Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Fear of abandonment can quietly run your life, shaping how you think, how you react, and how safe you feel in your relationships. In today’s episode, we’re getting very real about what fear of abandonment actually looks like in adulthood and how it shows up differently depending on your attachment style. Whether you identify as anxious, avoidant, or disorganized, this episode will help you underst...

We’ve all been there… they say all the right things, they sound so sure, and you let yourself believe this time will be different… until months (or years) later, it falls apart. In today’s episode, I’m walking you through what actually needs to be true for someone to be genuinely ready for secure, healthy love and this applies not only to the person you’re dating, but to you, too. This is about pr...

In this final episode of our Parent Wound & Your Attachment Style series, we’re talking about what inner child healing really is and why insight alone isn’t enough to create secure attachment. If you’ve done the self-work, listened to the podcasts, and still feel stuck in the same relationship patterns, this episode will help you understand what’s actually missing. True healing happens when we...

In this episode of Let’s Get Vulnerable , we continue our 3-part series The Parent Wound & Your Attachment Style by exploring how the father wound shapes the way you experience love, intimacy, and self-worth. I’m breaking down how emotional absence, inconsistency, criticism, or unpredictability from a father figure wires your nervous system and becomes the blueprint for the partners you choose...

In today’s episode, I’m opening up a brand-new series that I felt deeply called to create, Parent Wound and Your Attachment Style . We’re starting with the mother wound and how early caregiving experiences shape your attachment style, your nervous system, and the way you show up in romantic relationships. If you’ve ever noticed yourself spiraling in dating, pulling away when things get close, or r...

In today’s episode of Let’s Get Vulnerable , I’m joined by my dear friend and the internet’s favorite sex expert, Dr. Tara, for an honest, empowering, and deeply human conversation about sex, shame, and secure connection. We talk about why so many of us feel disconnected from pleasure, how sexual empowerment is about so much more than sex itself, and why learning to communicate your desires is one...

What if the most important work you do this year has nothing to do with fixing, achieving, or proving and everything to do with how you relate to yourself ? In today’s episode, I’m bringing us back to the heart of the work. Amid all the noise, trends, and viral advice, I’m sharing the grounded, science-backed truth about what actually builds real self-love and self-worth. If 2026 has started off f...

As we close out the year and step into a fresh chapter, I wanted to create an episode that feels grounding, clarifying, and empowering. This episode came from a place of deep reflection, on this show, on relationships, and on what it actually looks like to build secure, healthy love. Sometimes the most powerful clarity doesn’t come from what we should tolerate or work harder at, but from getting c...

If you’re looking back on 2025 feeling frustrated, discouraged, or quietly disappointed that the same patterns showed up again, this episode is for you. This is the conversation I wish I had heard during some of the hardest New Year seasons of my life. In today’s episode, I walk you through the real shifts that actually change your life, not surface-level resolutions, not hustle, not forcing yours...

Welcome back to Part 2 of our After a Hard Year series. As we close out 2025, I want to help you go deeper than surface-level reflection and into the patterns that may have quietly shaped your year, especially in your relationships, boundaries, stress responses, and self-worth. In today’s episode, we’re exploring attachment styles and why so many people repeat painful cycles despite being self-awa...

2025 was a lot. Maybe it pushed you in ways you didn’t expect—relationships, work, health, family, you name it. And now you’re looking ahead to 2026, hoping for something different. In this first episode of my three-part series, we’re doing the deep, intentional work of reflecting on your year so you can step into the next one with clarity, purpose, and self-compassion. Get ready to uncover the em...

In this final episode of my Hard Truth Series , I’m sharing the truths about healing that most people are not prepared for. The ones I wish someone had told me earlier in my own journey. From navigating grief during the holidays, to understanding why healing takes longer than we want, to learning why awareness alone is not transformation, this episode is an invitation to slow down, make space for...

Dating can feel exhausting, confusing, and emotionally overwhelming especially when you’re doing “all the right things” and still ending up anxious, disappointed, or stuck in the same painful patterns. In Part 2 of the Hard Truth Series , I’m breaking down why dating feels so hard when you have insecure attachment and why trying harder, dating more, or chasing chemistry isn’t the answer. Inside th...

If you’ve done all the work,  read the books, saved the posts, listened to the podcasts, and yet you’re still ending up in the same relationship patterns, this episode is for you. I’m sharing the truths about attachment, dating, and healing that are often avoided because they’re uncomfortable… but they’re also the ones that actually create change. This is a grounded, compassionate, no-fluff e...

If you’ve ever felt incredible chemistry with someone… only for them to suddenly pull away, go cold, or confuse the heck out of your nervous system, this episode is for you. We break down the real signs of avoidant attachment (without shame, without villainizing, and with so much nuance), so you can finally understand what’s happening in your relationships and what to do next. These are the strate...

If you’ve ever found yourself Googling “How do I get an avoidant to choose me?” or “How do I make an emotionally unavailable person love me?” This episode is your wake-up call. I’m giving you the truth no one online seems to want to say out loud. You cannot “make” anyone love you… but you can understand the deeper wounds that keep pulling you toward emotionally unavailable partners in the first pl...

If you’ve ever wondered what real secure attachment feels like, not the Instagram version, not the watered-down definition, but the lived, embodied, grounded experience, this episode is for you. In this final installment of the Attachment Style SOS Series, I’m walking you through what secure attachment looks like in your nervous system, your identity, your dating life, and your relationships. My h...

Welcome back to the Attachment Style SOS Series ! In today’s episode, I’m diving deep into disorganized attachment . The style that feels like craving closeness one moment and wanting to run for the hills the next. If relationships feel like emotional whiplash, if you’ve ever felt “too much,” “too complicated,” or like you become a different person when you’re triggered… this episode will help you...

Welcome back to Part 2 of the Attachment Style SOS Series! Today I’m breaking down avoidant attachment in a way that finally makes sense through the lens of the nervous system, your early experiences, and the cultural messages that reward emotional distance. If you’ve ever craved connection but shut down the moment it gets close, this episode is going to be a game-changer. Inside the episode: Why...

If you’ve ever felt like your emotions take over the moment a connection feels uncertain… or you find yourself spiraling, overthinking, and craving reassurance even when you know it’s “too much,” this episode is going to feel like a deep exhale. Today, we’re diving into anxious attachment through a compassionate, science-backed lens, exploring your nervous system, your past relational experiences,...

Today’s episode is such a special one. I’m sitting down with one of our incredible ESL graduates, Carlina, whose story of healing, sobriety, self-discovery, and stepping into secure, emotionally available love will move you to your core. If you’ve ever struggled with repeating relationship patterns, feeling “too much,” navigating disorganized attachment, or doubting whether secure love is possible...

Oh my gosh… this episode is SUCH an important one. I’m breaking down the brand-new research on attachment trends for 2025, and I’m giving you a full masterclass on the four attachment styles: anxious, avoidant, disorganized (fearful avoidant), and secure. Whether you’re brand new here or you’ve been with me since the early days, this is a must-listen episode for anyone who cares about their emotio...

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in that uncomfortable “in-between” space, wondering whether to stay or walk away from your relationship, this episode is for you. I’m giving you the clearest framework I’ve ever taught to help you regulate your emotions, reconnect with your self-trust, and make decisions from a grounded place instead of fear or overwhelm. This is your roadmap back to clarity, he...

In today’s episode, I sat down with my dear friend Morgan Huelsman, you know her on instagram as Web Girl Morgan, for an honest, vulnerable conversation about healing after toxic relationships, rebuilding self-trust, and opening yourself up to emotionally available, secure love. We dive into what it really takes to become ready for the kind of relationship that meets you with empathy, consistency,...

You absolutely can heal from disorganized attachment and I’m living proof of it. For over a decade, I was stuck in chaos, emotional highs and lows, and constant self-doubt. My relationships were a reflection of the deep wounds I hadn’t yet faced. In this episode, I’m opening up about my own journey with disorganized attachment, the rock-bottom moments, the painful patterns, and the neuroscience-ba...