Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Wow-I have never talked about this before! And it’s a juicy topic.    Today’s episode is a question straight from the audience.    “What if I find myself caring about what my friends and family will think about my new boyfriend?”    Inside of this episode :   -I give you a comprehensive framework for making dating decisions  -I help you understand the importance of protecting the early stages  -I...

Get ready for a deep dive into WHY you are attracted to the “bad boys”   Many of us have been there…we logically know they are bad for us, but our heart is screaming: YES, I’M INTO HIM!    Inside of this episode I break down:  Why relationship health is so important  Beliefs that support attraction to unavailable partners  How your attachment style can show up in these kinds of dynamics    You des...

This is a TOUGH LOVE EPISODE!!   Get ready for a totally new way of looking at fear.    Inside of this episode:  - I break down a decision making framework that supports your best self  -I share with you what it feels like if you’re making decisions out of fear -I teach you how to use fear to your advantage instead of letting it sabotage you    I made this episode for everyone who struggles to rea...

In today’s episode: ONE OF MY FAVORITE TOPICS OF ALL TIME!    We are talking about the anxious-avoidant trap.    That’s right we dive into WHY you are attracted to, who you are attracted to.    In addition we are going to talk about what happens when this attachment dynamic experiences conflict.    Inside of this juicy episode:  -We look at the truth behind anxious / avoidant attachment dynamics ...

Communication is KEY in any healthy relationship.    In today’s episode I get to the CORE of why we struggle to communicate    You will learn:  -The FOUR WORD sentence that keeps people stuck in relationships - The power of Acceptance and embracing reality  -How to never stay stuck in a toxic relationship ever again    This episode is short and sweet but it is POWERFUL.    If you’re ready to embra...

You asked for it, and I delivered!    Today’s episode is a good one!    I talk about:  -How to know if the relationship is worth your emotional investment  -Dating mindset that sets you up for success -The Key to Confident and relaxed dating    This is an extra juicy episode, and I know you will get A LOT out of it!    The dating questions came directly from my DM’s!!!    If you’re ready to do the...

Get ready for me to spill the tea on Netflix’s “The Ultimatum”    I go over each couple’s dynamic, and ways I think they could have shown up healthier.    Inside of the episode I give you:    -My professional analysis of each relationship dynamic  -I point out the relationships that were unhealthy (I discuss the exact instances of anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, and fearful-avoidant dynam...

Whoa this is a HIGH VALUE episode!    I have my good friend on the podcast today, and she does not hold back.    Inside of this episode:  -Sophia opens up about why she walked away from an engagement  -We discuss codependency and what she learned from co-dependent dynamics -We talk about dating after a major break-up and how to approach it in a healthy way  Aaaaaaaand so much more!    I love this...

Have you ever been so heartbroken that you’re certain you’ll never love again?!   Or perhaps you’ve tried to “get back out there” and you’ve felt haunted by your past experiences and unable to open yourself up to anyone   No matter your dating woes, I’ve got you covered!   Inside of today’s episode I am talking all things:  -Fully Releasing the Past  -Gaining Clarity on exactly what you want in a...

“I hate the dating apps”   I hear this multiple times a day from people I coach, or those of you messaging me in the DMs   And I get it, I really do.    That is why I wanted to share this special episode with you that will help you with your dating mindset and will give you the tools to meet people the “old fashioned way”    Inside of this episode I discuss:  -Four Key Words to use to support a he...

 This week on the podcast we have a very special guest!    It was my pleasure to interview Dr. John Delony    Inside of the episode we did a deep dive on:  -Understanding what trauma actually is (and how to begin to heal) -Building Self-Trust and Strengthening your Identity  -The power of Secure Attachment in Relationships  Aaaaaaand so much more!    Dr. John Delony is a bestselling author, mental...

Ready to add a new self-love practice to your toolbox?!   I’ve got you covered, boo!   Inside of this episode you will learn:  -The benefits of Dialectics  -How to practice acknowledging what we feel and moving forward  -Practicing calling in our highest and best self    If you loved this episode and realize you want to receive more tools, and finally do the healing work; I’m here to support you! ...

Your relationship with your body impacts your relationship health.    I used to believe I needed to reach my ideal body weight in order to “get the guy” This approach damaged my mental, physical, and emotional health    Inside of this episode I discuss:  -Why we fall into the trap of correlating our physical appearance with our worthiness  -Ways you can stop this toxic pattern  -How to begin to re...

You don’t want to miss this episode!!!    In a never before released format, you will get a sneak peak into an ESL program coaching session.    Inside of this episode I coach on the following:  -Securely attached dating and chemistry  -Understanding boundaries as a means for creating desire  -Differences in dating when newly securely attached    Aaaaaaaaand so much more!    I know you will love th...

I didn’t think I’d ever share an episode like this.    Not really sure I remember exactly what was said in this episode, but I know this: I openly talk about parts of my childhood experience.    Inside of this episode:  -I discuss the early childhood family dysfunction and loss I experienced  -I get really vulnerable about one of the most painful memories from my childhood  -I talk about my healin...

Andrea Ashley is my incredible guest today on the Let’s Get Vulnerable Podcast!   She is vulnerable, real, and very entertaining.    Our conversation is unfiltered and I know you will find it extremely beneficial.    Inside of this episode:    -Andrea opens about her recovery from alcoholism and growing up in a dysfunctional home  -She tells us the story of reaching her rock bottom as an adult; it...

I get this question a  lot:    “Are they a narcissist or is it their avoidant attachment style?!”   I break it down for you very simply so you will never have to ask this question again.    I give you everything you need to distinguish narcissism from avoidant attachment attachment    Inside of this episode  provide a deep dive on:  -The clinical definition of narcissistic personality disorder  -O...

The podcast episode you have been waiting for!    Today on the podcast I am joined by my good friend, and colleague Dr. Tracy!    Inside of this episode we are talking about:    -What happens in relationships when you can’t work through conflict  -Why you need repair (And a framework for implementing it!)  -Difficulties with repair through an attachment style lens    You do not want to miss this e...

This episode came straight from an audience question!    I will give you an exact framework for how to make this important decision.    Inside of this episode I will discuss:  -Exactly what you need to consider when deciding to get back together with your ex  -How to know you’re making this decision for the RIGHT reasons  -BONUS: I also discuss how to get over a relationship when you don’t know wh...

If you have been googling: “how to get over my ex”    I’ve got you covered with this episode, girl!    Inside of this episode I will cover all things forgiveness   Inside of this episode I explore:  -Why it is so important to forgive others (hint: it benefits YOU in a huge way)  -The forgiveness practice I’ve used for years  -The exact mantra I’ve used to support forgiveness    I also talk about r...

You can really want a relationship and be emotionally unavailable…   Inside of this episode I answer audience questions and I get into a few things you’re gonna want the answers to!   You will get the inside scoop on:  -How to have more engaging dating app conversations  -How to properly use the dating apps in your dating strategies  -How to know when you’re truly emotionally available (and what t...

I hope you enjoyed the last podcast episode, because this episode will dive even further into the Love is Blind Season Two drama!   Buckle up y’all you are getting my opinion on what we saw go down on the show!   There are definitely SPOILERS so if you have not watched the show and want to see for yourself how it unfolds, definitely wait on this episode!     Inside of this episode I am giving you...

Have you binge watched Love is Blind season 2 like me?    If so, you will LOVE today’s episode.    I am discussing the dynamic between Danielle and Nick.    Inside of this episode I break down:   Danielle’s attachment style  The unhealthy relationship patterns they find themselves in How the couple could save their relationship if they desired to    This episode will be so helpful to you if you’ve...

This might be my most vulnerable episode EVER    Seriously y’all-I am hoping my parents don’t listen to this episode, lol.    Inside of this episode designed to support you in having a great sex-life, Dr. Tara and I do a deep dive on:    Infidelity and Divorce; how a great sex life is a protector against divorce  How to communicate your sexual desires to your partner  Pleasure mapping: what it is,...

TOUGH LOVE ALERT    Inside of this episode I talk about:    -How your friendships might be getting the way of your healing  -How to protect your dating journey  -The importance of reconnecting to your inner guidance system and building self-trust   I also dive into the importance of this during the early stages of dating!    This episode will give you the kick in the butt you need to get your dati...