It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+ Relationships

The dreaded smear campaign. Many people are held back from leaving their abuser because they fear the smear campaign. In this episode, I talk about when the campaign actually begins, how it looks, and what to do about it.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: https://calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I interview Trey De La Torre (@iwaslikeyo_trey) about his experience with abuse in a queer relationship.  Trey's website: https://treydelatorre.podia.com Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I go into detail about how an abusive person can behave during the holidays. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman 

In this episode, I talk about a big question survivors face when coming out of an abusive relationship. "Should I share my story?" I dive into some considerations when making this decision, some ways that you may be able to share your experience safely, as well as pros and cons. Website-thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: https://calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I talk about some of the feelings I felt early on in my relationship with my abuser. These can be HUGE red flags! Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I talk about a common occurrence in which abusive people conveniently "forget" they're married or otherwise have a strange story for why they still haven't signed their papers. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode, I interview Natalia (@_pollypocketprincess) about her experience in an LGBTQ+ abusive relationship.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I talk about how I broke the trauma bond with my abuser. I talk about some challenges I faced in the early days and some things that really helped.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I talk about how it feels to be one year no contact! I talk about how I got here and answer some questions.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I talk about what a trauma bond is and how you get in one.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I tell the story of our first date which for a very long time I told as a romantic tale. In addition, I'll talk about what was really going on with the knowledge I have now as a survivor and a certified trauma recovery coach.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I dive into the differences between love bombing and genuine connection. What does love bombing look like? What can you do if someone is love bombing you? What happens after love bombing?  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I talk about how moving quickly is an abuse tactic and can be a very dangerous approach to a new relationship.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode, I tell the story about a horrible day that I had that somehow turned into the worst day of my ABUSER'S life. This is a common occurrance in abusive relationships.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I talk about the myth that toxic sex is the best sex we will ever have.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I talk about the many subtle ways a narcissist will use sex to abuse you.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I talk about the kinds of people you'll encounter and the kinds of comments you may receive when you decide to talk about your abuse story.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I talk about the long line of people that a narcissist takes off and puts on their "supply shelf" as needed. If you like this and want more from me, you can find me on TikTok and Instagram at thelindsaygoodman or visit my website thelindsaygoodman.com Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I talk about the awkward, tense time from "let's break up" to no contact (Aug-Oct 2021). If you like this and want more from me, you can find me at thelindsaygoodman on TikTok and Instagram.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

In this episode I detail the day my abuser said "let's break up" and I finally took it seriously. Still, I wasn't free for another two months. Untangling yourself from a narcissist is no small feat! If you like this and want more from me you can find me at thelindsaygoodman on all social media. 1:1 coaching coming soon. DM me to get on the list!  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma reco...

In this episode I talk about how sleep deprivation can be used to abuse you. It serves to keep you mentally drained, unable to think straight, and thinking something is wrong with YOU. If you want more from me, you can find me at thelindsaygoodman on all social media.  Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

A friend recently asked me for dating advice and this is what came to mind. If you're after that forest fire kind of feeling, where does that leave you when the fire burns out? If you like this and want more from me, you can find me on TikTok and Instagram at thelindsaygoodman or visit my website thelindsaygoodman.com. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/theli...

Leaving an abusive person can be incredibly dangerous. In this episode I talk about leaving and share some stories from other creators when they tried to leave. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

Im this episode I process some of the struggles I have about being queer after about in a queer relationship. I’m curious what you can relate to! If you want more from me you can find me at Thelindsaygoodman on TT and IG or Thelindsaygoodman.com.

In this episode I discuss the difference between talking through sexuality and preferences in a loving way versus an invalidating, abusive way. If you want more from me you can find me at Thelindsaygoodman on TT and IG or at Thelindsaygoodman.com.