Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

In this podcast episode, Maurice Harker continues the discussion on the "Handbook for My Daughter" concept. He encourages participants to express their concerns and experiences in the chat, emphasizing the importance of visualizing and documenting their thoughts. Maurice introduces the "Pattern for Growth," a concept inspired by President Nielsen's leadership, consisting of...

In this podcast episode, Maurice Harker, the director of Life Changing Services, introduces the Worth Q&A session. He discusses the history of the Worth group, which has been providing support and resources for women going through challenging life transitions, including divorce. The group aims to address the questions and concerns of women who are navigating divorce, contemplating it, or worki...

Welcome to the podcast episode with Brandon, Chandler, and Cody Haws, where they discuss the importance of living an intentional life. They are excited to be a part of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, thanks to Maurice's invitation. In this episode, they reflect on the concept of intentionality and its significance in shaping one's identity and purpose. Living intentionally means set...

Introduction: In this enlightening podcast episode, we explore the intricacies of managing complex conversations within relationships while being mindful of emotional limits. Discover practical strategies for effectively listening to your partner, processing their pain, and addressing issues constructively. Episode Highlights: The Power of Controlled Conversations: Learning to control the pace of...

Introduction: In this podcast episode, we delve into the art of managing conversations and emotional boundaries in relationships. We explore practical techniques to help you navigate discussions effectively while respecting your emotional limits and your partner's perspective. Episode Highlights: The Gold Nugget in Conversations: When engaging in a conversation with your partner, aim to discov...

Introduction: In this podcast episode, we explore the art of effective communication in relationships, focusing on practical techniques to enhance understanding and connection between partners. We introduce the "Foursquare Listening Tool" and its role in fostering better conversations. Episode Highlights: The Foursquare Listening Tool: The Foursquare Listening Tool is introduced as a pow...

Introduction: In this podcast episode, we delve into the complex world of human psychology and relationships. Our discussion will touch upon topics such as evolutionary psychology, mating strategies, and the importance of empathy in understanding the experiences of both partners in a relationship. Episode Highlights: Evolutionary Psychology and Mating Strategies: We explore the deep-rooted psychol...

In this segment of the men's marriage repair workshop, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses the concept of situational empathy and its crucial role in building a healthy marriage. He uses powerful examples, including Christ's situational empathy during his crucifixion, to illustrate the depth of understanding and compassion required in relationships. Maurice begins...

In this segment of the men's marriage repair workshop, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses the concept of situational empathy and its importance within marriage. He uses a scale to represent levels of empathy and delves into participants' experiences and perspectives. Maurice begins by explaining the chemical scale, where a higher number indicates a greater distan...

In this men's marriage repair workshop session, participants delve into Lesson 18, marking their journey four weeks into Season 1. The workshop encourages participants to reflect on their progress and engage in discussions about various aspects of their marriages. Maurice, Director of Life Changing Services, highlights the importance of acknowledging one's progress and ensuring that commit...

In this interactive live session, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, invites a participant to undergo a personalized power session where they work together to tailor a life plan to the individual's specific needs and challenges. Maurice emphasizes the importance of flexibility in planning and the need to customize strategies for individual circumstances. The participant discus...

This podcast episode delivers a powerful message to women about recognizing their worth, setting high standards, and nurturing self-care. Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, emphasizes that women should not compromise on their boundaries and self-respect, emphasizing the importance of maintaining personal standards. The episode discusses the advantage that women in pioneer days had...

In this gripping podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, shares a deeply personal story from their own marriage, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and addressing psychological abuse and toxic dynamics. They recount a time when their marriage was on the brink of divorce due to subtle satanic attacks that created a toxic environment. During their separation, Maur...

In this lively podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, shares their excitement as they dive into Lesson 19, exploring the concept of greenhouses and boundaries in relationships. The episode begins with a humorous take on attention deficit disorder and the challenges of staying on task when in a good mood. Maurice reflects on their initial resistance to the idea of boun...

Join Cody Haws and his group members, Brandon and Chandler, as they discuss their favorite superheroes and delve into the concept of uncommon escapes in this engaging podcast episode. While they share their personal connections to characters like Batman, Superman, and Captain America, they also explore the notion of seeking solace and purpose in uncommon places, especially in their relationship wi...

In this section of the recording, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, continues to explain the process of using the Agile planning tool and personal growth through D.A.R. (Discover, Act, Reflect) sessions. Here's a summary: Skipping Menu Items : Maurice advises listeners to skip sections of the menu that are not applicable to their current needs. This allows for a more personal...

In this episode, we delve into the challenging but vital process of discerning the voices within ourselves. Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, emphasizes the importance of recognizing the influence of the Holy Ghost and distinguishing it from negative influences. The key takeaway is to focus on how these voices feel rather than what they say. Segment 1: Discerning Voices Maurice h...

In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of scheduling and how it can dramatically impact your determination and motivation. Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, emphasizes the importance of taking small but meaningful steps to ensure you stay on track with your goals. Discover the power of planning your next "Power Session" and how it can lead to transformative resu...

In this episode, we dive into the concept of starting fresh in your relationship, as if you've never met before. Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, takes us through the steps of clearing past baggage, approaching your partner with a clean slate, and navigating the process of rebuilding a connection. Let's explore how to create a born-again relationship from the ground up....

In this coaching session led by Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, participants learn the concept of reverse planning to overcome obstacles and achieve their goals. The session focuses on identifying upcoming events that individuals want to execute successfully and then working backward to uncover potential challenges and solutions. Maurice encourages participants to think about s...

In this episode, we explore the concept of iteration and how it applies to improving relationships. Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the significance of systematic and organized attempts to enhance connections with our partners. We also discuss common mistakes individuals make when trying to improve their relationships and the importance of thorough preparation. Segment 1: The Itera...

In this concluding portion, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, summarizes key points and provides further guidance on the process of navigating a relationship with a husband who is not fulfilling his role as a spouse: Notebook and Preparation: Maurice suggests that a notebook should be prepared listing everything that could be of concern for discussion. This notebook is meant to f...

In this section, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses the process of rebuilding trust and repairing a marriage after betrayal trauma. Here are the key points covered: Understanding the Origin of Avoiding the Past: Maurice explains that some men are under the impression that it's best to avoid discussing the past. This thinking stems from certain situations, like battle...

In this section, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, addresses the challenges faced by individuals who are in relationships with spouses who are not receptive to their pain or trauma. He provides further insights and guidance: Recognizing Unfairness and Choosing Survival: Maurice acknowledges the unfairness of the situation but stresses the importance of focusing on survival. The a...

In this portion of the conversation, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, addresses a question about sharing pain and trauma with a spouse who might not be receptive. Maurice acknowledges the difficulty of this situation and offers guidance on how to approach it. Maurice emphasizes the importance of safety and advises individuals to ensure their own safety before sharing their feeli...