NeuroDiverse Christian Couples

Stephanie talks again with Leisa Williams. Previously we discussed her book Hope Wins! Now we discuss Hope Overcomes. We will discuss how a caring church community can come alongside a family with special needs and give HOPE! Having Other People Engage! About Leisa: Leisa is a Christian author who writes from her heart about her life experiences. Her views are tried and tested from many years of w...

Join Stephanie and Dan as they talk about what are the essential ingredients to a healthy, God-honoring marriage as an NDCC. Stephanie reads from a devotional called 50 Fruits of Pride. Have you thought of some of those as pride before/ Pride and entitlement are the opposite of humility? Are you teachable? Can you ask for help? Can you admit when you are wrong? Can you see the perspective of other...

Join Dr. Holmes as she interviews Clay M. Westbrook about Neurodiversity in the workplace. Dr. Holmes wrote the forward for Clay's book, "Best Places To Work: An Autistic Adventure in Corporate America." About Clay: Clay M. Westbrook is a lifelong resident of the state of Georgia. He was born in Athens and attended the University of Georgia, earning a bachelor's degree in History and a law degree,...

Today Dan and Stephanie talk to the author of Journal of Best Practices, Dave Finch. About Dave: Dave Finch is a New York Times bestselling author on neurodiverse relationships. He is a studio owner, media host, and creative consultant to Netflix, Disney, and others. Dave’s work has appeared on ABC, CBS, NBC, CNN, NPR, SiriusXM, The New York Times, Rolling Stone, The Howard Stern Show, and the awa...

Join Stephanie as she interviews Ron Sandison. There are many topics for discussion today, including Autism & transitioning into adulthood and issues young adults face like employment, developing relationships, dating, leaving the home, and healthcare. Ron speaks from experience as an adult on the spectrum. Ron and Stephanie will talk about the underemployment and unemployment of people on the spe...

Usually, you will hear Dan and Stephanie talking through issues and challenges of being an NDCC or sharing tips. But today, joining are two guys from our NDCC Bible/Book study, to discuss how work influences home life. Dan, Perry, and Greg discuss some things that translate to home and some that just do not. The guys talk about scripts and mimicking and expectations. To hear more from Perry, Perry...

About Toni Boucher: Toni has been working with folks on the spectrum for over 28 years. Her daughter was diagnosed with ASD at age 11. Toni's clients and people who know her well say Asperger's is the reason she "gets it". Her articles on sensory integration are referenced worldwide by families, psychologists, teachers, and therapists. She is often referred to as "The Autism Translator." Find out...

Today Dan and Stephanie interview Thomas Pryde of the Psalm 82 Initiative. What is the Psalm 82 Initiative? Helping make churches safer for abuse victims. Psalm 82 also is Calling civil and religious leaders to recognize and respond to abuse more effectively. Today is a sensitive topic. We will discuss divorce and how the church has taught Malachi 2:16 that God hates divorce- for all reasons. What...

Join Stephanie and Barbara, who will talk about the pain of divorce and how NDCCs may find themselves needing to separate or divorce or live in separate spaces. Barbara has been a co-leader with Stephanie for NT Christian wives in AS marriage. We will also talk about the stigma often placed on people who divorce in the church community. Both Barbara and Stephanie believe in Covenant marriage and a...

Today Dan and Stephanie interview Thomas Pryde of the Psalm 82 Initiative. What is the Psalm 82 Initiative? Helping make churches safer for abuse victims. Psalm 82 also is Calling civil and religious leaders to recognize and respond to abuse more effectively. Today is a sensitive topic. We will discuss divorce and how the church has taught Malachi 2:16 that God hates divorce- for all reasons. What...

Join Stephanie in her discussion with Ron Suskind on discovering potential and finding hope against all odds. As Ron shares his experience with his son Owen and Stephanie shares her experience with Sydney, both find found ways to enter their autistic child's inner world through scripting through their child's favorite Disney movies. Dr. Holmes' interviews Ron Suskind at the Converge Autism Summit...

Dr. Holmes heard about this amazing book, Emotional Intelligence in Christ, from a video on Lead Like Jesus. Dan and Stephanie are excited to have back on the podcast, Lauren E. Miller. The link to the previous show on Emotional Intelligence in Christ is below. https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/growing-your-emotional-intelligence-in-c NeuroDiverse relationships can have a lot of stress and...

Join Dr. Holmes as she interviews Robin Tate, a life coach, and NeuroDiverse Couples' coach. Today we discuss Neurodiversity and strategies for executive functioning.  Robin describes a little about herself: I am a professionally trained Teacher and Coach who is passionate about providing the best experience to my clients. As well as training, I have an in-depth understanding of the impacts of liv...

Autism in Relationships. What can we work on change? Join Stephanie and Dan as they interview Dr. Tony Attwood and they discuss what may change and what may not in ND couples. Dr. Tony discusses meltdown and anger management, communication differences, and the importance of scheduling time together. About Professor Tony Attwood: Tony is a clinical psychologist who has specialized in Autism Spectru...

Peter Vermeulen Check out this article on predictive coding: https://petervermeulen.be/2019/08/20/autism-absolute-thinking-in-a-relative-world/ About Dr. Vermeulen in his own words. Peter got a Bachelor in Family Sciences (Brussels, 1985) and in the same year also a Master in Psychology and Pedagogical Sciences at the oldest university of Belgium, the University of Leuven. Because he got the taste...

Stephanie and Dan wanted to share practical communication tools. In the previous podcast they shared communication cards for starting conversations. Today they talk through a course they have taught couples they work with called Emotionally Healthy Relationships (EHR). We encourage listeners to get the updated workbook where the scripts are included for CTR, Stop Mind Reading, Clarify Expectations...

Dr. Holmes speaks with Leslie Sickels about autism and sexuality and common challenges in ND Couples. Leslie A. Sickels, LCSW is a licensed clinical social worker based in Manhattan. Her areas of expertise include autism spectrum disorder (ASD), NeuroDiverse relationships, anxiety, depression, and trauma. Much of her work focuses on gender and sexuality as they relate to the unique concerns of ind...

Join Dan and Stephanie in a 2 part conversation about...... communication and conversations. Many NDCCs get stuck in their ability to communicate or start basic conversations that are more than logistical. Logistics simply are not connecting nor do they build attachment. In this podcast, Dan and Stephanie will discuss a tool created by Dr. Mona of NeuroDiverse Love. Used with permission, you will...

Listen in with Dr. Holmes and Neurodivergent Relationship Coach Grace Myhill in the second segment focused on relational issues in Neurodivergent relationships (where one person is on the spectrum and one is not also known as AS-NT). This segment focuses on the perspective of the spouse who is not on the spectrum. Dr. Holmes asked on social media and other networks for questions from both perspect...

Join Dan and Stephanie as they talk with Bruce Wayne Knight on sexual intimacy. Dan and Stephanie took some questions from listeners about sexual issues and intimacy issues that may arise in an ND marriage. The book Total Intimacy: A Guide to Living in Color by Deborah Neel and the late Doug Rosenau. While this book is not written for NDCCs, it is a great guide for intimacy on different levels of...

Segment One: From the NeuroDiverse Perspective Join Dr. Holmes with Neurodivergent Relationship Coach Grace Myhill in two segments focused on relational issues in Neurodivergent relationships (where one person is on the spectrum and one is not also known as AS-NT). Dr. Holmes asked on social media and other networks for questions from both perspectives from all over the country to “Ask Grace.” Joi...

Make sure you listen to part 1 of this 2 part series on attachment. In a previous podcast, Dr. Gill gives us a basic understanding of attachment. Today's episode will talk about marriage attachment styles and how marriages become detached or get caught in negative patterns and cycles that cause injury and broken trust.

What the DSM calls "restrictive interests" can actually be passions and foundations for future career possibilities. Join Dr. Holmes as she interviews Autism Advocate and Aspie, Sydney Homes, on her finding her future career and pairing her passions for her future career. Dr. Grandin recommends helping those on the spectrum find their passion and interests and build friendships or careers around t...

This is the first in the series of podcasts in season 4 to dive into attachment, connection, attachment injuries, and the need for repair. Connection is the starting part of true intimacy in all its forms. Join Dan and Stephanie as they interview Dr. William Jesse Gill. Attachment is about having a safe haven or secure base. How does this affect connection? What are the differences between NT and...

Sydney Holmes interviews Dr. Grandin with questions collected by young adults and adults on the autism spectrum for Dr. Grandin. Questions range from early intervention to handling dysregulation at work. Join Dr. Holmes and Sydney as they ask questions members of the autism community want to know from Dr. Temple Grandin. See Dr. Grandin's full bio on April 4th show with Dr. Grandin. Questions from...