Listening Ears

Send us Fan Mail Some patterns don’t feel like patterns. They feel like “this is just who I am.” And that’s exactly why they can run your life for years without being questioned. We sit with the uncomfortable possibility that what feels like identity might actually be repetition, conditioning, or a survival role you learned long ago. If you’ve ever wondered why you keep tolerating the same treatme...

Send us Fan Mail That quiet sentence, “Let me just do one more thing,” can run your whole life if you let it. I’m talking about the tiny delays that look like responsibility on the outside but feel like self-erasure on the inside: wiping the counter before you eat, sending one more text before you rest, doing one more task before you finally do the thing that is for you. I walk through how this pa...

Send us Fan Mail Fear isn’t always loud. Sometimes it sounds like good sense: wait a little longer, get a little more prepared, revisit it next month when life is calmer. That quiet fear can keep you “almost ready” for years, and it’s one of the fastest ways to lose momentum without noticing. I talk about how hesitation, perfectionism, and overthinking can disguise themselves as maturity, while se...

Send us Fan Mail You can’t always explain the shift, but you can feel it. The things that used to fit start to feel heavy. The version of you that kept waiting, shrinking, and scanning the room for approval starts to feel tired. I’m talking about that tender turning point where personal growth gets real, not because you’re broken, but because you’re ready to stop living from an old identity. We ge...

Send us Fan Mail Something shifts when you realize you cannot keep living on volume. Season three of Listening Ears Podcast starts with a different kind of promise: we are not going louder or heavier, we are going deeper. If you have been feeling that quiet pull to slow down, get honest, and finally hear yourself again, you are exactly who we made this season for. We talk to the woman who has been...

Send us Fan Mail What goes unsaid often speaks louder than what we express. As we tiptoe around difficult conversations and uncomfortable truths, we believe we're preserving peace. But are we? In this heartfelt exploration of avoidance, I delve into the silent erosion happening in our closest relationships when we choose comfort over courage. Those unspoken words don't simply disappear—t...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever wondered what it truly takes to build connections that don't just survive, but deeply thrive? The answer might surprise you - it starts with you. Throughout this soul-stirring exploration, we uncover how self-awareness creates the foundation for every meaningful relationship in our lives. True connection requires courage - the willingness to face the messy, comp...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt that stinging dismissal when someone casually refers to your business as your "little hobby"? Those seemingly innocent words carry weight, subtly diminishing what might be your life's work and passion. Today's episode confronts this common experience faced by mother entrepreneurs, creators, and visionaries. We explore the powerful truth that...

Send us Fan Mail Celebrating three years of the Listening Ears podcast with a reflection on the power of the liminal space – that messy, in-between place where authentic creation happens. We explore why your voice matters most when you're in transition, and how sharing from uncertainty creates deeper connections than waiting for perfect clarity. • The liminal space is the uncertainty between...

Send us Fan Mail Staying grounded amid chaos isn't about perfection—it's about finding that crucial space between stimulus and response. When your child spills milk all over their homework while you're juggling your day job and dinner prep, how do you respond? That momentary pause, that deep breath before reacting, can transform the entire situation. This episode explores the art of...

Send us Fan Mail The quiet voice beneath the chaos of motherhood whispers, "I'm still here." But in a world that sees you primarily as mom—the snack maker, trip planner, peacekeeper, and scheduler—that voice often goes unheard. This intimate bonus episode of Listening Ears creates a safe space for women to reconnect with their authentic selves beyond the beautiful but all-encompassi...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever stood before a mirror, gazing into your own eyes, and realized you didn't truly know the person staring back? Today, I, invite you into an intimate dance of self-discovery and self-love, guiding you through the empowering act of cultivating the relationship we often overlook – the one with ourselves. In this soulful exploration, we uncover how this profound bond...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever experienced a failure that completely reshaped your understanding of success? Join me, Vernae Bezear, as we unwrap the unexpected gifts of our missteps and grow from what initially seems like defeat.  On this episode of The Listening Ears Podcast, we redefine failure and transform it into a powerful catalyst for growth. You'll learn to pivot from seeing setbacks...

Send us Fan Mail Unearth the power that's been residing within you all along as we journey together into the depths of inner strength on this episode of Listening Ears Podcast.  I'm Vernae Bezear, your guide on this expedition, and I assure you, this exploration goes beyond physical prowess – it's a dive into mental toughness, emotional resilience, and the wisdom that surfaces from...

Send us Fan Mail What if the safest place you could ever find is not where you live, but within yourself? What if your body, mind, and spirit were your sanctuary, your home? This episode of the Listening Ears Podcast invites you on a journey of introspection, mindfulness, and self-awareness, prompting you to explore the concept of 'home' beyond the four walls and a roof. Together, we&apo...

Send us Fan Mail Are you constantly juggling tasks, responsibilities, and uncertainties, feeling like peace is just out of your reach? What if I told you the tranquility you yearn for lies in the present moment, right here, right now?  Remember, finding peace and acceptance is not an overnight journey; it requires patience and self-compassion. Come, lend us your listening ears as we share transfor...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to Season 2 of Listening Ears Podcast!   Have you ever wondered about the strength that comes from embracing your true self, from quieting the noise and truly listening to that inner voice? This season of Listening Ears podcast propels us on a journey inward, exploring the powerful realms of self-acceptance, self-discovery and intentional living. We'll navigate throug...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 13: From Breakdown to Breakthrough In this episode I share:    How the quote by Carl Jung reminds us that we are not what happened to us, we are only what we choose to be! How loving myself and choosing myself has brought me to this breakthrough! Season 1 is Done! Join me for Season 2 coming in 2023! IG  @moderndaymom247 Listen in.. . If anything in this podcast resonated...

Send us Fan Mail I n this episode I share:    How to listen to yourself and others from a place of nothing. How learning to listen without any meaning on it is the most important thing you can do in a relationship. Follow me on ---> IG   @moderndaymom247 Listen in.. . and... If anything in this podcast resonated with you, or if you would like to comment, send me a message on IG  @moderndaymom24...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 11: Speak your mind-TODAY In this episode I share:    Why being sure of what you want, need, and desire is vital for you to be fulfilled. Why speaking up for yourselves isn't selfish. Some reasons why people can't "hear" you. IG  @moderndaymom247 Listen in.. . If anything in this podcast resonated with you, or if you would like to comment, send me a mes...

Send us Fan Mail Question : How do you find the strength to be who you are now? In this episode (#10) for the first time, I  answer a listener's question.  I share... How I find strength in my everyday tasks. Why I believe strength is relative. Listen in.. . If anything in this podcast resonated with you, or if you would like to comment, send me a message on IG  @moderndaymom247 Be sure to hi...

Send us Fan Mail How do you find JOY in your everyday life? In this episode (#9) I share: How I used rewards and punishment to shape my entire existence. How I frame tasks with intentionality. 7 Ways I find JOY in my everyday life. Listen in.. . If anything in this podcast resonated with you, or if you would like to comment, send me a message on IG  @moderndaymom247 Be sure to hit the follow butto...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode (#8) I share: How I thought I was daring greatly by jumping into my life (but wasn't really). How negative self-talk and negative ways of being can cripple you. How being vulnerable, patient, and honest with yourself can equal a life worth living. Listen in.. . If anything in this podcast resonated with you, or if you would like to comment, send me a message o...

Send us Fan Mail Have you been honest with yourself? In this episode I share: How being honest and vulnerable with myself was one of the most difficult things I have ever done. 3 ways you can begin to be HONEST with yourself Today . Listen in.. . If anything in this podcast resonated with you, or if you would like to comment, send me a message on IG  @moderndaymom247 Be sure to hit the follow butt...

Send us Fan Mail Are you afraid of happiness?  Do you actively sabotage happiness so as to avoid bad feelings? In this episode I share: What cherophobia (happiness anxiety) is and looks like. A true story about when I believe this began to manifest in my life. Tips that have helped me to combat happiness anxiety. Listen in.. . If anything in this podcast resonated with you, or if you would like to...