Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity

In this video, I share the success story of Giselle who was stuck in a toxic relationship with her husband. So many times when I work with clients who are stuck in a toxic relationship I hear the words "I feel lost and broken". This is a very common theme in toxic relationships because the victim is working so hard to adapt to their partner's behavior. Watch the video and find out h...

Anxiety is one of the most common mental health concerns in the United States. According to the National Alliance of Mental Health, over 40 million adults in the U.S. (19.1%) have an anxiety disorder. 7% of children aged 3-17 experience issues with anxiety each year. If you are feeling → Apprehensive or dread → Tense or jumpy → Restlessness or irritability → Anticipating the worst and being watchf...

In this video, I share the success story of how a client of mine overcame her partner’s abusive behavior. You will also see how I use the Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) approach to help her. Many times a toxic relationship can be fixed…But only if both of you are willing to undergo change, and make the relationship better. Sometimes, the best way is just to end it. In this vi...

Every relationship has its flaws. In this video, I share some of the underlying truths about why a partner can be toxic. One of the biggest takeaways that I share is that toxic behavior is not something you’re born with… It can also be from your past, traumas, and memories. This video shares a real-life success story of a couple who I worked with…you will be amazed how they have changed their life...

Today, I'm joined by my daughter Arielle Creager who is a personal trainer, group fitness instructor, and holistic nutritionist based in Los Angeles for a father-daughter dialogue around getting out of self-sabotage and into action. In this conversation, we talk about 1. Food  2. Fitness  3. Relationships If you are ready to change your relationship with food and exercise so that you can fina...

We are in an ever evolving universe and change is the only constant thing we can expect. As a marriage and family therapist with 35+ years of working with couples I believe in learning the importance of developing a sustainable environment...especially when it comes to our intimate relationships. Regarding intimate relationships, we see a high divorce rate and much infidelity. In a more broad scop...

We’ve all had them, those conversations with our partner where we feel we must at all costs be right. In this podcast, relationship expert and therapist Todd Creager discusses when and why having to be right is sometimes just wrong. Watch the video for his advice and find out how you can transform these conversations from having to be right into one where you experience more closeness, love and jo...

Is your relationship stuck in a rut or does it feel like you are in a cycle of bickering and arguing? I see this a lot in couples I work with...and I do know one thing that really works to stop the cycle and that is to start looking at your partner with new eyes... Perception runs our behavior. How we perceive our partners affect how we treat our partners and ultimately that affects how we contrib...

Spending quality time together is important to the health of your marriage. For long term couples, the biggest problem is finding the motivation and carving out this much needed quality time. Now, what do I mean by quality time? Quality time is when you actually can feel this positive intensity with each other that since you had when you were dating, when you slow down... You took the time to talk...

We all have at times felt not good enough and some people feel that way for a good part of their lives. Here I show you 5 quick things you can remember that can quickly and powerfully shift you to a higher self esteem. If this episode resonates with you, please share it with someone who could benefit and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more couples who are ready to transform their live...

In this podcast, I share how to spot when gaslighting is happening to you. I also share how you can find yourself caught in the gaslighter's web and share tips on how to break free. Todd is a relationship therapist and expert specializing in helping couples heal from toxic relationships, infidelity, identify why cheating happened, reconnect with their partner, rekindle passion and intimacy, a...

In this podcast, therapist Todd Creager discusses the often overlooked negatives of asking someone to forgive when it is not in their best interest. As a matter of fact, it could be another form of gaslighting leading to continue the pattern of a lack of validation for an interpersonal victim. Todd is a relationship therapist and expert specializing in helping couples heal from toxic relationships...

In this podcast, Marriage and Family Therapist Todd Creager discusses the effects of dysfunctional families where a young child had to take care of their mommy (or daddy or both), rather than the other way around. When this happens in childhood, you believe your role is to make other people happy and when you carry that into adulthood you end up focusing on the happiness of others rather than your...

In this podcast, Todd Creager, sex expert and therapist from Huntington Beach, talks about a very important topic, how to rekindle and re-stimulate your marriage. Watch the video and find out what the #1 most important thing you can do for your intimate relationship. TAKE ACTION: ============ Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship...

In this podcast, Todd discusses menopause and sexuality, specifically the loss of libido and other intimate issues that women experience during and after menopause. Menopause has both physical and emotional consequences for women, mainly due to hormone changes. In this video, he discusses the biggest inhibitors that prevent women from enjoying sex during midlife and beyond and offers tips on what...

Renowned Orange County sex therapist and expert Todd Creager discusses the 3 most common causes of low sexual desire in Men and what you can do about it. TAKE ACTION: ============ Todd provides sex therapy, relationship counseling and couples retreat in the Orange County area, focusing on enhancing intimacy, connection, overcoming infidelity, and other related topics. Based out of Huntington Beach...

Sex is energy and just like electricity could be used for many different purposes based on what it is used for, the same goes for sexual energy. Renowned Orange County sex therapist and expert Todd Creager discusses sex across our 7 main energy centers in our body and awareness of this can be useful in cultivating a phenomenal sex life. TAKE ACTION: ============ Todd provides sex therapy, counseli...

Orange County sex therapist and marriage expert Todd Creager talks about infidelity and if revenge cheating is a good idea or a bad idea. Todd examines the topic in depth and shares his opinion on the subject, after helping many couples overcome infidelity around Orange County and beyond. Todd specializes in helping couples heal from infidelity, identify why cheating happened, reconnect with their...

Orange County sex therapist and marriage expert Todd Creager talks about what to do with the pain caused by infidelity. Todd specializes in helping couples heal from infidelity, identify why cheating happened, reconnect with their partner, avoid toxic relationships, and many other relationship topics. TAKE ACTION: ============ Todd offers marriage and relationship therapy services from his Hunting...

In this video, Orange County sex therapist and marriage expert Todd Creager discusses the 3 negative consequences of affairs on the betrayed partner. Infidelity is painful and for the betrayed, it could shoot their whole life trajectory in a negative way. Watch this short video where I share the most common negative things that I have noticed in helping thousands of betrayed partners and what you,...

Orange County sex therapist and marriage expert Todd Creager talks about the 4 types of interpersonal infidelity he most commonly treats. Infidelity is a symptom of something else that is deeper. Because of this, It is vitally important to understand the type of infidelity that has happened in order to understand and treat the factors that caused your partner to cheat. Todd specializes in helping...

Orange County toxic relationship therapist and marriage expert Todd Creager talks about toxic relationships and the importance of safeguarding your body and mind. Todd specializes in helping couples heal from infidelity, identify why cheating happened, reconnect with their partner, avoid toxic relationships, and many other relationship topics. TAKE ACTION: ============ Todd offers marriage and rel...

In this podcast, Todd Creager addresses the 7 ways you can break free from the grips of a Gaslighting Narcissist. Todd also shares why gaslighters are almost always narcissists and how they develop this personality disorder. If you think you are being controlled by a gaslighting narcissist, watch this short video and learn several ways you can break free from them. Todd specializes in helping coup...

If you’re a victim of gaslighting, there are 7 keys to recover from gaslighting that Todd Creager shares in this podcast. In his practice, he’s successfully helped others break free and recover from gaslighting relationships, this list is pulled directly from that work. Gaslighting is unfortunately more common than many people think. It is the process of being victimized by a person who regulates...

In this podcast, Todd Creager covers the concept of what gaslighting is. He addresses the concept of "micro-gaslighting" which he has seen in many couples that he works with. You might not be aware that you are doing this and he explains why we do it, how often we do it, what this looks like, and sounds like. Todd specializes in helping couples heal from toxic relationships, infidelity,...