Life Turned On: Stories of Sexual Self-Discovery in Midlife & Beyond

In this episode, we dive deep into the journey of finding pleasure after trauma with three unique guests: Faith Hartzell, Mistress Diana d'Arc, and Erin Saylor. We explore various perspectives within the context of brain science, BDSM, and advocacy. Our guests share their expertise, discussing how trauma affects the brain's ability to experience pleasure, the role of neuroplasticity in h...

In this episode, we discuss the topic of conscious uncoupling with guest Michele Heffron, a certified life relationship and divorce coach. Michele shares her journey, the concept of conscious uncoupling, and its five-step program aimed at helping individuals move through divorce with grace and personal growth. We also discuss the role of shame, power, control, and setting healthy boundaries. This...

In this episode, we connect with Susan Morgan Taylor, a renowned somatic sex therapist, to delve into the profound topics of sex, money, and power. Susan shares her transformative journey from a sexless marriage to a place of profound self-discovery and healing. She discusses the impact of social scripts, myths, and power dynamics on our sexual experiences and relationships. Susan also introduces...

In this episode, Marta, a psychic medium, shares her inspiring journey of overcoming a challenging upbringing marked by addiction, emotional abuse, and body shaming. Through her story, we explore how she navigated an abusive marriage, found healing in self-pleasure, and reclaimed her sense of self. Marta, now an empowered soul and heart reigniter, helps others tap into their intuition, step into t...

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of BDSM with Lady Dane, a professional dominatrix based in Denver. Lady Dane shares her journey into becoming a pro dom, discussing the nuances of her work, power dynamics, and her experiences with clients exploring their kinks. She also highlights the themes of sex, money, and power, emphasizing the importance of community and mentorship in the BDSM sc...

In this episode, we delve into the fascinating world of sex magic with the amazing Lona Garner, our returning guest. Join us as we explore what sex magic is, its connections with Tantra, and its powerful potential in manifesting desires. Lona shares her journey, debunks myths, and offers a comprehensive walk-through of a sex magic ritual. Whether you're curious or ready to dive deeper into th...

In this episode, we dive deep into the intersection of beauty, aging, sexuality, and power in a society obsessed with youth and appearance. Our special guest, Grace Grimes Chapman, founder of Inclusive Aesthetics, shares her wealth of knowledge and experience on these topics. With over 30 years in the medical field and 20 of those as a dedicated nurse practitioner, Grace offers an inclusive approa...

In this episode, Norma Buster shares her unique perspective as both an advocate and a survivor of image-based sexual abuse. As Chief of Staff at CA Goldberg PLLC, a victim's rights law firm, and an online sex worker, Norma discusses the importance of compassionate responses to victims, her journey from being a client to a key figure in her firm, and her advocacy in the sex-positive community....

In this episode, we discuss heavy themes such as trauma, sexual assault, abuse, and coercion with guest Faith Hartzell. Faith shares her extensive background in human sexuality, domestic violence, and advocacy within the LGBTQ community. We touch upon topics like self-advocacy, financial abuse, reproductive coercion, and human trafficking. Practical advice for supporting those facing abuse, includ...

In this solo episode, Shauna explores the concept of virginity and delves into various models of understanding sex: from the capitalistic and character-based approaches to the pleasure and sexual health models, offering a fresh perspective on each. She also examines the pervasive influence of hustle culture on our sex lives. This thought-provoking episode is a call to reimagine our sexual selves b...

With our guest Tiffany Jones, we dive into the journey of awakening the feminine in a culture driven by hustle and constant productivity. We explore the importance of reclaiming feminine energy and how it can help us reconnect with our intuition, creativity, and inner fulfillment. By embracing the feminine, we create space for rest, flow, and deeper alignment in our lives. Join us as we discuss ho...

Join us as we dive deep into the powerful ways high control religions shape our sexual self-discovery. This conversation uncovers the profound impact strict religious environments can have on our perceptions of sex, our bodies, and our personal power, especially for women. We’ll hear from repeat guest Elizabeth Tidwell who grew up in the LDS church, navigating shame, control, and repression—factor...

Joined by sex therapist, Kayla Moore, we explore the deep connection between sex, spirituality, and power—and what it means for women to reclaim their role as stewards of money in today’s world. We dive into the sacred feminine practices rooted in ancient traditions, where priestesses not only embodied spiritual wisdom but also stewarded wealth and influence in their societies. To work with Kayla...

In today’s episode, we’re exploring the empowering feminine movement practice known as S-factor, which blends sensuality, embodiment, and self-discovery. Our guest, Bonni Cardoza discusses how S-factor has transformed her life and how movement plays a vital role in connecting with the body in a new, liberating way. Join us for this enlightening conversation! To connect with Bonni, visit bonnicardo...

In this episode, we dive deep into the often-overlooked barriers that prevent us from fully receiving pleasure in our lives. Whether it’s guilt, stress, unworthiness, or cultural expectations, many of us—especially women—struggle with shifting out of go-mode to allow ourselves to truly embrace and enjoy moments of pleasure. We explore how these barriers take shape, how they affect our ability to c...

In this episode, we chat with Rebecca Bailey, a seasoned professional in the adult entertainment industry, to explore the intersecting themes of sex, money, and power within the production of ethical porn. Rebecca shares her journey from content creation to working professionally as both an on-screen performer and a model liaison, highlighting the importance of safety, empowerment, and equal pay i...

In this insightful episode, we explore the powerful intersections of sex, money, and power with Patty Alfonso, globally known as the Orgasmic Body Whisperer. Patti discusses her journey of self-discovery and the significance of body awareness in harnessing orgasmic energy for a fulfilled life. She delves into topics like the chakra system, the importance of embodiment, and the concept of orgasmic...

In this episode, we're diving into a topic that’s often considered “taboo,” yet holds incredible potential for healing and transformation. Our guest Lona Garner is a Neo Tantra Teacher and Sexual Bliss Coach using the powers of ancient Tantric practices combined with cutting edge somatic healing to bring you whole-life liberation through your sexuality!  We'll be discussing the dynamics...

Understanding our cycles and working with our bodies can be a source of power. In this episode, we will look at our menstrual cycles through the lens of Sex, Money and Power. Womb Guide and Menstrual Cycle Coach, Elizabeth Tidwell walks us through her own journey and shares how our cycles can impact everything from our libido to how we schedule our work weeks! You can stay in touch with Elizabeth...

This season, we're diving into one theme through a variety of lenses. Over the course of Season 3 we will explore the ideas of Sex, Money and Power and how they influence and shape our stories of sexual self discovery. For conversation starters that will take you deeper in your own journey, visit lingerboutique.com . Wait for the pop-up or scroll to the bottom to sign up for our newsletter. I...

 Welcome to the Season 2 finale of "Life Turned On"! Join us as we reflect on the common threads woven through our diverse conversations. This season’s big themes were: all bodies deserve pleasure, embodiment, and the need for sex-positive communities. We explored how pleasure is a right for all, regardless of age or ability, the importance of being present in our bodies, and the value o...

Booty play is becoming increasingly popular for all genders, but today we're going to talk about it from a woman's perspective. From consent, communication, and cleanliness to preparation and pleasure, we cover a lot of territory with repeat guest, Katie Nelson. You'll walk away with some great tips for getting started, and even if anal is not for you, you'll still learn some s...

In this episode, we delve into the world of tango, exploring how this passionate dance transcends mere movement to become a profound expression of connection, intimacy, and embodiment. Discover how tango serves as a silent conversation between partners, fostering a deep sense of trust and mutual presence. In this conversation with Jennifer Jaymes, we discuss the physical and emotional nuances that...

Let's explore what intentionality, nuance and communication look like in the context of diverse relationship models. From monogamy to non-monogamy and everything in between, there has never been a better time to build your own adventure and co-create the life and relationship(s) you really want. CNM resources: Polysecure by Jessica Fern Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton Opening...

Can someone hold conservative religious beliefs AND be polyamorous? Find out what that can look like in this week's episode with our guest, Wendy. In this episode, we talk about how finding a third way, thereby saving her marriage while honoring herself. We talk about the importance of community and the impacts of growing up and living in purity culture. If you’d like to share your story of s...