partnering. Dr. Holmes heard Kate and Clark Webb present at the NeuroDiverse Love conference on parenting and thought this would be a good topic to bring to our listeners. Dan and Stephanie talk about parenting and partnering with fellow ND couple Kate and Clark Webb. Meet married couple, Kate and Clark. Kate is the neurotypical partner, and Clark is the...
Everyone Deserves a Seat at the Table with "Doc" Hunsley of SOAR 31.07.2023 1:00:39
Join Dr. Holmes as she interviews and converses with Dr. Hunsley, known as "Doc", about how everyone deserves a seat at the table and how, in every aspect of society and community (especially the faith community), we should be inclusive and aware of people with differences. "Doc" has developed an excellent buddy training program for providing support to individuals with needs from childhood to adu...
Friendship Love Autism with ND Couple Michelle & Andrew Preston 24.07.2023 1:03:42
About my Guests: Michelle and Andrew Preston are a neurodiverse couple who gained a large social media following by sharing their struggles. After having many videos about their various miscommunications go viral, they decided it was important to write a book to help other couples like themselves. Their debut novel 'Friendship Love Autism' is all about how Michelle discovered Andrew is autistic, a...
Answering Listener Questions on Attachment, Rupture & Repair with Dr. Gill 17.07.2023 1:04:28
We welcome bas Dr. Jesse Gill who did 2 podcasts with us last year on the basics of Attachment. We asked listeners what do you want to know more about attachment? Here are some questions we received: Is a contract (marriage license and officiated wedding) the same thing as an attachment? Is it the start of one, or perhaps not part of it at all? Can it be true for one party and not the other? When...
Just The Guys - Generosity Starts at Home 13.07.2023 41:38
Greg, Jeremy, Mark, Clay, and Dan talk about generosity. What does that term mean now, and how did it evolve over the years?
The Sound Relationship House with Gottman Trained Therapist 10.07.2023 54:41
Today Dan joins Stephanie with Dr. Mike McNulty, a Gottman-trained therapist who also specializes in NeuroDiverse couples. We talk today about The Sound Relationship House and "Why Marriages Succeed or Fail" based on Gottman's evidence-based research. There are very few Christian counselors, coaches, and pastors who are trained in ND marriage. Our research shows Christians want to work with anothe...
Building Intimacy and Connection in an ND Christian Marriage 03.07.2023 52:30
Today Dan and Stephanie talk through June Hunt's book simply called Intimacy. We will discuss the 6 levels of intimacy and false intimacy. Can sex actually be false intimacy? What defines connection for each partner, both NT, and ND?
Is the Body of Christ including All its Members? Jillian Palmiotto 26.06.2023 1:06:42
Dr. Stephanie Holmes met Jillian through being a sponsor of the Together Conference that happens in GA. In their discussion, she found a kindred spirit and admires the ministry work to include members of the body of Christ who have disabilities and differences. As we conclude this month on inclusion. The church should be the most inclusive of those with differences and disabilities. About our Gues...
Culture, Stigma, Autism & People of Color with Dr. Mary Jones 19.06.2023 56:06
Today is Juneteenth! It feels most appropriate to discuss autism and special needs from the perspective of people of color. Today our guest is a former pediatrician and mom who will give us great insight into this perspective through lived and professional experience. About Dr. Mary Jones: I am a physician and PCCI-trained life and leadership coach. I believe there is greatness in each of us, and...
Just The Guys Financially Relational 14.06.2023 46:04
The guys talk about the intersection of finances, emotions, and relationships.
Understanding Multiculturalism & Special Needs with Dr. Josecyln Ramos Campbell 12.06.2023 44:16
Join Dr. Holmes as she speaks with Joscelyn Campbell about how different cultures discuss and accept special needs or mental health diagnoses. Becoming multiculturally aware is important for clinicians and social workers as they partner with families to work with children with needs. Knowing about cultural diversity and differences is important in establishing a relationship with the family. This...
DEI is often Missing NeuroDiversity with Peter Mann 05.06.2023 48:45
Join Dr. Stephanie and Dan Holmes of NeuroDiverse Christian Couples Podcast as they interview autistic entrepreneur Peter Mann. Peter unknowingly tapped into being neurodivergent, using his autism to become a highly successful serial entrepreneur and CEO. Being autistic allowed him to: see unusual patterns to improve business strategy create first-of-kind products with unique physical designs take...
What I Would have Done Differently ... with Dr. Mona Kay 29.05.2023 50:32
Dan and Stephanie talk to Dr. Mona Kay of the NeuroDiverse Love podcast. We will talk from Dr. Mona's perspective about what she wishes she would have done differently in her ND relationship. Advice to NT spouses. About Dr. Mona Kay: Mona Kay, MSW, Ph. D., is the founder of the Neurodiverse Love community, the host of the Neurodiverse Love Podcast, and the creator of the Neurodiverse Love Conversa...
Boundaries vs Codependency, Godly Sorrow vs Worldly Sorrow with Barbara Grant 22.05.2023 1:00:29
Dan and Stephanie talk with fellow NeuroDiverse Couples' Coach Barbara Grant. About Barbara Grant: Barbara Grant, CAS, NCC, is a Certified Autism Specialist (IBCCES) and certified Neurodiverse Couples Coach (AANE) and is near the completion of her Master's in MFT (Marriage and Family Therapy.) She has been trained through the International Association of ND Christian Marriage. She has been coachin...
Interest Beyond Apathy 17.05.2023 39:15
Perry, Greg, Jeremy, and Dan talk about what curiosity is and what that looks like in their relationships.
She Deserves Better with Sheila Gregoire 15.05.2023 1:03:32
Dan and Stephanie are excited to have back as our guest, Sheila Gregoire. While we push back on the modesty and purity movement along with courtship teachings that encourage rules and roles, we speak to the truth of abstinence and reserving sex for marriage while teaching both men and women to respect boundaries versus putting all the responsibility on girls/women. We will discuss the new book, Sh...
Research Insights into the AS Female Phenotype with Dr. Will Carroll 08.05.2023 1:05:25
Join Dr. Holmes as she interviews researcher and clinician Dr. Will Carroll on the topic of Autism Female Phenotypes. The discussion includes why females may be missed, and the diagnoses females receive before a later autism identification. Dr. Carroll will discuss a missed opportunity of research, and that is information a sister can provide with insight into having a sister on the spectrum. Othe...
The 4 Soils and YOUR Marriage (Parable of the Sower) 01.05.2023 1:04:35
Dan and Stephanie take a look at the parable of the sower or the parable of the 4 soils found in Matthew 13:1-23 & Mark 4:1-20. While we understand in context this parable is about the seed being the Word of the Lord, we talk about the soil of your heart being open to change and transformation to the Holy Spirit and call for an examination of what condition the soil of your heart concerning yo...
Broken & Crushed to Redeemed & Restored 24.04.2023 53:03
We all love a good story of a broken marriage that is redeemed and restored, but sometimes happily ever after does not happen, and people can be broken and crushed by their marriage or divorce. We talk today with coaches, Iris Knapp and Cathy Young, who have the heart to help women restore their identity in Christ and be redeemed and restored to their Imago Dei even when the marriage was not resto...
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