NAUGHTY GYM SHOW - Building Stronger Non-Monogamous Relationships

In Episode 30 we talk with Ashley Manta about how we can know whether or not we are good in bed. We all (well, mostly guys) think we are good in bed. But how do you really know? Can we be living under the illusion that we are good when in reality we ain't that great? Are there signs we can look for? Are women often faking it? Are guys typically over confident? Is it a turn off when guys brag about...

In Episode 27 we reviewed April's first separate date with a man who wants to be her submissive. The first date was dinner and drinks mostly for April to learn more about his submissive kink and what he hopes to get out of their relationship. In this episode, Luna Matatas, femdom extraordinaire, gives April an on-air lesson in how to prepare for her upcoming 1st big femdom session with her new boy...

In this episode we interview 4 of the most important members of Hedonism II Resort's management team to get the inside scoop and ask questions about the day to day logistics of running the world's most iconic adult playground. We interview: Diane Lange, Executive Director Winston Barkley, Entertainment Director Tatiana Answer, Director of Sales and Marketing Diana Field, Groups Manager If you are...

After exploring the possibility of separate dating for about a year, one of us finally gets to do it. April went on her date and we recap it live on the podcast only 10 hours after the date was over. Somehow we managed not to discuss it until we turned on the mics and started talking the next morning. You'll get to hear us process the whole thing in real time. Additionally we made separate small a...

Famed UK clinical nutrition scientist, philosopher, and April's apparent new boyfriend, Martin MacDonald is back on the show. This time we are going into detail about his evidence based Aggressive Diet Program to talk about how he is using science to prove you can lose a LOT of fat in a relatively short period of time. In the process of nerding out about nutrition we get sidetracked several times...

In this episode we tackle the difficult topic of saying "No" when someone propositions you with play when you aren't interested. It is always tough to hurt someone's feelings but it is unavoidable in consensual non-monogamy. Learning to be direct while simultaneously being polite is difficult but doable. In this episode we discuss when to say "no," how to say "no," and how to receive a "no." Most...

In episode 24 we try to break down the issue of expectations in consensual non-monogamy. It is all too common for one partner to have different (or no) expectations about events or non-monogamous life in general. These differences can too often be the source of bumps along the journey into more sexually open relationships. We attempt to define expectations, explain why the are usually not a benefi...

This episode was going to be April flying solo but she quickly calls Scott in when the wheels fall off. We discuss a few things that have been swirling around in that beautiful brain of hers. Everything from starting a non-monogamous commune to getting led to Jesus on the pickleball courts. 👉🏼 Check out  www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼 Upcoming Events: Be Bett...

We interview journalist, sex coach, and CrossFit coach, Gabrielle Kassel. She has written extensively for major publications about sex, fitness, and the intersection of the two. We cover topics like her career, whether she's faced backlash for her personal life, non-monogamy, trans athletes, and more. 👉🏼 Check out  www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼 Upcoming Even...

We talk with Coach Cara about the ins and outs of the illusive unicorn. When a couple decides to open up their relationship one of the most common initial fantasies is to bring in a 3rd female... often called a unicorn. In this podcast, three experienced consensual non-monogamists discuss the realities and difficulties of making this happen and how to handle it if it does.  Here's the questio...

We interview Victoria and her husband Ryan about their new venture, Birds Of A Feather Matchmaking. This is the industries 1st matchmaking service (as far as we know) for people in various forms of open relationships.  Is this for you? Do you need help making connections? Are you too busy to scroll through dating apps and want to outsource this part of your love life? Or how about some coachi...

We sit down with Casual Swingers Podcast creators, Mickey and Mallory, while we are together in Nashville, to discuss our ideal play partners. Each of us answers a series of questions, very candidly, about what characteristics our perfect play partner would have.  We tackle age, weight, height, hair, grooming, occupation, religious and political leanings, play styles, play scenarios, relation...

Nutrition Scientist (and philosopher according to April), Martin MacDonald, joins the Naughty Gym Show to discuss the intersection of nutrition, fitness, sex, and the occassional foray into religion.  Scott and Martin low key form a bromance and April gets mad when Martin comes to Scott's defense about Diet Dr. Pepper.  This was such a fun episode and it lasts about 90 minutes. But we ta...

It's the time of year where we start to see those New Year's resolutions failing. This episode is our 5 best tips to try and keep those resolutions on track and keep you marching toward those goals for 2024!  We talk fitness, nutrition, sleep, and lifestyle changes.  There's something in this episode for everyone!

We continue our discussion about our takeover week at Hedonism, Be Better At Being Bad Week.  This episode we talk exclusively about the most personal and impactful stuff that happened to us while we were there.  In the previous episode we spent the whole time discussing the big overview of everything that happened from a top down viewpoint of BBBB. This time we talk from the heart about...

In this 1st of a 2 part series, we recap the big picture overview of our inaugural new event, Be Better At Being Bad, a complete takeover of the Hedonsim II Resort.  This episode focuses on each days events and what we found most interesting throughout the week.  In the next episode we will discuss the week's events through a more personal lense.  

In this episode we discuss the difficulties of making connections with other couples, how to handle imbalances in yours or the other couple's flirt game, and how, most importantly, not to lose to a piece of meat.  We've invited our friends and fitness trainers Cara and Matt on the show to discuss how these things can sometimes go wrong, why it isn't always easy and how to deal with your emoti...

In the first half of this episode, April interviews Scott about his bisexuality and the double standard we sometimes see in the world of Consensual Non-Monogamy toward bisexual men. They further discuss some struggles Scott has faced in coming out in the South and how at 51 years old he’s beginning to embrace his sexuality with pride and intellectual aggression.   In the second half the...

In the first half of the episode we give an overview of a what a typical day at Hedonism II Resort is like. We break down the general daily itinerary, how groups impact the dynamic on the resort, available activities, theme nights, pool parties, etc.  The last half of the episode is spent talking about our full takeover of the resort in January of 2024 and how we think this is the perfect exp...

April and Scott interview Roderick Stevens about his upcoming documentary, "Open, A Journey Through Love." We talk about why Roderick is the right filmaker for the job, how this look into consensual non-monogamy will tell the story the way it needs to be told, and the process required to get it produced released to the public!

Our 10th podcast episode is the 2nd in a 10 part series "So You Want To Be A Swinger?"   This series is designed for anyone curious about opening their relationship and exploring some form of consensual or ethical non-monogamy. We interview experts from around the world to gather all the information we think you will need and/or find helpful when considering venturing into this changing lands...

In this episode April and Scott discuss what qualifies as flirting, their evolving boundaries, and the research on improving your flirt game. Naughty Gym Links: Website: https://www.naughtygym.com/ 2. Be Better At Being Bad, takeover of Hedonism Resort: https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad 3. Twitter: https://twitter.com/NaughtyGym 4. Instagram: https://instagram.com/naughty_gym?igshi...

In episode 8 we interview one of the top sex educators in the country, Luna Matatas. Luna takes a playful approach to sex, kink, bdsm, and life. And as you'll hear in this show, when she talks it is hard not to smile. Listen as we discuss how BDSM works in a relationship, why body positivity is so important and how to cultivate more of it, and some of the incredible things she has planned as a key...

Coach April interviews Cara, a fitness professional and specialist on pelvic floor health and specifically how it can affect your sex life. They discuss important topics like incontinence, efficiency of orgasms, men's and women's different pelvic problems, ways to correct these issues and, for some reason, butt slut stuff. 😄 Most people don't know that these frequent pelvic floor issues can often...

This is the 1st episode in a 10 part series "So You Want To Be A Swinger?"   This series is designed for anyone curious about opening their relationship and exploring some form of consensual or ethical non-monogamy. We interview experts from around the world to gather all the information we think you will need and/or find helpful when considering venturing into this changing landscape of sexu...