Let’s Finally Grow

We’re back with another episode, and today we’re talking about the questions we ask when we’re trying to get to know people — and how most of them don’t actually tell us anything real. We stay comfortable with surface‑level questions that lead to generic assumptions, and honestly… it’s keeping us disconnected. There’s a fear around vulnerability, around asking what actually built someone, around u...

In this episode we talk about how over giving isn’t as selfless as ya think.. whether we’re the one over giving or the one one soaking it up- it’s not doing either any good. I talk about where my over‑giving came from, why I used to accept it from others, and how both sides of that dynamic shaped the way I moved through relationships. It’s a double‑edged sword — giving isn’t the problem. It’s lear...

What if our biggest triggers are actually our biggest opportunities for growth? In this episode, I talk about the simple question that’s helped me stop spiraling in moments when I’m about to completely crash out: “What would my highest self do?” We dive into emotional triggers, self-awareness, and why some of life’s most uncomfortable moments might actually be invitations to evolve. Plus, I’m brea...

I’ve had enough conflicts in my life — and watched enough go completely unresolved — to know this is something we need to talk about. In this episode, I share my humility, the story times, the lessons, the solutions, and everything I’ve gathered so far. Most importantly, I talk about learning how to be wrong without letting my ego take control. I promise you’ll probably relate. Get your drink read...

Another vulnerable episode coming your way… In this one, I dive into how I accidentally stopped reacting to situations — and how that one shift changed my entire life. Don’t worry, as much as we get into the pros of this new lifestyle, I also share the humiliating stories from before I learned any of this. At the end of the day, we’re all doing the best we can. That’s why I’m here talking through...

Welcome back to another rude awakening. In this episode, I go deep into the storytime — like, the kind of deep where you might need a drink before I even get started. For the past three years, I somehow kept attracting the same type of man no matter where I was… my neighborhood, across the world, didn’t matter. If he was unavailable, I was front row. Eventually, I had to look in the mirror and ask...

On my journey in Bali, I was reminded how deeply body dysmorphia lives within me—and how common it is among women I know, regardless of shape or size. We rarely hear men speak about it, yet for women it feels almost universal, woven into our culture of comparison and self-criticism. In this episode, I explore why we’re so hard on ourselves, the silent weight of body dysmorphia, and the urgent need...

In this weeks episode I am no longer on American soil.. Your girl has touched down in Bali, Indonesia!! Let's talk about the adventure in itself of arriving. Then we can dive deeper in to what I'm feeling and experiencing while being in paradise. Its the start of a magical journey and I'm v grateful to be able to chat about it with you :)

I’ve spent a lot of time asking myself why making new female friends feels more dangerous than dating. This episode explores betrayal, trust, and the quiet fear that comes from being misunderstood by other women. I talk about how gossip, projection, and silence shape our relationships, and why naming this doesn’t make you disloyal — it makes you honest.

Men and women often interpret the same moments in completely different ways. In this episode, I unpack how those differences shape communication, create misunderstandings, and contribute to the fear many women carry around male intentions.

Every rebrand requires an ego death. In this episode, I reflect on what it really means to outgrow a version of yourself — the beliefs you once stood by, the people you once wanted, the situations you stayed in longer than you should have. From friendships to dating to jobs, growth asks us to release identities we once needed to survive. The reason we stay stuck isn’t because we don’t know better....

At some point, we have to accept that everyone has their own lessons — and no amount of advice, rescuing, or emotional labor can shortcut that. In this episode, I talk about the problem with constantly inserting ourselves into other people’s issues, and the equally damaging habit of dragging people into our own. There’s a difference between healthy support and emotional dependence, and learning th...

There comes a point in growth where you can’t unsee what no longer feels right. In this episode, I talk about the impact of the people and environments we surround ourselves with—friends, partners, family, work spaces—and how much they influence our emotional safety, confidence, and ability to grow. This is for anyone who has felt guilty for questioning a dynamic or wondered if they were “making i...

Dating culture feels confusing right now—and I don’t think it’s because people don’t want love. I think it’s because we’re not being honest about what we’re actually looking for. In this episode, I talk about choosing the scary route: saying what I want, being genuine, and letting people walk away if it doesn’t align. Not to manipulate. Not to pressure. But to create clarity. This isn’t about sham...

We’re back after an end-of-year break and stepping into the new year as the most ourselves we’ve ever been. ✨ 2025 was a year of growth, discipline, and learning how to show up even when it wasn’t easy. In this episode, I’m not talking about becoming a “new version” of yourself or setting a long list of resolutions. Instead, 2026 is about evolving on top of everything you’ve already built. Join m...

In this episode, we’re shifting the focus off who you’re dating and putting it back where it belongs — you. Before evaluating someone else’s qualities, intentions, or potential, it’s important to know what you bring to the table — both the strengths and the harder parts. I talk about why forming a relationship with yourself first creates confidence, clarity, and healthier dating dynamics. Not from...

This episode is all about one of my favorite uncomfortable truths: we really do overcomplicate our own lives… just fine. Your intuition is always trying to guide you toward the path that actually feels good in the long run, and somehow we still choose the route labeled “pain, chaos, and character development.” We talk about what happens when you ignore that quiet nudge and stay in situations that...

In this episode, I talk about the shift from wanting what I can’t have to finally choosing what actually chooses me back. There’s this whole narrative around “the chase,” but honestly? The real thrill is in the kind of connection that forces you to grow. The chill-girl act is just ego dressed up as confidence — and it will eat you alive. Trust me… I learned that the hard way, and I share a little...

The holidays aren’t easy for everyone — and it’s time we stop pretending they are. In this episode, we talk about family dynamics, the emotional pressure of “holiday perfection,” and why having a peaceful, loving family is actually a luxury, not the norm. If you feel stressed, guilty, or misunderstood this time of year, this episode gives you permission to choose peace, set boundaries, and create...

This episode is an honest conversation about the difference between looking composed and actually being okay on the inside. I’ve spent years caring more about how I’m perceived than how I truly felt — in dating, friendships, and self-identity. We’re ending those cycles :)#emotionalawareness#selfworth#boundariesmatter#selfvalidation#healingjourney#datingtruths#innerpeace#authenticity#selfrespect#se...

In this episode, I dive into the excuses we tell ourselves that keep us stuck, why change often feels impossible, and the surprising truth that transformation is always within reach. Together, we’ll unpack the mental blocks, limiting beliefs, and self-sabotaging habits that hold us back—and explore practical ways to step into the life we’re capable of creating. If you’ve ever wondered why change f...

In this episode of LFG with Ari, we dive into the idea of “The Game of Life.” On my own growth journey, I’ve been trying to understand how to stop repeating old cycles, manifest faster, and actually feel aligned with what I’m calling in. Seeing life as a game opened more doors than I ever knew existed — it taught me how to face challenges, level up, and keep winning in ways that feel real and grou...

The internet had a lot to say about Vogue’s “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing?” — but most people missed the real message. In this episode, I dive into what the article actually means: empowering women to be multi-dimensional, whether they’re single or in love. It’s not about rejecting relationships — it’s about remembering who you are outside of them.

I took a year off from drinking, dating, and going out — and it completely changed how I see myself. In this episode, I’m sharing how slowing down helped me find real happiness and start choosing what actually feels right for me.

In this episode, I open up about my self-love discovery and journey. For most of my life, I lived in doubt, fear, and anxiety — just trying to survive. It wasn’t until I made one small change that everything started to shift. I didn’t even realize I was beginning a self-love journey; I just knew I wanted something to change. Now, after committing to meditation and self-awareness, I finally underst...