SuzieQ

it's not you.

Health EN ↓ 65 episodes

We’re in a world where you’re frozen in fear. Afraid to say or do anything for fear of judgment and ridicule, you have become who everyone wants you to be. You have big dreams that gnaw away at you while you watch others write the book you wanted to write, deliver the speech you wanted to give, and get the clients that were perfect for you. You’re playing it safe - so no one can hurt you. And instead, you’re hurting yourself. it's not you. will show you that what other people do is never about you so you can get on making your magic, music or mischief - no matter who's in the room.

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SuzieQ

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Health

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Latest episode

Feb 19, 2025

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Episodes

Silencing the noise - Finding clarity in the still small voice 11.04.2024

Some people attribute it to God, others to the Universe, and some call it their guardian angels. In this episode, we delve into 'the still small voice' and its life-saving potential. I share numerous stories from people who have experienced its profound impact. However, this inner guidance remains elusive amidst the cacophony of our overbearing, chattering minds. The examples shared underscore the...

Overcoming Comparison and Fear of Failure 28.03.2024

In this episode, we delve into the topics of comparing ourselves to others and the fear of failure. A significant influence on these aspects is societal norms. We specifically address the pitfalls of relying solely on social proof when it comes to emulating and comparing ourselves to so-called 'influencers.' Additionally, we explore the roots of fear, which prompt a reevaluation of our deeply ingr...

Transforming Relationships and Self-Perception 19.03.2024

Explore the essence of integrity and its profound impact on relationships and self-perception. Learn practical strategies for honoring commitments to oneself and others. Experience the liberation that comes from reclaiming control over your life and living authentically. Tune in now to unlock greater peace, fulfillment, and authenticity. Ready to Slay Your Inner Demons? Feeling trapped by your fea...

How hiding our true selves impacts others (HINT: it’s not what you think!) 13.03.2024

In this episode, we'll explore the detrimental effects of wearing (proverbial) masks to please others. From uncovering childhood conditioning to embracing self-awareness, we'll delve into the journey of reclaiming your true self. By the end, my hope is you'll be inspired to shed societal expectations and embrace your authentic self, paving the way for genuine connections and lasting fulfillment. R...

Safeguarding your children against harmful influences 27.02.2024

The episode explores how beliefs, formed primarily during childhood, significantly influence behavior. It emphasizes the importance of being mindful of what children are exposed to and the impact of repetition on shaping their beliefs. Through various examples, including the influence of parental behavior and societal narratives, the episode underscores the need for parents to be vigilant guardian...

Unlock the secrets to mastering the art of not taking things personally. 20.02.2024

In this episode, you'll learn invaluable techniques to shift focus away from oneself and understand the true motivations behind others' actions. Discover how to reclaim personal power and find peace amidst chaos. Ready to Slay Your Inner Demons? Feeling trapped by your fears, self-doubt, and negative thoughts? It's time to break free! Join the "Slay Your Inner Demon" course and embark on a transfo...

From loss to liberation: Rediscovering purpose amidst pandemic chaos 13.02.2024

In this episode, we’ll talk about the positive shifts experienced by people during the chaos of recent years, particularly amidst the pandemic and its aftermath. You'll see that though often daunting, sometimes the most challenging times can be a catalyst for transformation and inner growth. And even through moments of despair can come moments of clarity, leading both men and women to reevaluate t...

Understanding our shadow self in times of crisis 07.02.2024

In this we delve into the concept of the "shadow self" and its emergence during times of crisis, such as the pandemic and vaccine rollout. Drawing parallels to the story of Jekyll and Hyde, we explore how repressed emotions and hidden aspects of our personalities can surface unexpectedly, affecting our relationships and behaviors.  Ready to Slay Your Inner Demons? Feeling trapped by your fears, se...

When something doesn't feel right: Why listening to others may be wrong 30.01.2024

The episode is a call for reclaiming personal sovereignty and trusting one's inner guidance... ...And why it's important to question authority, challenging the narrative of blindly following societal norms. The overarching message is to navigate life with confidence, free from fear, leading to a fulfilling existence marked by joy and inner peace. Ready to Slay Your Inner Demons? Feeling trapped by...

Lost in translation: What you say vs what they hear 23.01.2024

In this episode, we talk about how words can accidentally hurt people because everyone hears things differently based on their experiences. We discuss the idea that it's not your fault if someone reacts badly to what you say – that's their issue. We also touch on how trying to control what people say is a way of controlling them. The main point is that what you say might not be understood the way...

Beyond cancel culture- The weaponization of words in todays discourse 16.01.2024

Emphasizing that people's actions are often more about their desires for acceptance than a judgment of others, this discussion revolves around the consequences of expressing dissenting opinions in a society where conformity is often prioritized.  People are urged not to trust their own senses but to follow dictated beliefs blindly. In a world where truth itself is questioned, expressing divergent...

How to free yourself from shame and manipulation 16.01.2024

In this episode, I dive into the tactics of manipulation we all witnessed through misinformation in today's society. Drawing parallels to historical strategies, I'll show you the impact of false narratives, fear-based control, and the consequences of succumbing to societal pressures. Discover the critical importance of maintaining individual integrity and resisting the urge to let fear dictate dec...

Season 3 Get real with SuzieQ - Exploring behavior in the c***d years 16.01.2024

Discover the impact of fear-driven manipulation by those in power and the resulting division, isolation, and trauma. Season 3 promises a deep dive into the behaviors observed in the last four years, centered around the theme "It's not you. You will hear how external circumstances don't define you. And maintaining power and peace of mind is within your control. Ready to Slay Your Inner Demons? Feel...

Feeling miserable? Here's how to fix it (and it's free!) 23.09.2021

Our lives have drastically changed over the last year and a half. Many people are sad and suffering. Hopelessness is running ramped and the light at the end of the tunnel seems as dismal as ever. This episode is NOT about our current situation. It is about a feeling that the situation has exacerbated. And while nothing I share is new, it might just be a welcomed reminder that you can be happy - ev...

What would become of your fear if you stopped running from it? 07.09.2021

Healthy fear is good. Fear of snakes, dinosaurs and your mother in laws cooking. Unhealthy fear - the fear that stops you from pursuing things you love for fear of judgment - not so much. Living in fear means loads of regrets, dead wishes, and buried dreams. You didn't come this far to suffer the rest of the way. Fear can be beat. And you can beat it. For questions or topics you'd like to talk abo...

From autopilot to conscious living: Breaking the habit of unconscious daily patterns 26.08.2021

This episode uncovers our unconscious patterns, and behaviors that shape our daily routines. And that may be keeping you stuck and unfulfilled.  From morning rituals to ingrained habits we take a peek at the negative impact the wrong patterns have on our lives and what we can do about it. For questions or topics you'd like to talk about, or for inquiries about my services to see if I may be able t...

The illusion of free: How a scarcity mindset is sabotaging your success 10.08.2021

Embark on a profound exploration into the intricate web of scarcity thinking, perceived value, and the relative nature of our mindset. In this episode, we delve deep into the psychology that shapes our approach to life, relationships, and personal growth. Unraveling the layers of scarcity mindset, we shine a light on the hidden costs of seeking something for nothing and the profound impact it can...

Who would you be without your baggage? 10.08.2021

Sometimes the baggage we carry becomes like a third arm. We don't know what we'd do or who we'd be without it. Through the examples in this episode, you may get a strong sense of just how [not only] dumping your baggage will feel, but also life without it. For questions or topics you'd like to talk about, or for inquiries about my services, please email me at suz@suzieqsolutions.com Click here if...

If you change the way you look at things, will the things you look at change? 13.07.2021

People fear changing. More specifically, they want to change but fear if they do, they will lose something. Either love from family, or relationships with friends. But the reality is, they're losing more staying miserable than they'll ever lose by changing. And remember, what other people do is not about you. Ever. For questions or topics you'd like to talk about, or for inquiries about my service...

With all due respect...it's none of your business 15.06.2021

Why is it, when imposed upon disrespectfully, are WE the ones (seemingly) apologizing, or, what seems like - begging for forgiveness? We've got it backward. In answering a disrespectful question, or responding to an intrusive act, there is no 'all due respect.' THEY are the ones that should be framing their insensitive questions with it... ...not you feeling like you're disrespectful if you don't....

This is how to control the voices in your head [though you may not want to] 08.06.2021

Back in the day the Dr's (and everyone else for that matter) would label you with psychosis if you said you were hearing voices. Luckily, we are at a point in time where many things that were once vilified, are now considered normal. In this episode we dive into just that. And, give tools to rid yourself of the voices you DON'T want to hear! For questions or topics you'd like to talk about, please...

This is what people are [REALLY] saying about you when you're too scared to be your real self. 01.06.2021

It's almost at epidemic proportions - the fact that people are terrified to show and be their true selves. But what if you're doing more harm than good [you are]. In this episode, you may just get a shift in perception - and finally - maybe for the first time - actually feel safe in your own skin. For questions or topics you'd like to talk about, please email me at suz@suzieqsolutions.com Click he...

Moving beyond guilt: Reclaiming selfishness as a positive trait 25.05.2021

Your provided text is mostly grammatically correct, but I made a few adjustments for clarity and flow: In this episode, we delve into reclaiming selfishness as a positive trait, challenging societal norms and exploring the true nature of selfishness. Unveiling the paradox where society both rewards selflessness and craves selfishness, we unravel the guilt associated with prioritizing oneself. List...

How to manage being around difficult people (and not take it personal) 11.05.2021

There's always someone. Someone who flies into a rage, or belittles those around them, or is just hard to be around. It's just so much easier to be around happy people right? Here's the thing - nothing another person does is because of you... ...And understanding why they're like that will help you stop taking the things they do personally. This topic and the things I talk about are not easily dig...

Overcoming self-doubt: Discovering the truth there is nothing wrong with you 04.05.2021

Conquer self-doubt and discover the truth about yourself in this empowering episode. Learn how to interrupt negative thought patterns and break free from old habits. Explore the struggle of feeling flawed and learn how to overcome self-doubt. Gain practical insights and tools to make positive changes in your life. For questions or topics you'd like to talk about, please email me at suz@suzieqsolut...

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