Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

In this part of the conversation, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses the feeling of not being able to trust others and believing that one is worthy of being loved. Maurice mentions the tendency for many women to initially have a high level of trust in their partners when entering a relationship, but over time, this trust can diminish due to various factors and societal i...

In this portion of the conversation, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the meaning of when a woman says, "I don't feel safe," and how men can respond effectively to address this concern. He starts by using the analogy of airplane safety and how passengers may not always feel safe even if the airplane is indeed safe. Maurice emphasizes that it's not t...

In this segment of the podcast, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, introduces the concept of being an orthodontist in the realm of relationships. The analogy is used to convey the importance of having a well-defined treatment plan for personal growth and emotional self-mastery, similar to how an orthodontist plans stages of change for teeth alignment. Maurice stresses the signific...

In this insightful podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, dives deep into the concept of understanding and managing negative emotions within the context of relationships. The episode unfolds as a transformative workshop, encouraging listeners to embark on a journey of self-discovery and emotional mastery. Maurice begins by emphasizing the value of the workshop-style d...

In this podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the aftermath of encouraging a couple to engage in a unique exercise of recording their conversations and analyzing their interactions. The episode sheds light on the unexpected results of this experiment and dives deep into the intricacies of personal growth and relationship dynamics. Maurice recounts an expe...

In this podcast episode, we delve into a thought-provoking concept that sheds light on a common challenge in relationships—how to understand differing perspectives without being present to witness the interactions. We're all familiar with the he-said, she-said dilemma that often arises when recounting events. This episode takes us on a journey to uncover a new way of approaching these situatio...

In this podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, addresses the lack of training in healthy relationships that many men have faced over the past 30 years. Maurice reflects on a recent encounter with a 22-year-old man who lacked relationship skills and was struggling with manipulative tendencies as he prepared for marriage. He emphasizes the need for men to undergo proper...

In this enlightening podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, dives into the intricate world of inner voices, shedding light on their varied roles and influences within the mind. Listeners are provided with strategies to harness these voices, manage intrusive thoughts, and align them for positive personal growth. Key Takeaways: Differentiating Voices : The episode kicks...

In this insightful podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the fascinating world of the mind's inner voices and their impact on decision-making and well-being. The episode highlights techniques and strategies for effectively managing and leveraging these voices to achieve personal growth and empowerment. Key Highlights: Channeling Ambitious Ideas : The...

In this engaging podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, embarks on a journey of self-discovery, exploring the intricacies of managing the voices that reside within our minds. With fresh insights gained since the last teaching, they guide listeners through a revolutionary approach to understanding and harnessing the diverse voices that influence our thoughts and action...

In this enlightening podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, dives into the ongoing struggle between remembering and forgetting, a recurring issue faced by many warriors on their personal journeys. He provides insights and strategies for setting up effective systems to remember what truly matters and defeat the allure of addiction. Key Highlights: Choosing the Now: The...

In this thought-provoking podcast episode, Cody Hawes delves into the crucial topic of feeding one's identity versus succumbing to addictive behaviors. He discusses the internal struggle faced by individuals battling addiction, and how to shift focus from destructive patterns to nurturing one's true self. Key Highlights: Feeding Identity : The episode addresses the inner conflict between n...

In this insightful podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, and Seth team up to guide listeners through the intricate landscape of betrayal trauma and its effects on relationships. The hosts provide practical insights and strategies to help men understand, empathize, and communicate effectively with their partners in the aftermath of betrayal. Key Highlights: Understand...

In this enlightening podcast episode, we delve deep into the complexities of betrayal trauma and its profound impact on relationships. Hosted by Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services and an expert in spiritual psychology, and joined by Seth, a specialist in science and emotional intelligence, the discussion aims to provide men with insights and tools to navigate betrayal trauma within...

In this podcast episode, we delve into the complex world of betrayal trauma and its impact on relationships, particularly from a male perspective. As we explore this topic, we aim to shed light on the challenges that men face in understanding and addressing the profound effects of betrayal trauma on their partners. Hosted by Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services and an expert in spiri...

In this insightful podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, present a comprehensive checklist essential for embarking on a successful journey into a new phase of a relationship, referred to as "season one." He emphasizes the importance of these preparatory steps to ensure a healthy and fulfilling transition. Maurice begins by discussing the significance of rev...

In this podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, explore a checklist for starting a new phase of their marital relationships, referred to as "season one," where they discuss essential elements that need to be in place for successful progress. The episode begins with Maurice sharing his process of curating a list of about a hundred key factors that are vital be...

In this podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the concept of psychological empathy and how it can transform relationships, specifically within the context of dating and marriage. The discussion begins by highlighting scenarios where individuals, particularly men, struggle to initiate conversations due to various reasons, such as timing or fear of rejectio...

In this podcast episode, Cody Hawes and Brandon discuss the profound impact of the movie "Sound of Freedom" on their perspectives and their work in addiction recovery. They explore the themes of empathy, objectification, and the devastating link between pornography addiction and the widespread issue of human trafficking. The hosts reflect on how objectification and dehumanization, whethe...

In this podcast episode, Cody Hawes and Brandon discuss their impressions of the movie "Sound of Freedom," which sheds light on the devastating realities of human and sex trafficking. The movie review is a reflection of the emotional impact the film had on them and its connection to their work in recovery and helping individuals overcome pornography addiction. Brandon begins by expressin...

Tune in to this heartfelt podcast hosted by Cody Hawes and Brandon. In this episode, Cody and Brandon share personal stories and insights about embracing change, recovery, and finding one's true purpose. They emphasize the importance of recognizing open doors and opportunities that align with authentic values and beliefs. Reflecting on their own journeys, they discuss the transformative power...

Welcome to this episode with your hosts Cody Hawes and Brandon. In this episode, Cody and Brandon introduce themselves and their mission to provide support for those facing life's challenges and journeys of recovery. Cody, a licensed clinical social worker and therapist, shares his nearly two decades of experience in mental health facilities and private practice. Brandon, having overcome his o...

In this enlightening podcast episode, we explore the concept of engaging in passion projects as a form of co-creation with a loving and supportive God. The discussion challenges the notion of a distant and aloof deity, inviting listeners to view God as an enthusiastic collaborator in their creative endeavors. Drawing upon relatable anecdotes and a touch of humor, the episode highlights the idea th...

In this inspiring podcast episode, we delve into the concept of achievability and its impact on pursuing passion projects. The discussion challenges the notion of confining passion projects within the bounds of achievability and opens the door to embracing miracles. Listeners are invited to step beyond the limitations of what seems achievable and into the realm of the miraculous. Passion projects,...

In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we explore the world of passion projects and the miraculous potential they hold. The discussion challenges the notion of "Smart Goals" and highlights the distinction between passion projects and traditional goal-setting. Listeners are invited to consider the idea that they can actively participate in miracles through their passion projects. The...